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Posted: 10 years ago
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hey Gan..awesome collage.. yet to watch the epi..will come back after tht.. only one question..yeh precap tha kyaa.. everyone mentioning abt it being melodramatic... can someone tell me plz...very curious..
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: appuss

Both songs are apt😭

Have u seen movie "ente veedu appunteyum" In that jyothirmayi try to save her stepson from police inspite of him killing her own child. The relation of appu and her is very strong in that movie... She lost her child but was not ready to get her son punished. That is how mothers are... there is no limit and extremes to which they can go for their child.

Ishita literally has no other way to prevent Ruhi from being taken by shagun... so, she is doing a mistake

But, ishita is also hurting raman a lot by this... hope CVs deal with it sensibly.


That movie is a totally heart wrenching emotional movie...yeah i have seen it...
yeah she is doing a mistake in her desperation and helpelessness...and really hope CVs give a proper closure to it!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalz_123

hey Gan..awesome collage.. yet to watch the epi..will come back after tht.. only one question..yeh precap tha kyaa.. everyone mentioning abt it being melodramatic... can someone tell me plz...very curious..


Raman gets a call about 2 dead bodies being found - a woman and young child & ends up at the morgue to ID the bodies...It's a very cliched, typical desi soap type move that I've seen in at least 8 other shows (not all were Ekta shows either! 😆)

But with YHM...depending on how they present it, it could actually be interesting to see Raman taken to brink. In this scenario, he already has so much guilt and worry. Ishita and Ruhi are missing and to some degree Raman can't comprehend what's happened - has Ishita/Ruhi left for good? Is he alone again? With these worries, his guilt and loneliness amplifies...but if he gets a call that they could be dead...he's lost everything with no potential to salvage it.

Despite the OTT clicheness of the entire scenario...KP will hopefully kill it like he always does, which makes it worth watching!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: sunitas123


Drishti, Ishita is the most selfless person and she loves everyone, that is her inherent nature. But when it comes to kids, EVERY mother is selfish, so is Ishita, she is human too. She has run away at the moment to protect Ruhi, since she cant trust Shagun any more and Shagun has been very bad with Ruhi. Shagun lives in a hotel now and can easily vanish anytime she wishes to. hence she has taken this temporary route...

When she brought Adi and Shagun home, she was selfish??? She wanted to give Raman a chance so Adi knows the real him, she could put up with a sauten just to make Raman happy. How much more selfless can a woman get?

Intentionally or not, this is third time, due to Raman's fault, Ruhi's custody case has opened and each time she had to fight to get Ruhi back. Even now, if Raman will get Ruhi back, it will be thanks to the selfishness of Ishita. She can give up everything but not Ruhi! if she will not be selfish for Ruhi, she may as well let Ruhi got to Shagun ( since Raman keeps repeating the same mistake every few months) and sit and romance with Raman!


hey bhagwan ready to fight again! Shud name u Jhansi ki Rani too!! I said it is a welcome change! means I'm liking this! As long as they dont glorify her in the end and show that whatever she did was right, coz its not. U think if we want Ishita with Raman it is so that they can make out while their daughter is with someone else! NO!! Its coz we wanted her to be with him to fight or THEIR daughter together!!!!

And there was no need for Ishita to run off to get back Ruhi, no that is just her insecurity of being childless again. That is her biggest insecurity, and thus she is so much panicked! She wasnt this scared even when Ruhi was bit by a a dog and hurt on the head!! Its not just for Ruhi, she is doing this for herself too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: krishy13


Raman gets a call about 2 dead bodies being found - a woman and young child & ends up at the morgue to ID the bodies...It's a very cliched, typical desi soap type move that I've seen in at least 8 other shows (not all were Ekta shows either! 😆)

But with YHM...depending on how they present it, it could actually be interesting to see Raman taken to brink. In this scenario, he already has so much guilt and worry. Ishita and Ruhi are missing and to some degree Raman can't comprehend what's happened - has Ishita/Ruhi left for good? Is he alone again? With these worries, his guilt and loneliness amplifies...but if he gets a call that they could be dead...he's lost everything with no potential to salvage it.

Despite the OTT clicheness of the entire scenario...KP will hopefully kill it like he always does, which makes it worth watching!


OMG... thank u so much for the detailed description Krishy dear... i m sure he will kill it... lol..cliche scne chalta haain... romance main agar hum complain nahi karte...to y in drama...hain na...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


Drishti, Ishita is the most selfless person and she loves everyone, that is her inherent nature. But when it comes to kids, EVERY mother is selfish, so is Ishita, she is human too. She has run away at the moment to protect Ruhi, since she cant trust Shagun any more and Shagun has been very bad with Ruhi. Shagun lives in a hotel now and can easily vanish anytime she wishes to. hence she has taken this temporary route...

When she brought Adi and Shagun home, she was selfish??? She wanted to give Raman a chance so Adi knows the real him, she could put up with a sauten just to make Raman happy. How much more selfless can a woman get?

Intentionally or not, this is third time, due to Raman's fault, Ruhi's custody case has opened and each time she had to fight to get Ruhi back. Even now, if Raman will get Ruhi back, it will be thanks to the selfishness of Ishita. She can give up everything but not Ruhi! if she will not be selfish for Ruhi, she may as well let Ruhi got to Shagun ( since Raman keeps repeating the same mistake every few months) and sit and romance with Raman!



