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Posted: 10 years ago
#51

Originally posted by: smilydear

Agree with you at this point ...

I haven't seen the episode yet this discussion in just after reading the LU.

it is true this is story about RUhi and Ishita ...

Ishita did a mistake, she is really sad, fear is engulfing her she became a protective mother now and that's why today she failed as a wife. She is not ready to see that Raman is in more trouble he is on the verge of loosing his both kids. If he let this deal happen he will loose Ruhi forever as she will never trust him again, if he cancels the deal he will put a stamp on his Son's mind that he can't save him, he doesn't need him over Ruhi. Basically he will be the ultimate looser . Which an Angry wife missed to see. She is angry because of his mistake only but ... He is in great trouble right now and he needs help and support of his wife. Wife is also not in a condition to see straight , her fear for her daughter clouded her to see through it.

I didn't say she actually did the same when she saw the divorce papers , that time she didn't see or look for Ruhi she look for Raman and bring him back and saved her paradise. Right now she can't allow a single second of Ruhi with Shagun as she knows this is all happening because Shagun wants to hurt her and for that she can do anything. She is scared for her daughters safety. So she shutdown herself with Ruhi only ...


Raman and Ishita can move in this relation only when they found their kids are safe ...



Raman waited for Adi to come and Ishita will always seek for a safety of Ruhi first.
This is normal couple who can start there life with fresh and then kids they already have kids ... When kids are happy they can be happy . This is like a real I've situation think ... We can choose only one wither our child or spouse? Whom will we choose ?




You hVe said perfectly


Ishita failed as wife



She fails to notice

Ramsn is in double jeopardy

He will lose either way

He is at loss


And yes her behaviour during airport scene was different
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Posted: 10 years ago
#52

Originally posted by: bigul

when someone is angry then he speaks the truth! then what about raman when he said his n his sis life got destroyed bcoz of ishita, that too he was lying his life was already destroyed before marriage. aur kya destroy ho jaega.😆




Two wrongs don't make a right


I said then

Ramsn was an ass
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Posted: 10 years ago
#53
Leo very nice post but i am sorry i never feel one percent sympathy for ishita i accept raman made mistake humans always made ishita also do various mistakes but that's no mean ke ishita hi ruhi ki sab kuch hai 6 months ki ruhi jisko uski mom chor gayi usko akele uske baap ne pala dada dadi ne pala aur yeh kitni aram se ruhi ko leke bhag gayi apni khusi ke liye my question kya difference hai shagun aur ishita mein shugun selfish hai bache ko use karti hai raman ko black mail karti hai apne hi bache ke liye yeh sab kuch ishita bhi kar rahi hai woh bi selfish hai ruhi ko use karti hai apne maqsad ke liye raman ko blackmail karti hai. Kis law ne usko right diya hai aik beti ko apne baap se alag karne ka pehle raman ka beta uski aik biwi legayi ab raman ka dusra bacha dusari biwi leke bhag gayi raman jaisa acha helping husband yeh sab deserved nahi karta apni dono wife's se.

I personally think simi is more better woman instead of ishita and shugun kamse kam usne apni bache ko weapon banake apne husband(jo ke aik bura insaan hai) ko blackmail nahi kiya.

i hate this both selfish kinds of woman's both are very nice mothers but worst wife's.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#54

Originally posted by: Hayaa.m

Raman the new villan in ishita ruhi love story🤢




Absolutely agree
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Posted: 10 years ago
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And i HATE when she says dont touch me to him in anger!!! What kind of an outrageously disgusting response it that!!! She is hurting true,but thats not something u say to ur husband all the time!!!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#56

Originally posted by: Annthew

Today i totally agree with u . When a child is lost its lost to both the parents not to the mother alone. Why does our society not recognise the feelings of the father i wonder!?Isitas pain is understood but if they stood together as a couple supporting each other how better it would hav been. But i felt for Isitha its her pain alone . Raman is nowhere in her. pic.As a mother i would do anything for my kids but as a wife i can atleast share my grief with my husband.

Leo as a legal counsel i am v disappointed with the cvs. dramatic liberties can b taken but to show utter nonsense -pathetic. it doesn't happen this way in our judicial system with all its flaws & loopholes.YHM has officially joined the rest of SP's standard shows.




