Ishita's desperation... *Updated with Raman's pic*

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Remya

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Posted: 10 years ago

#121

Finally updated on page 1.

So sorry for bring late.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#122

Originally posted by: Veeann
Wish Ekta had left clothes alone though, after destroying the Indian TV industry. Imagine all the women who are. Now going to go around dressed like Kekta bahus and vamps. W*F.[/DIV]

vee - you just made me hardcore ROFL! 🤣 In my honest opinion, those saris aren't even cute...the entire fashion awards thing appears to be for her to launch her ehh sari collections...what a businesswoman! Her shows may sometimes show the most regressive things related to woman, but Ekta is the shrewdest business person in the telly industry!

@Anu...I only rewatched the episodes bc the first time I watched them I didn't pay much attention bc I wasn't really emotionally prepped...normally I just skip the super high on emotion type episodes but I couldn't miss these bc I really wanted to see all the great acting!

But I like you want a good lesson & greener days on the show! I want them to bring back the episodes with light hearted comedy and fluffy drama! Too many of these super emotional episodes really do take a toll...last time I felt like this was during the Mani track but I also skipped a lot of scenes/episodes! Oh the power of the telly! 😆

Also I love your Mindy GIFs! Mindy's like the spirit animal of every ABCD girl!

Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago

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Posted: 10 years ago

#123

Originally posted by: Veeann

At least now we know Mihika finds her, so no ridiculous leap will happen. Am waiting for the Ishra confrontation after Raman gets put through the emotional wringer. Hope cvs do justice to it.

Am joining you in a glass ( all right, a jug) of Sangria on the other side of the world😃

Oh ladies! I totally understand...wine made coping with all the high emotions this week TONS better! I'm not a parent but I was shambly every morning after reading the LU & speed watching.

I too hope they also give justice to Raman's emotions in this track. After the guilt track, airport fiasco, & semi-insensitive "get well soon" scene...I really really want the CVs to give justice to his emotions too.

Oh man, Sangria sounds so delish right now!

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Posted: 10 years ago

#124

Gan not like the episode hadn't made me cry enough, but your post and especially the pictures and the way you've filtered them makes me cry even more. 😭

I am not a parent and it could be a little difficult for me to understand a few of the emotions Ishita and Raman are going through. But the portrayal of IshRa by KP and DT was so hard hitting that there's no way you wouldn't understand or relate to their feelings.

Ishita's desperation to keep Ruhi with her was understandable. Got me teary seeing how crazy she could get and the limit she could go to. I understand her emotions very well and can never hold any of her actions at this moment against her. But still inspite of all of that I can't get myself to support her running away to Mumbai. And that does not mean I don't get her or her point of view. I just find this upcoming scene killing the otherwise very raw and intense emotions riding the episodes. But I do get that Ishita is not in her senses to understand what she's really doing.

It's the same as Raman. The look Adi gave him before he left with Shagun from the wedding mandap had him emotional. He for the first time saw the love and want in Adi's eyes for the family and him that he has been pining for and wanted to waste no time in having him back. He lost his sanity and made a mistake. And I can blame neither him nor Ishita for the mistakes they are making.

Coming to Raman. It was heart-wrenching to see Raman so alone, so guilty and so defeated. Every moment yesterday. From him standing outside the door looking at the two pillars in his life comfort each other and want that comfort himself.. but not finding himself worthy enough to ask for it. Waking up with her toy in his hand but all lonely in this battle. It's such a stark difference to the morning earlier when he had both of them with him, and the excitement of having Adi back and completing his life. For a man whose always been abandoned, lonely and has rode a guilt complex of some form of the other, this is a huge meltdown for him. The precap further breaks my heart for him.

I am not sure if I can hope from this show, because hopes have always led to disappointments. But ideally now is the time to build IshRa all over again. Where them two just do not exist because of Ruhi but because they also love each other. There is a lot to bridge between them. A lot to mend. Ishita needs to feel secure that Ruhi or no Ruhi, a child from her or not Raman will be with her all life, not because of a third person but because of her. I guess half her fears now stem from the build up of the family wanting a a GKC and because they've suddenly had a problem with Romi being infertile. And Raman needs to obviously begin to feel worthy of the love he gets from Ishita and Ruhi and not feel like he's been hopeless as a husband and father. This relation needs to move ahead from being only about others to themselves. And I hope they can build on that.

This track is too serious to end abruptly and end with another set of comical scenes. I wouldn't mind a phase of distance(mentally) betweel IshRa as long as they can rebuild what they did not so far. But this one should not be taken lightly after taking such a great start and touching onto such sensitive issues.

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sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#125

Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

When Ishita saved Ruhi the first time...she had no idea about Ruhi's family...There was no way she could have made any assumptions there...She interacted with the maid/helper and got to know that Ruhi left her hand and ran off and Ishita reprimands that she should have been careful. So the whole parent/father being careless angle does not come into play.

The cough syrup track...sure Raman is to be blamed for being drunk to the point that he did not have the senses to know, realize and act according to the situation. But what right did Ishita have to go on national television and stir up such a chaos?