Guys please no Raman vs Ishita fight in this thread...my request...

To me both of them are suffering...both of them are flawed and I LOVE them for that because they make interesting watch and they are immensely relatable because that makes them human. And I watch for both of them and I've tried to keep this thread about both of them.

Let's keep it like that
Thank you.

If this thread turns into another Ishita v Raman thread...my first move will be to ask the Dev Team to close this thread.

Thank you.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: vidya.anand

I have one question...a doubt actually and would like to know your views
If suppose, Shagun had said to Ishita, "You leave Raman for me and Adi...have Ruhi with you"
What will be Ishita's decision?

I know bhakwaas sawaal hai because Raman wont agree to take back Shagun even if Ishita leaves him but still I get this weird thought because Shagun was trying all sorts of saazish to get back to Raman and throw Ishita out. So this was one chance for Shagun to get that done.



Ishita will not accept that condition. Yes she loves Ruhi and wants to protect her from Shagun but I don't think she would do that at the cost of Raman. This is similar to the swapping Ruhi for Adi situation. Raman loves Adi and at times have indirectly hurt Ruhi because of it, but he would never ever want to swap Ruhi for Adi. Similarly, Ishita would not want to swap Raman for Ruhi, though she is hurting him in this process of taking Ruhi out of town for a few days.

If, this condition is put forward by Shagun as a permanent arrangement, I am sure Ishita would not accept it. But at this moment, her duty as a mother to protect Ruhi from any harm is more important to her, so she has left the house - only for a day or two at max.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: drishtimaurya


hey bhagwan ready to fight again! Shud name u Jhansi ki Rani too!! I said it is a welcome change! means I'm liking this! As long as they dont glorify her in the end and show that whatever she did was right, coz its not. U think if we want Ishita with Raman it is so that they can make out while their daughter is with someone else! NO!! Its coz we wanted her to be with him to fight or THEIR daughter together!!!!

And there was no need for Ishita to run off to get back Ruhi, no that is just her insecurity of being childless again. That is her biggest insecurity, and thus she is so much panicked! She wasnt this scared even when Ruhi was bit by a a dog and hurt on the head!! Its not just for Ruhi, she is doing this for herself too.

@ red - I feel every person should be a little selfish about their loved ones. There is nothing wrong is Ishita becomes selfish about Ruhi... there is an inherent insecurity in their relation becoz they are not biologically connected.
That said, it is not right to hide their whereabouts from raman too
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan



Guys please no Raman vs Ishita fight in this thread...my request...

To me both of them are suffering...both of them are flawed and I LOVE them for that because they make interesting watch and they are immensely relatable because that makes them human. And I watch for both of them and I've tried to keep this thread about both of them.

Let's keep it like that
Thank you.

If this thread turns into another Ishita v Raman thread...my first move will be to ask the Dev Team to close this thread.

Thank you.


Hey relax I dont want that to happen either, coz I like some views I read her, I am just stating mine. I didnt even mention Raman anywhere!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: BJAN

hai Gan

i am first time replying in your post..

from last week i started to see your post daily...

what a wonderful collages...👏

coming to todays episode..i dont know what to say...

ishitha is becoming more possesive and blind that she even not knowing what she is doing..infact as per mothers angle she may be right..bcz her instant need is to protect ruhi from shagun and protect her relation with ruhi and with her insecurity ..untill the matter got solved to certain extent...

but...she should not go like that..bcz ruhi is just not connected to her..others are also desperate to be with her especially her papa...

she does not have right to take away from them like that...she is being so selfish...ofcourse she is also a human na...but atleast before leaving she would have informed raman..ok if she dont trust him..atleast to her parents who support her in every decision...

but more than ishitha...i felt bad for raman..ya he has made a blunder..but..even he did not have chance to hug his daughter wholeheartedly before leaving and vent his love for her...
then one side her daughter tension then again came biwi tension..ek insaan kithni tensions sehen karsathi ho..oh my god...if i am in his position i would not have tolerated the mess of my life...

but i felt him as ...he is the left alone soul in the world...on wife took his son..one wife took his daughter..he is all alone inspite of having 2 children...he has done mistake but this much punishment and this much truama is not worthy for him...

but..but...hatsoff to div and karan...👏
excellent performances from both of them...

from today i try to comment daily in your post thank u...


BJAN the way things stand right now, ishita is not taking Ruhi away from the Bhallas, she is keeping her away from Shagun! If you remember Shagun was already there in the morning to take Ruhi with her. If Ruhi would have been home, she would have been with Shagun now and not with the Bhallas!

This hopefully is a huge lesson for Raman too. This is the third time due to some stupidity of his, Ruhi's custody has been questioned - i mean how many times can he be so careless? And each time ishita has come to his rescue...and goes through incredible pain. But she never ran away earlier. This time she knows courts will open on Monday and Shagun may run away ( since she is in a hotel) and she may not get Ruhi back...

Raman too needs to treat Ishita like his wife, not just his kid's mom. let him feel the pain of losing Ishita and Ruhi. Hopefully he will be a better husband ( by that I dont mean just the romance which the forum members keep harping about and the good sweet talk, but the actions). And this time ishita had warned him several times, but his over confidence led to this huge mess!

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