If Ishita was Ruhi's biololgical mother...

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

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Posted: 10 years ago

#31

I still don't understand why some people are naming it "motherly love" or"motherly act". It is pretty evident that it was her own insecurities as a person forced her to do what she did. There was NO motherly deed there.

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@lovely_lady

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Posted: 10 years ago

#32

Originally posted by: anamika244

What potential danger yaar! Shagun wont kill ruhi..But ruhi would hv died becoz of accident if mihikha would not hv come.

Now she just complicating custody case. Creating more problems. That's it.

I'm not comparing her love for ruhi n rkb im just saying ek sms toh karna tha. Don't tell rkb where u r going but atleast inform him that u r safe n will come back.

It was not something life n death where could not even think of messaging him.

I cnt justify few things . It's the way I see things. We can disagree no worries.

Shagun may not kill Ruhi, but she will definitely NOT treat Ruhi very well or anything either. Last time Ruhi stayed/ spent time with Shagun, Shagun almost slapped her and basically left Ruhi to the nanny. Secondly, Shagun herself states that the only reason she wants to get Ruhi's custody, is to make IshRa hurt. Is that even a valid basis to get custody? What about the actual kid?

Everyone in the forum always loves to point out how Shagun is a terrible mother to Adi and hence Adi's custody needs to be given to Raman, but why does this not appeal to Ruhi? Why should Ruhi be subject to the "bad parenting" of Shagun? Would she also not be in danger there?

Not to mention the trauma Ruhi would go through with such a situation. The dream Ishita had about Ruhi being forcibly taken could've been exactly what would've happened when Shagun came for Ruhi. Shagun would definitely not have the patience to deal with Ruhi's emotional upheaval.

Also, I think we're kind off arguing different things here. You think she needed to write a note to Raman, whereas I think that the thought to her writing a note to him would not have even risen in her mind/ is something she would've done.

I'm not saying I think what Ishita did was right, just that I can see why she did what she did.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#33

Originally posted by: deejagi
Guys, a mother daughter bond is so unique that sometimes, even the father will not be able to understand. Some times the father envi's the bond between those 2. The live example is me & my daughter and at times my husband make comments with his brothers and friends that after his retirement, he might have to lead a lonely life as his wife and daughter have already made a bond and are company and he will be the crowd. (2 is company and 3 is crowd). So please guys, never compare a mother's love and wife's love as they are 2 totally different emotions. Here the question is Ruhi's safety and she can't trust Ruhi with Shagun. She did trust her once in past and even sent Ruhi to stay with her for some days befiore her marriage to Ashok but now the scenario is totally different and Shagun is into vengeance and so Ishita is trying to stay safe with her daughter till such time the court opens for proceedings.

And, such bond I share with my mom😛. When my mom and I talk my father doesn't even understand about what we are talking. My mom tells everything to me, and I too do the same. Even when my father is around, my mom spends more time with me. But, when my father goes outside or sitting alone, my mom gets tensed for him, goes to him, talks with him and relieves all his tensions. That time, she doesn't think about me or my bro, that time only father is her priority. And, what I understood from my mom that even if my father is angry on me, I see the scariest avatar of my mom against my father. Women are like this, too much emotional, be it for kids or for husband.

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Tanni

@DivianTanz_Divz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#34

Well, may be very few mothers are there who don't react like Ishita did. I can say she is acting real, cos I saw my mom's possessiveness for us siblings. Me and my mom can related to Ishita fully.

Edited by DivAniTanni - 10 years ago

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aishwarya

@AishMinoz

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Posted: 10 years ago

#35

this show is now so illogical and stupid that no point of discussing it 😆

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-Vishakha-

@-Vishakha-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#36

@Lovely lady!

First of all I ve written what think about the track.. No point in writing same thing again n again. U wont agree I know n I don't hv any problem with.that.

Regarding last 2 para of my first post they were directed to topic maker not u.

Why ppl use words like "those who claim " n all.
On that point I ve written that ppl can hv different opinion one should accept that fact.

On tm usage like "we r watching different show "
I saying that if ppl don't agree with u then why ppl make such conclusions.Why do members not just confine their reactions to a particular context? I mean, is it necessary to make personal comments or judge character or a person's thinking? Why make assumptions about the other member?

Im no where imposing my thoughts on others neither im judging ppl who hv different opinion than me.

Hope im clear.

Peace out.
No further discussion from my side.

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 10 years ago

#37

Originally posted by: anamika244

What potential danger yaar! Shagun wont kill ruhi..But ruhi would hv died becoz of accident if mihikha would not hv come.

Now she just complicating custody case. Creating more problems. That's it.

I'm not comparing her love for ruhi n rkb im just saying ek sms toh karna tha. Don't tell rkb where u r going but atleast inform him that u r safe n will come back.

It was not something life n death where could not even think of messaging him.

I cnt justify few things . It's the way I see things. We can disagree no worries.

I can agree to disagree, but i feel to justify myself. shaun ignores adi and only looks at him when she needs him. She left him home alone with no food and came drunk hours later... shagun can handle adi as he is quiet around her but ruhi wouldn't stop crying or yelling. Her first thing would be to hit her. Yes, it would help prove her a bad parent but no child should have to go through that.

you are right though, sms tho banta hai. she's just afraid of getting caught though... i know she's going ott, but i can understand why. i don't trust shaun, and at this point, raman is going to have to do a lot to build up his trust too...

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ankitasen

@ankitasen

Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#38

Originally posted by: brainychild92

and at this point, raman is going to have to do a lot to build up his trust too...

Could you please elaborate?

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brainychild92

@brainychild92

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Posted: 10 years ago

#39

Originally posted by: ankitasen

Could you please elaborate?

I know it goes both ways, but for this moment or track (which i'm sure the cvs have forgotten already)

After Amma's accident (while both failed to an extent) they promised no more secrets, especially about Adi. She made him realize on multiple occasions that she cares for Adi as much as he does. If she didn't then, today, Adi wouldn't trust Ishita so much.

Ishida gets his sister married to the one guy they all can trust, so that his family name doesn't go down and that his family would stop crying, but he goes and blames ishita for all that is wrong in his life. I know he did that in anger, but it is what happened afterwards that upsets me: He expects Ishita to come after him. Even when she does try, he shoes her away.

If that was not enough torture, He takes Adi's case in his own hands... Sweets, where you couldn't even handle being jobless all alone, how were you going to deal with the woman that singlehandedly ruined you again and again? When she goes to read the papers, he insults her and snatches them away. At this point, if Ishita had read these papers, they could have went to court early. This was preventable.

Maybe trust wasn't the right word but I don't know what else to say. Also, I was not talking about building Ishita's trust but I meant the whole family's. This was avoidable if he took refuge of his family. The only reason Shagun succeeded was because she knew that he wouldn't.

You can disagree or disagree... its fine but it is my analysis.

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