Why Ishita and Shagun don't make a deal?

Raman was a jerk but he didn't deserve it. Today Ishita clearly had shown the harsh reality of their marital relationship--it's always about Ruhi ke liye. If Ruhi is not there, she won't stay with Raman. What a fate Raman has! He's married twice but none of his wife loved him. One loved or pretended to love him for his money and the second one loves or pretends to love him for his daughter, Ruhi. Now Shagun's priority is changed she wants security, so he wants Raman, not that she loves him. Why not Ishita makes a deal with her instead of eloping with Ruhi like a bhagoda? Shagun wants Raman and Ishita wants only Ruhi. It will be a win-win deal for both of them. And, Raman never had a say on love matters, he won't have the authority to interfere here either.

I sincerely wish no one should be blessed or cursed with such obsessive wives like Raman has/had where the husband becomes an unwanted third wheel.

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Don't you think Raman too loves Ishita cos she loves his kids. He had fallen in love with her cos she took care of his kids. And, it was evident from his many dialogues and self talks. So, only saying that Ishita loves Raman cos of Ruhi and Raman loves Ishu very much won't suffice. Cos, in this relationship, both love are conditional.

And, can't you find an analogy b/w Raman saying Ishita destroyed his life and Ishita saying all those today? Raman was angry, he dint mean anything when he is angry, isn't it the same for Ishita? Why isn't it same for Ishita?

Bingo girl! You said the reality. I feel bad for Puttar. None of his wives loves him. He doesn't really matters to Ishita nor to Shagun. Ishita wants him for Ruhi. No Ruhi no relation and Shagun wants him for Money.

Well, I said it yesterday but everyone bashed me. Those who are saying Ishita was angry that's why she had gone out of line. Then action speaks louder than words. She will elope taking Ruhi with her. How would anyone justify it? It answers everything-- She is in this marriage because of Ruhi. No Ruhi, No Raman. But this is not the case for Raman.

And, I don't mind seeing the deal coz after some day Shagun will leave him for a richer guy, then Raman can live peacefully from those two obnoxious ladies.

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Don't you think Raman too loves Ishita cos she loves his kids. He had fallen in love with her cos she took care of his kids. And, it was evident from his many dialogues and self talks. So, only saying that Ishita loves Raman cos of Ruhi and Raman loves Ishu very much won't suffice. Cos, in this relationship, both love are conditional.

And, can't you find an analogy b/w Raman saying Ishita destroyed his life and Ishita saying all those today? Raman was angry, he dint mean anything when he is angry, isn't it the same for Ishita? Why isn't it same for Ishita?

They fallen in love because of Ruhi but if it implies without Ruhi, they have no place in each others life, then it's not love in the first place. Raman didn't hint that ever but Ishita did. Not only she hinted, she would make it happen. She will run away from everyone taking Ruhi with her, I guess you saw the airport OLV. It's sadly clear that she needs only Ruhi, no one else.

Originally posted by: elene93

They fallen in love because of Ruhi but if it implies without Ruhi, they have no place in each others life, then it's not love in the first place. Raman didn't hint that ever but Ishita did. Not only she hinted, she would make it happen. She will run away from everyone taking Ruhi with her, I guess you saw the airport OLV. It's sadly clear that she needs only Ruhi, no one else.

Raman gave up Adi for Ishita and his family memebers as Shagun was creating problems but Ishita can't give up Ruhi for anyone. 😉

Originally posted by: smritishah

Well, I said it yesterday but everyone bashed me. Those who are saying Ishita was angry that's why she had gone out of line. Then action speaks louder than words. She will elope taking Ruhi with her. How would anyone justify it? It answers everything-- She is in this marriage because of Ruhi. No Ruhi, No Raman. But this is not the case for Raman.

And, I don't mind seeing the deal coz after some day Shagun will leave him for a richer guy, then Raman can live peacefully from those two obnoxious ladies.

Originally posted by: ..Mehak..

Raman gave up Adi for Ishita and his family memebers as Shagun was creating problems but Ishita can't give up Ruhi for anyone. 😉

Originally posted by: sunitas123

strange that women on this forum find Ishita obnoxious? Wow! Read what Divya says...

Raman changes his stance very time when it comes to Adi. Raman said so many mean things to Ishita when she was not actually at fault and no apology afterwards. Ishita said the same today too,

Ishita married Raman only for Ruhi and same with Raman. Raman fell in love with Ishita coz she got him his daughter. Ishita cant imagine her own life without Ruhi today- Ruhi is the only one who has loved her unconditionally. The Bhallas incl Raman are quick to blame her for anything that goes wrong. This was such a gross error and cud have ben averted if Ishita was involved. She has always been warning him too- but the way he was treating her was obnoxious.

her life has been shattered due to Raman's stupidity so she is right to say anything and everything now... If raman can say mean things in anger when she is not even at fault why cant ishita say it when he actually is at fault?

Sorry to butt in but Raman's condecending behavior or messy work doesn't give authority to Ishita to utter such words. I don't think she said it out of anger, she spitted out the ugly truth of their marriage.
And, conditional love? I don't think Ruhi is needed now for Raman to love Ishita but without Ruhi, there is no love for Raman from Ishita. Her recklessly selfish action of leaving Raman and rest of her family members does prove that.