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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think people who have kids will understand Ishitas anger, unusal act etc. Some reason we mothers become crazy at the thought of any chance for loosing child. Are khona to bahut door ki baat hai bache pe jara si bhi chot lag jaye to ma pagal hojati hai. Ma apne aap ko bech degi bache ke liye. This is realistic not filmi dialog. Unfortunately in just about 90 % home baap ki halat Raman jesi hi hogi.
I am mom roo so I can only speak for myself. I really wish CV has not shown this track because I am not watching it.
Yes sometimes for outsiders it look like wife loves kids more than husband. That's not the case. Socho when threat of loosing Raman Ishita was as crazy and irrational.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Thanks


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I will be back in few minutes
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Posted: 10 years ago
#43
True, when a child is concerned both parents are in pain. But its often portrayed in this way that parents turn on each other. Guilt and blame become part of their relationship. Which is why in cases of crime (child abduction/death) a majority of couples divorce after. So it doesn't seem too unrealistic to portray them in this way.
And the speaking truth in anger idea really disturbs me because it means that based on what Raman and Ishita have both said in recent weeks, they are not truly in love with each other and view each other as a compromise still. After a year, this seems like a huge step back in the evolution of YHM.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: smilydear


Raman gave up Adi only when he saw Shagun is harmless for Adi and adi can't live without his mother. But as soon as he saw Adi's life could be ruined by Shagun as she starts manipulating people's mind just to be even with him he want the custody of his Son.

Here Ruhi never accept Shagun as her mother, and at this point of time she is very harmful , Shagun is not attached with Ruhi either and could harm her. How could Raman or Ishita let go Ruhi?

When things were good even Ishita let Ruhi to go and stay overnight with Shagun during her marriage track. That time Shagun was harmless. But now she is not , she is in revengeful mode and go to any length.

Ruhi.s custody is a family court matter, & a signature that Raman unwitingly did will not giv Shagun any right over the child unless & untill heard by the said court. They themselves r saying that the court is on vacation due to holi so how can Shagun execute the so called agreement. Moreover as part of the bargain Adi needs to b given to Raman but she took him back with her. see complete nonsence.

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Posted: 10 years ago
#45

Originally posted by: smilydear

Agree with you at this point ...

I haven't seen the episode yet this discussion in just after reading the LU.

it is true this is story about RUhi and Ishita ...

Ishita did a mistake, she is really sad, fear is engulfing her she became a protective mother now and that's why today she failed as a wife. She is not ready to see that Raman is in more trouble he is on the verge of loosing his both kids. If he let this deal happen he will loose Ruhi forever as she will never trust him again, if he cancels the deal he will put a stamp on his Son's mind that he can't save him, he doesn't need him over Ruhi. Basically he will be the ultimate looser . Which an Angry wife missed to see. She is angry because of his mistake only but ... He is in great trouble right now and he needs help and support of his wife. Wife is also not in a condition to see straight , her fear for her daughter clouded her to see through it.

I didn't say she actually did the same when she saw the divorce papers , that time she didn't see or look for Ruhi she look for Raman and bring him back and saved her paradise. Right now she can't allow a single second of Ruhi with Shagun as she knows this is all happening because Shagun wants to hurt her and for that she can do anything. She is scared for her daughters safety. So she shutdown herself with Ruhi only ...

Raman and Ishita can move in this relation only when they found their kids are safe ...
Raman waited for Adi to come and Ishita will always seek for a safety of Ruhi first.
This is normal couple who can start there life with fresh and then kids they already have kids ... When kids are happy they can be happy . This is like a real I've situation think ... We can choose only one wither our child or spouse? Whom will we choose ?


So true!!!👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
#46
Ishita has done a blunder by saying what she said to Raman today and then running off with Ruhi!! I hope she, atleast this time realizes what she has done, and tries to correct it later! Yes their relation began due to Ruhi, but now it was so much more (she herself used to say this!) She needs to realize this!!! Hope for once we can see Ishita feeling guilty for a mistake and make amends!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

Don't say anything to Ishita. Don't you know the forum agenda. Ishita is always right. 😆 she said the rights words to Raman. Raman is no one.. Only Ruhi matters to Ishita. She can live without Raman but not Ruhi. Shagun should take away Raman from her but not Ruhi. 😛




Very we'll said

That is what the conclusion can be drawn out today


Ishita can live without Raman

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: sunitas123


yes but how did that happen? Due to ishita right? For 6 years Ruhi had no mother and no father, Ishita changed all that.


Sorry to disagree with you. Yes Ishita was the one who brought lot of change in Raman as well as his relationship with Ruhi. I am not blaming that. During that time both Ishita and Raman had their own motives.

But here today the dialogues that Ishita in my opinion are totally wrong. The pain she is going through Raman will also have. In my opinion I think Raman will have more because the blunder that he has done unknowingly and losing his daughter. Everyone include Bhallas are thinking about Ishita. What about Raman?
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Posted: 10 years ago
#49

Originally posted by: sunitas123



By the same logic just last Monday when Raman was angry he said so many nasty things to ishita and told her tumne meri aur mere behen ki zindagi barbaad kar di. The Bhallas and Raman are actually an ungrateful lot, they can easily blame Ishita for everything!

Have u not seen the show promo and the initial epsiodes? ishita came into his life only coz of Ruhi. Bcoz of Ruhi she put up with Raman and the Bhallas, Param, saying sorry to Adi and Shagun- all that only for Ruhi. She fell in love with Raman later.

She just cant imagine her own life without Ruhi, forget about Raman...

So YHM is about Ishita and Ruhi mainly... just coz Ruhi cant shoot so much these days her shots had reduced...

No one loves Ishita unconditionally like Ruhi does. The rest are okay with her so long as she does what they think is right - the same applies to Raman too! she has been ridiculed by him all the time and then he goes and does this despite her several warnings! Why wud she not think life is meaningless- Raman or no Raman?




C'mon

Why do you keep bringing past


That was then

This is now

Their relationship should have developed

Raman loves adi

But for ishita he attempted to give up adi


He has moved on from still Ruhi ke liye


For ishita from today it seems she is still Ruhi ke liye
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: elene93

Nice review. Exactly my thought too.It's better for Ishita and Shagun to make a deal instead of that eloping drama or child swaping drama. They can swap Raman with Ruhi. Raman to Shagun and Ruhi to Ishita, both will be happy.

Made a post here: Why Ishita and Shagun don't make a deal?




Yes that is the perfect solution

Both will be happy


Except Raman


But who cares about raman

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