She was being impulsive...she wasn't thinking rationally. She was blinded by her anger that her parents had to pay the price when she was the one who saved his child. It's the same here...there is not a streak of rationality in Ishita today...because her mind has been constantly working ever since the matter broke out...probably once her mind calms down (Counting on the 3 hrs of waiting) she will realize that being selfish her wouldn't serve her purpose.

VJ obviously Ishita did not know Ruhi when they first met. But every time she met Ruhi, her loneliness tore at her heart, so obviously when she draws a conclusion about Ruhi's care she will remember all incidents, not just the last meeting!

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sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

#126

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

@ bold thanks V...those three moments just defined the episode for me...hence made individual shots rather than collages. and yes they need to learn that parents need to fight together when it comes to children or anything related to family...then people like Shagun doesnt get to play her sick games.

@red ..is it? oh whoa😕...I hope this is not dragged too long🤢

Folks, she fought twice earlier and did not run away when the custody cases came up. Why did she do it this time? Shagun now lives in a hotel and can run away the minute she has Ruhi. That is what is worrying her, hence she has gone for 2 days. And she knows Shagun will do this for sake of revenge. If she had not gone with Ruhi, she wud have been with Shagun already, not with the Bhallas!

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tannvi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#127

Originally posted by: Veeann

Aww Krishy hope you feeling more cheerful now. I know exactly what you mean - some days you just need to bawl.

The olvs - Ishita was running away from police but now a new one where Mihika finds her, so I guess she will go back home. That's when it gets interesting right. How will Raman react after the emotional storm he has been through?

Yes, wonderful. Casting. Wish Ekta had left clothes alone though, after destroying the Indian TV industry. Imagine all the women who are. Now going to go around dressed like Kekta bahus and vamps. W*F.

maybe Mihika going to take IshRu to her house...

they remain there maybe for 2 days or even can be possible might ashok come Into picture to help in some way...

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Anu

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Posted: 10 years ago

#128

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil

maybe Mihika going to take IshRu to her house...
they remain there maybe for 2 days or even can be possible might ashok come Into picture to help in some way...

I don't know about Ashok helping ISHRARU...I mean what he might want in return.😕

But this might lead to her finding out the truth about Raman's job, once the truth about the loans and their apartment come out too then all of his secrets will come crashing down = bad times for ISHRA... followed by the much needed talks and the good times!😃

What ever else Miku does, I hope Raman finds out the truth about where and how and why they are. He alone can know, but he needs to know... after all it's not like he can't keep a secret. 😉

But he can't suffer anymore then he is right now... neither of them can.

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tannvi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#129

Originally posted by: RomComFan

I don't know about Ashok helping ISHRARU...I mean what he might want in return.😕

But this might lead to her finding out the truth about Raman's job, once the truth about the loans and their apartment come out too then all of his secrets will come crashing down = bad times for ISHRA... followed by the much needed talks and the good times!😃

What ever else Miku does, I hope Raman finds out the truth about where and how and why they are. He alone can know, but he needs to know... after all it's not like he can't keep a secret. 😉

But he can't suffer anymore then he is right now... neither of them can.

i thought Mihika some part of truth will cum out...ishu may get hint

but Interesting if truth of Raman's truth will cum out;...than its Like every building up crashing down for IshRa

yes the bad times but same time good times to rebuild can happen ( only if cv's have this in mind what we r thinking )

rest if they only want to show possessiveness of ishu for ruhi or shagun v/s ishu

right he can keep secret...i hope he gets to know...

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Posted: 10 years ago

#130

I read all the posts finally!! Again I repeat myself .. You guys amaze me with the depth of understanding the characters and their myriad shades.. And reacting to their actions in each of your own way... YHm is not about just Ishita or just Raman .. It's about both of them and their trials and tribulations ... If they were perfect characters the story wouldn't be so intriguing .. So when Raman makes a mistake we criticize him ... And we don't spare when Ishita does and then there are always someone who gives another viewpoint explaining how their actions could be justified .. That leads to interesting discussions when it's coming from honest interpretation of the content and not blind fanatism about a character or the other. And most of you do that.. And that's what keeps the thread so vibrant.

We have Puttar fans here .. We have seen #puttarwars going overboard 😉... But the same people were all against puttar the day he uttered nonsense against Ishita .. And I was in minority that day in defending Puttar...and I didn't feel bad at all as I knew we're reacting to the content and it's not against me personally .

Yestaerday I had to step in and stop a debate because it lacked the usual thread flavor.. And I felt awful .. But I felt it was the necessary to keep the thread clean. Sorry to the folks who I quoted .. I have nothing against you... I just wanted to maintain our thread's decorum and as a TM I felt that was the need .

Debate with a gusto.. But please no Raman v Ishita here... They are both important in this thread ...

Sorry for the long speech .. But I felt I needed to explain my action yesterday.

Thanks again for the amazing write ups, views I get to read daily ... And it feels good to have some support when the track is this intense. 🤗 *insert Chandler opening his arms to hug his other friends*

See you after the episode 😊