my pov for ishita running away. pls read..

i have seen many posts blaming ishita for running away leaving raman alone..its really wrong to run away from a problem but does she have any other option???

Originally posted by: Lekz

My POV too...

There is no way she or anyone can save Ruhi from being taken away...

I think her action though knee jerk is just that.

Moreover we saw that she is hurting herself too with her act...

I think so too. Sometimes people act without thinking. And Ishita is a mother. SO the thought of losing her child would have driven her to temporary insanity. Plus, she has already been traumatized by Raman's stupidity.

Originally posted by: Bhooma01

I think so too. Sometimes people act without thinking. And Ishita is a mother. SO the thought of losing her child would have driven her to temporary insanity. Plus, she has already been traumatized by Raman's stupidity.

Poor Raman? How? For all the rubbish that he has dished out to Ishita - it is crazy.

Really? Was it Ishita or Ishima? Ishita had her own insecurity, that's why she ran away without thinking much.
It's not motherly love, if it was so, she would never run away. Coz it could cost Ruhi's custody. It was purely selfish Ishita Iyer, not selfish Ruhi's mother.

Raman is Ruhi's father, I guess you forgot that. And Ishita is separating a daughter from her father. And, today she proved that she loves Raman with Ruhi. She doesn't love Raman alone.

Ishita's action puts a big question mark on her relationship with Raman. That's one big revelation today.

Another revelation is that I see a selfish Ishita Bhalla there, not a selfish Ishima/Ruhi's mother. In my my opinion, it's a vast difference and as some are still accepting her deed as a motherly act, I found no "motherly" thing here by running away with Ruhi. Why? Ishita ran away with Ruhi not because her daughter's safety was at stake but because she couldn't live without her. If she was worried about her daughter's safety, she would have thought out the repercussion of her deed, specially in the eyes of the law. Plus a few day's at Shagun's wouldn't kill Ruhi for god's sake but her action now will act as a big disadvantage for the case. Fear of losing Ruhi got the better of sensible educated side of Ishima. So, it's an act of Ishita Bhalla, NOT an act of Ishima.

PS--re-posting it from another thread.

I don't know where that posesiveness went when Shagun stayed int heri house trying to seperate her from her husband.

Her actions are the result of her anxiety, her fear. She knew she had no way to stop all this. Her fear overpowered her rationality which is natural in such a situation.

Agree with you. What else would as desperate mother do but once settled she can let them know of her intentions. She was forced into this course of action ss she felt she hsd no one who had a solution and she was running out of time. Good post

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM

I don't know where that posesiveness went when Shagun stayed int heri house trying to seperate her from her husband.

She was acting as if nothing happened and Adi comes first.