my pov for ishita running away. pls read..

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

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Posted: 10 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

Really? Was it Ishita or Ishima? Ishita had her own insecurity, that's why she ran away without thinking much.
It's not motherly love, if it was so, she would never run away. Coz it could cost Ruhi's custody. It was purely selfish Ishita Iyer, not selfish Ruhi's mother.

Raman is Ruhi's father, I guess you forgot that. And Ishita is separating a daughter from her father. And, today she proved that she loves Raman with Ruhi. She doesn't love Raman alone.

@bold:

from the beginning of the show it was always shown that ruhi was ishita's priority.. even raman know that ishita loved ruhi more than him.. even he himself admitted that he feels jealous that she loves ruhi more than him..

loving raman is different from loving ruhi.. ishita didnot get ruhi because of raman she got raman because of ruhi.. so it is obvious for her feel that they are there only if ruhi is there and that is what she clearly said in yesterday episode too..

she loves raman she loves ruhi but her love for ruhi is more than her love for raman but that doesnt mean she loves raman only if ruhi is with him if not no... loving someone is always the same it will not be based on conditions whether they have something or not..

leaving along with ruhi doesnt mean she is gonna forget him or gonna live only with ruhi.. she will love him forever

the position she is in has made her numb to think anything else other than losing ruhi.. whatever her words are and her actions are just to protect ruhi from shagun..

ps: this is my pov.. doesnt meant to hurt anyone

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SAKIV

@SAKIVIAM

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Posted: 10 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: rithika2012

when shagun was in her house she was not afraid of losing raman or ruhi because she trusted raman and his love and trusted ruhi... even though she was ok with shagun she has never let her come in between her and raman and her and ruhi.. remember when ruhi went with shagun she was insecure as ruhi is not her own daughter and shagun too has rights on her but raman explained her clearly then.. then she was ok..
there she was not going to lose anyone but here she was going to lose her daughter for ever.. the state which she was in will not allow her to think rationally and calmly atleast after begging infront of shagun and shagun warning ishita that she will never be able to see ruhi again will make her definitelty lose her cool and act without thinking... this is definitely a wrong step but she cant do anything else..

so she easily gave away khaandaani ear rings.Which belong to Bhalla's daughter in law.

She was insecure when Ruhi went along with Raman.

But I din't feel like she was insecure about Raman.Else I missed something.

Either she trust him much or she don't care about him.

Ok today she wan't to take Ruhi away to protect her from Shagun for two days.She din't tell Raan she could have told him atleast.

Ok she was hiding as Raman hid the fact about deal from her.

But she indirectly gave Shagun kmore weapons than she had before.

Now case has become weaker on their side.

then she created sitation such a way that shagun can easily manipulate bhalla's sayin Ishita don't care about any and she is there in house only for Ruhi.

Then the trauma Raman has to go through.

I agree she did it for Ruhi's good.But few good things make situation far worse than being good.

Her decisison to hide Ruhi was absolutely correct but doing alone indiacation she no more trusts Raman.

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

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Posted: 10 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

so she easily gave away khaandaani ear rings.Which belong to Bhalla's daughter in law.
She was insecure when Ruhi went along with Raman.
But I din't feel like she was insecure about Raman.Else I missed something.
Either she trust him much or she don't care about him.
Ok today she wan't to take Ruhi away to protect her from Shagun for two days.She din't tell Raan she could have told him atleast.
Ok she was hiding as Raman hid the fact about deal from her.

But she indirectly gave Shagun kmore weapons than she had before.
Now case has become weaker on their side.
then she created sitation such a way that shagun can easily manipulate bhalla's sayin Ishita don't care about any and she is there in house only for Ruhi.
Then the trauma Raman has to go through.

I agree she did it for Ruhi's good.But few good things make situation far worse than being good.

Her decisison to hide Ruhi was absolutely correct but doing alone indiacation she no more trusts Raman.

firstly raman himself in a episode sais that ishita is insecure only about ruhi as she loves more than anyone and moreover ruhi is a kid and all others in the house are adults and they have the sense to understand shagun and her games but ruhi who is a kid can get manipulated (just like adi) by shagun. so she was sure of everyone raman and her family but insecure about ruhi..

this proves she cares and trusts raman..

secondly

the position she is can never make her think rationally this is what im trying to say.. the nightmare of shagun snatching ruhi away from her and shagun's words and the closed doors made her take such a drastic step without thinking rationally.. and coming to the point of informing raman do u really think in that fearful she will think of talking to raman or anyone else because she knows they will not allow her to go and according to her fears if she wont go shagun will take away ruhi and she cant let that happen and only way infront of her is to escape and she chose that..so this is the point of her insecurity and fear not of trusting raman

coming to the blame she is gonna face or trouble in the legal issues she will try to handle them afterwards as the case opens but now she is not in a position to think about them.. shagun cant manipulate bhalla's or raman in this matter as they know ishu's love for ruhi and after all the fraud she did to get ruhi they wont listen or fall in her trap.. (but i dont trust toshiji as she was never stable on her thoughts and she cant do anything other than shouting and crying)