That is a very good post

Ruhi is kids of both Raman and ishita

Both should have been shown empathy

But Raman has been made villain

And less said about legal things the better

Some of stuff shown in yhm is even beyond fictional legal brief

And I understand how you must be pained to show law being twisted badly
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Posted: 10 years ago
#57
hazaron sawalon se accha meri khamoshi hai - MMS 😛
sorry took a break as I was busy - had some guests over at my place for Holi. 😳

I saw yesterday n today's episode just for acting - just for acting (I am still upset with the storyline shown previously n m sure it will turn regressive once this track is finished).

Firstly wud like to say amazing acting by all the cast 👏 Loved DT in her portrayal. Raman is reduced to a bystander but that is general rule of TV so won't go there 😛

I am liking this track and it actually makes Shagun smarter. I know CVs made Raman dumb n made him sign those papers without reading them for making SHagun smarter but at least this is better than Lohri drama or Divorced couple anniversary drama or Furniture Paint/ varnish allergy drama.

Firstly Raman was wrong in saying that Ishita destroyed his life when actually she made his life happier. I agree with him on the point that Ishita made Rinky marry into a loveless marriage - if they wud have waited for Rinky she might have got a groom who wud love her. As far as Sarika Romi issue goes I agree with Ishita that Romi is not a responsible person n might not take care of Sarika properly. His point was right but he was rude in putting it across and then his un-necessary blaming Ishita for destroying his n his family's life was not required. Ishita was bearing all that silently, she shud have taken off the lid have had a proper show down then n there itself - it wud have been better. The key to successful marriage is sort out issues as n when they crop up rather than holding grudges when things have escalated to a different degree.

So Ishita let go Raman's anger then but now she is not able to let go coz this is about something which is extremely close to her (Ruhi). I think she is right n wrong both in this case. I feel that in this track she is portrayed as human as possible doing mistakes, going weak, getting angry etc which actually is good. She is right in getting angry at Raman coz no matter what we say he was stupid to sign those papers without reading it. Tomorrow Shagun might make him sign papers that all his earnings are SHagun's- will he be able to survive n sustain such huge family? 😛😆 Her mistake in this track is taking Ruhi away (if she goes to judge who gave custody it is fine maybe she might be able to save the case). Usually I have read that parents do this - they don't obey court's orders and take away their child, but its a big risk as there have been cases where courts have given the custody to the other party in such cases. N on top of it Ishita is not Ruhi's biological parent it might get messier.

Anyways lets see where the story goes- my gut feeling says that they will mess ending as per CVs history 😛








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Posted: 10 years ago
#58
Ishita said "Sab Thik Hai" today. 😛
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Posted: 10 years ago
#59

Originally posted by: chetrohan

I think people who have kids will understand Ishitas anger, unusal act etc. Some reason we mothers become crazy at the thought of any chance for loosing child. Are khona to bahut door ki baat hai bache pe jara si bhi chot lag jaye to ma pagal hojati hai. Ma apne aap ko bech degi bache ke liye. This is realistic not filmi dialog. Unfortunately in just about 90 % home baap ki halat Raman jesi hi hogi.

I am mom roo so I can only speak for myself. I really wish CV has not shown this track because I am not watching it.
Yes sometimes for outsiders it look like wife loves kids more than husband. That's not the case. Socho when threat of loosing Raman Ishita was as crazy and irrational.




Unfortunately

I Dony agree


It is not about loving kids more

It is what she said

That marriage is only for Ruhi

I thought she had started loving Raman as an individual
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DipaRB6

True, when a child is concerned both parents are in pain. But its often portrayed in this way that parents turn on each other. Guilt and blame become part of their relationship. Which is why in cases of crime (child abduction/death) a majority of couples divorce after. So it doesn't seem too unrealistic to portray them in this way.

And the speaking truth in anger idea really disturbs me because it means that based on what Raman and Ishita have both said in recent weeks, they are not truly in love with each other and view each other as a compromise still. After a year, this seems like a huge step back in the evolution of YHM.



Like I said

Two wrongs don't make a right


Ishita words basically implied the same


She is stuck in still Ruhi ke liye

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