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Posted: 10 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

I have one question...a doubt actually and would like to know your views
If suppose, Shagun had said to Ishita, "You leave Raman for me and Adi...have Ruhi with you"
What will be Ishita's decision?

I know bhakwaas sawaal hai because Raman wont agree to take back Shagun even if Ishita leaves him but still I get this weird thought because Shagun was trying all sorts of saazish to get back to Raman and throw Ishita out. So this was one chance for Shagun to get that done.


You know Vidya...I had the same exact thought! That would bring to light the crux of one of the issues of this track - Is there really a Raman & Ishita without Ruhi?

My answer to my question is no, there would be no Raman & Ishita without Ruhi because there would be no Ishita without Ruhi and no Raman without Adi and Ruhi. The world is grey and the roles we hold are not rigid. You cannot ask a parent to choose between love and their children. For both fathers & mothers, at the end of the day, your children are your priority.

For your question...I think the smart, composed Ishita would never agree but would work with Raman to find a solution. However, if you have an incredibly emotionally vulnerable Ishita who feels there is no end to this game - she could possibly agree and then correct her ways once she cooled down.

(Though really...it would take all of 1 episode to prove what an incompetent mother Shagun is & then the Bhallas could get custody of both kids...but at this point in the show, basic logic is far gone! 😆)

I would hate for it to be brought to this point because children are not toys to play "pass the parcel" with, but that would be a master stroke for Shagun and by the CVs to bring out an important quesstion
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Posted: 10 years ago
#42
Well i am glad to see that people are understanding what we had been trying to put thru. Its not just a motherly act of taking Ruhi away, it is also selfish, related to her insecurities, and a welcome change.😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43

Originally posted by: paru_rox



The thing is that there's a breaking point in everyone's life. Losing Ruhi is Ishita's breaking point. And thus the desperate (and wrong) move.
She's being stupid ... yes, no doubt. But she seems to be overpowered by the fact that her daughter might be snatched away from her. Yes, she cannot see the bigger picture.

I don't know which way the CV's will go but if they keep true to her characterization, Ishita will never separate Ruhi from the Bhalla's permanently. Right now I see her as a desperate mother who has just reached her extremes.


Paru it clearly seemed to me that she is buying time till Monday. She told Ruhi we are going to Mumbai for 2 days. And like I said Shagun had Ruhi's custody earlier too, but Ishita had not reacted this badly. Now she fears that Shagun can run away with Ruhi soon as she gets Ruhi, since Shagun is now living in a hotel. that is what prompted her to leave. She is not wanting to separate Ruhio from Bhallas neither will she cease to go to her clinic😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44

Gan... Lovely post and even more lovely collages!!! ⭐️


The first one took my heart away!! 😭


Ishita is so blinded in her weakness this time that she has turned totally numb towards others and their feelings. She is so immersed deeply in her pain that she doesn't acknowledge anybody else's pain at this poignant time!!

But isn't she standing true to her words that she had said to Toshiji once this time that she is also a selfish person when it comes to Ruhi?! This is the very time I'm seeing Ishita as a HUMAN!!


She has always been everyone's strength and stood by them at their times of need. Remember the minute she learned about the fact that Adi had committed her mother's accident she understood Raman's pain and the real reason behind his action. She understood at that moment that it was a Father who was acting and doing everything possible to save his son. Even that time Raman went to the extreme to save his Son. Infact in a court room filled with people he admitted that he was with Shagun when the accident happened. Wasn't that shocking??? Wasn't that below the belt thing to do when u have ur wife, parents, in-laws, siblings sitting in the court room with hell lot of other people & you admitting before the entire world that you were with your ex-wife for reasons not told that time?? Wasn't Ishita abandoned that moment for the sake & need of protecting his son?? Hell there Adi had committed a CRIME and inspite of all that Raman did everything within his range to protect him. This time our poor Ruhi is used as PAWN in the game played by her biological mom. She is not a criminal here, she didn't commit any mistakes to deserve this. Ishita knows Shagun does not love her and she will not treat her well. Why will this MOTHER not protect her from this woman and cross all barriers for the sake of her child??.

When we could justify Raman there for he was a FATHER who was desperate to save his son at any price & at any extent then why can't we justify Ishita's action over here today?? Like how Raman came back to his oasis similarly Ishita too will come back to her oasis her Husband Raman and I'm sure about this. 😃

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Posted: 10 years ago
#45
The only thing we want is Ishita to realize what she is doing! It is a big step that she has taken, it wont lack consequences!! The track will make sense if Ishita realizes this, ponders over her relationship with Raman-what it means without Ruhi too, else, like always if it ends with Ishita being glorified as the great mother again (which she is, but that has been shown hundred of times) then this track will be a complete wastage like Mani track!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
Gan lovely post and collages😃😃 esp loved the third one😃😃 And that makes me hopeful too..there are 3 hrs and Im thinking that she wont do something stupid😕..Anyways YHM is no less of a drama in comparison to other soaps..😆😆
For me todays epi was like:


And seeing the precap..I just have no words..too melodramatic..no offence to KP's acting brilliance but script-wise...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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hai Gan
i am first time replying in your post..