NOTE:

if they are gonna show ishu how ever coming back or police or raman tracing her out and then fighting for ruhi is good for the show but as some predicted if they are going to plan a leap or something then even im not going support ishita as it would be selfishness of her to do such an act for months together...trying to protect for a day or 2 from shagun was ok but if she is going to fly away for long time then no one will support her not even me.. just waiting for the track to unfold completely

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

so she easily gave away khaandaani ear rings.Which belong to Bhalla's daughter in law.
She was insecure when Ruhi went along with Raman.
But I din't feel like she was insecure about Raman.Else I missed something.
Either she trust him much or she don't care about him.
Ok today she wan't to take Ruhi away to protect her from Shagun for two days.She din't tell Raan she could have told him atleast.
Ok she was hiding as Raman hid the fact about deal from her.

But she indirectly gave Shagun kmore weapons than she had before.
Now case has become weaker on their side.
then she created sitation such a way that shagun can easily manipulate bhalla's sayin Ishita don't care about any and she is there in house only for Ruhi.
Then the trauma Raman has to go through.

I agree she did it for Ruhi's good.But few good things make situation far worse than being good.

Her decisison to hide Ruhi was absolutely correct but doing alone indiacation she no more trusts Raman.

This is the third time due to some fault of Raman's Ruhi's custody is at stake. Last two times, she fought it out. This time was different. in her self-talk she clearly mentioned that Shagun could take Ruhi and go out of town ( Shagun now lives in a hotel) so she may not be able to see Ruhi again! This is what is different this time. if she was home Ruhi wud have gone to shagun already. If she had told anyone her whereabouts, they wud get to ruhi and Ruhi wud go to Shagun. she is protecting Ruhi from Shagun, thats all. She said she is going away for 2 days.

last time the judge had given permanent custody of Ruhi's solely to Ishita, dunno how Raman's sign is valid?

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Angel13

@Angel13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#15

Wanted selfish ishu na...now facing it 😆 😛

Edited by Angel13 - 10 years ago

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rithika2012

@rithika2012

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Posted: 10 years ago

#16

Originally posted by: sunitas123

This is the third time due to some fault of Raman's Ruhi's custody is at stake. Last two times, she fought it out. This time was different. in her self-talk she clearly mentioned that Shagun could take Ruhi and go out of town ( Shagun now lives in a hotel) so she may not be able to see Ruhi again! This is what is different this time. if she was home Ruhi wud have gone to shagun already. If she had told anyone her whereabouts, they wud get to ruhi and Ruhi wud go to Shagun. she is protecting Ruhi from Shagun, thats all. She said she is going away for 2 days.

last time the judge had given permanent custody of Ruhi's solely to Ishita, dunno how Raman's sign is valid?

thanks for the comment

that is what i was trying to tell.. ishita fought initially many times but now everything is different and no chance of stopping the swap of ruhi with adi.. that is why she took this step as she knows that once ruhi is gonme to shagun shagun can do anything and keep ruhi with herself...

thanks for supporting my view...

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#17

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

so she easily gave away khaandaani ear rings.Which belong to Bhalla's daughter in law.
She was insecure when Ruhi went along with Raman.
But I din't feel like she was insecure about Raman.Else I missed something.
Either she trust him much or she don't care about him.
Ok today she wan't to take Ruhi away to protect her from Shagun for two days.She din't tell Raan she could have told him atleast.
Ok she was hiding as Raman hid the fact about deal from her.

But she indirectly gave Shagun kmore weapons than she had before.
Now case has become weaker on their side.
then she created sitation such a way that shagun can easily manipulate bhalla's sayin Ishita don't care about any and she is there in house only for Ruhi.
Then the trauma Raman has to go through.

I agree she did it for Ruhi's good.But few good things make situation far worse than being good.

Her decisison to hide Ruhi was absolutely correct but doing alone indiacation she no more trusts Raman.

Sakiv, what is the comparison between giving away ear-rings and mothering Ruhi?

She is not bothered about anything material, but she will never give away Raman or Ruhi...

If she tells Raman, he will get to Ruhi and Ruhi will go to Shagun...

I still dont understand what people r expecting out of ishita? To just sit and cry for 2 days till the courts open, hoping Shagun wont run away to another city?

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

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Posted: 10 years ago

#18

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Sakiv, what is the comparison between giving away ear-rings and mothering Ruhi?

She is not bothered about anything material, but she will never give away Raman or Ruhi...

If she tells Raman, he will get to Ruhi and Ruhi will go to Shagun...

I still dont understand what people r expecting out of ishita? To just sit and cry for 2 days till the courts open, hoping Shagun wont run away to another city?

How can anyone support that stupid act of Ishita logically?!! Kidnapping (yes, it is in the eyes of laws) a kid to run away while the custody case is pending will only jeopardize their chances only. In real world, after that incident no court will give them (Bhallas) the custody of that child. Can't she wait for just two days to sort the matter in the court, rather than blowing it all out?!!
@Bold: Really? Can it be any argument whatsoever?!!