If Ishita was Ruhi's biololgical mother... - Page 2

I would also like to add that those who think Raman is a lone sufferer at the moment with no support need to go back and see how he was before Ishita came in to his life. That's when he was truly alone! He is a genuinely happy man but face it...he has made a HUGE mistake which no wife or mother could tolerate.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I would also like to add that those who think Raman is a lone sufferer at the moment with no support need to go back and see how he was before Ishita came in to his life. That's when he was truly alone! He is a genuinely happy man but face it...he has made a HUGE mistake which no wife or mother could tolerate.

Irrespective of what Raman was (I know I said what cause he was a monster) and how he is right now, what I don't get of their pity / cry is that what did they want actually? Did they want Ishita to be consoling him instead? Isn't it better that he seems to be processing the blow better than Ishita? I mean if I were a hero worshiper I'd certainly be happy that he wasn't crying his heart out, breaking down and shouting while his wife kept it together and consoled him!

I don't think it would be effective either tbh. For one I couldn't imagine Ishita remaining calm when it comes to Ruhi anyway. Whether he cried his eyes out or stay composed, all I can think of is how IDIOTIC his act was. There's no pity coming within me whatsoever so I don't see what others are seeing that we're not.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

I don't think it would be effective either tbh. For one I couldn't imagine Ishita remaining calm when it comes to Ruhi anyway. Whether he cried his eyes out or stay composed, all I can think of is how IDIOTIC his act was. There's no pity coming within me whatsoever so I don't see what others are seeing that we're not.

We should get our eyes or head checked! 🤣

Nice post Reemz.

Ruhi is her world and everything else is secondary to that. There's no bond so strong in the entire world, biological or adoptive, the feeling is the same because all she wanted in life was a child and Ruhi is indeed her strength and weakness. Her behavior and reaction was realistic and heart breaking as well, esp the begging part :(

Raman made the biggest blunder in his life and will have to pay a high price for it.

Originally posted by: *Reemz*

Those claiming that Ishita is still stuck in the Ruhi ke liye phase really do make me wonder if we are watching the same show. It also makes me wonder if people would still compare the spouse relationship with the mother-child bond if Ishita was Ruhi's biological mother. I'm pretty sure if that was the case then no-one would question her eccentric behaviour.

I find it unfair that Ishita and are Raman are always bashed for being parents. Its ridicoulous. Just because the feeling of a parent overpowers the feeling of a spouse doesnt mean Ishita doesnt love Raman or vice versa.

For the love of God, stop comparing these 2 relationships. Women make new relationships post marriage due to their husband but in this case Ishita formed relationships post marriage due to Ruhi. Why is it so shocking for people that Ruhi is her first priority? Are you forgetting that she married a man she was least interested in just so she could stay with Ruhi. Was that not bizarre to you then? Or was it because you were getting Raman and Ishita as a married couple that you completely missed this OTT step by Ishita.

LOl @bold. I think people sometimes get way into to the lead couple that they forget the initial details of the show. This show is about the mohabbatein between Ishita and Ruhi.

If she can marry in to a strange home and family for Ruhi, why the hell should she not act the way she did today? Raman being the great businessman didn't even read the contract properly. Should he be applauded? He's exchanged their daughter for goodness sake. I think a mother has complete right to go beserk!

Well said! Although Raman made a major mistake, I actually felt bad for him because this man loves his children so much and he didn't expect Shagun cheat him like that.

Even in the real world, children can make or break a relationship so I find it highly unfair that people are claiming that Raman has no place in Ishita's life, talking as if Ruhi is their enemy :| Let Ishita be angry, she has the right to!

👏 Actually in the western world, when a child dies most relationships dont survive the aftermath. They end up in divorce. Even in the eastern world relationships are shooken up after the death of a child. Why they don't end up in divorce is because divorce is considered taboo in our society.

Also, those claiming that no-one cares for Raman's feelings. Not sure if you remember but he didn't look at his daughters face for years so I'm sure he can handle this better than Ishita can at the moment.

Its honest ridiculous . These parents are shaken up. Shagun cheated Raman and Ishita. Ishita is about to loose her daughter. What do people expect Ishita and Raman to romance. Ishita not to be upset with Raman for hiding things from her.

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Irrespective of what Raman was (I know I said what cause he was a monster) and how he is right now, what I don't get of their pity / cry is that what did they want actually? Did they want Ishita to be consoling him instead? Isn't it better that he seems to be processing the blow better than Ishita? I mean if I were a hero worshiper I'd certainly be happy that he wasn't crying his heart out, breaking down and shouting while his wife kept it together and consoled him!

did they want ishita to be consoling him instead? Dat is also a problem here wings..if she consoles him den also people tag her names like JM...people r so obsessed with ishra romance dat someone posted dat she want to slap hard ruhi for disturbing ishra in holi epi..I think who r comparing spouse nd childs love dey hadn't watched YHM frm start..

Brilliant post.

Any mother in her place, would've reacted like her or more than that. In fact, some are not liking her hiding with Ruhi to some place, a mother can do anything when she doesn't know what to do to save her child.

A sensible post after a long time👏.Well written & I totally agree with you.