from last week i started to see your post daily...

what a wonderful collages...👏

coming to todays episode..i dont know what to say...

ishitha is becoming more possesive and blind that she even not knowing what she is doing..infact as per mothers angle she may be right..bcz her instant need is to protect ruhi from shagun and protect her relation with ruhi and with her insecurity ..untill the matter got solved to certain extent...

but...she should not go like that..bcz ruhi is just not connected to her..others are also desperate to be with her especially her papa...

she does not have right to take away from them like that...she is being so selfish...ofcourse she is also a human na...but atleast before leaving she would have informed raman..ok if she dont trust him..atleast to her parents who support her in every decision...

but more than ishitha...i felt bad for raman..ya he has made a blunder..but..even he did not have chance to hug his daughter wholeheartedly before leaving and vent his love for her...
then one side her daughter tension then again came biwi tension..ek insaan kithni tensions sehen karsathi ho..oh my god...if i am in his position i would not have tolerated the mess of my life...

but i felt him as ...he is the left alone soul in the world...on wife took his son..one wife took his daughter..he is all alone inspite of having 2 children...he has done mistake but this much punishment and this much truama is not worthy for him...

but..but...hatsoff to div and karan...👏
excellent performances from both of them...

from today i try to comment daily in your post thank u...

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Posted: 10 years ago
#48
@krishy13...I also think that Ishita wouldnt let go of her husband but work with him to save all their lives.
Thats exactly why I cant relate to this Ishita who isnt thinking about anything else but Ruhi.

If like Paru said, this is just a temporary move that she is planning, then ok to an extent but still a woman like Ishita doing this seems just a dramatic twist from the CVs.

She loves her husband too much but yes the mother in her like every mother overpowers the wife. so except this one move, I can totally relate to her obsessive love to Ruhi.

For those who think she doesnt love her husband or dont care for him. There was an instance when Ishita forgets everything else and runs out to a hotel when she sees the news of a fire in the hotel and Romi says that Raman is there.
She didnt check where Ruhi was, is she home, is she sleeping, did she eat dinner? no nothing mattered to her then. She ran impulsively and drove crazily to the hotel for her husband's sake.

her husband mattered to her the most in that particular situation.
So every woman or for that matter every human reacts in a particular way in different situations. Doesnt mean he or she loves or hates one more than the other.

Its just the situation she is being put through that makes her react in a manner that seems wrong to us or the others. For her, she must be thinking that this is the most rightest thing to do. It is nothing but her helplessness and desperation that forces her to take that wrong step!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: drishtimaurya

Well i am glad to see that people are understanding what we had been trying to put thru. Its not just a motherly act of taking Ruhi away, it is also selfish, related to her insecurities, and a welcome change.😊


Drishti, Ishita is the most selfless person and she loves everyone, that is her inherent nature. But when it comes to kids, EVERY mother is selfish, so is Ishita, she is human too. She has run away at the moment to protect Ruhi, since she cant trust Shagun any more and Shagun has been very bad with Ruhi. Shagun lives in a hotel now and can easily vanish anytime she wishes to. hence she has taken this temporary route...

When she brought Adi and Shagun home, she was selfish??? She wanted to give Raman a chance so Adi knows the real him, she could put up with a sauten just to make Raman happy. How much more selfless can a woman get?

Intentionally or not, this is third time, due to Raman's fault, Ruhi's custody case has opened and each time she had to fight to get Ruhi back. Even now, if Raman will get Ruhi back, it will be thanks to the selfishness of Ishita. She can give up everything but not Ruhi! if she will not be selfish for Ruhi, she may as well let Ruhi got to Shagun ( since Raman keeps repeating the same mistake every few months) and sit and romance with Raman!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#50

Originally posted by: vidya.anand

I have an awesome malayalam song which plays through my mind whenever i think about the mother-daughter relationship...this pic re reminds me of that song...though the situation is very different, I want to quote that song

Enthu paranjaalum nee entethalle vaave
ninnu pinangaathe onnu koode poru poove
manathe koottil manju maina urangiyille
tharattum paattil mani thaththaa urangiyille
pinneyum nee ente nenjil charum chillin vathilil enthe muttiyilla

Raman's state was no less poignant...

laakh duniya kahe tum nahi ho
tum yahi ho, tum yahi ho
laakh duniya kahe tum nahi ho
tum yahi ho, tum yahi ho
meri har soch me, meri har baat me
mere ehsas me, mere jajbaat me
tum hi tum ho, tum har kahi ho
ho laakh duniya kahe tum nahi ho



Though the emotional track makes it difficult for me, awesome portrayal by DT and KP! and Ruhi is no less! 👏

Both songs are apt😭

Have u seen movie "ente veedu appunteyum" In that jyothirmayi try to save her stepson from police inspite of him killing her own child. The relation of appu and her is very strong in that movie... She lost her child but was not ready to get her son punished. That is how mothers are... there is no limit and extremes to which they can go for their child.

Ishita literally has no other way to prevent Ruhi from being taken by shagun... so, she is doing a mistake

But, ishita is also hurting raman a lot by this... hope CVs deal with it sensibly.

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