The relation between ishita raman and ruhi is not normal and very complex and an abnormal one.. i have seen many posts in the forum saying the ishra are in still the sirf ruhi ke liye mode though they claim to move on from this zone atleast for ishita she is still there and her actions today shows that...
but for me atleast ishita was no where wrong in what ever she told and what ever did since she got the news of the swap of ruhi for adi...this is because..
even in a normal relation when people get married and then become parents and have their own children if any one of the parent commits a mistake which effects the kid it is obvious that the other partner scolds him and behaves as if the kid is more important than the partner and as if the partner has no responsibility or love towards to the kid.. this is general and very normal in every house hold.. if this is the case in normal relation then the relation of ishra was on the basis of ruhi.. ishita married raman only for ruhi and initially she beared the tantrums and all the obstacles in her sasuraal just for ruhi she is more than her life then it is obvious for her to behave in this manner when she is on the verge of losing someone who is more than her life.. her reaction in the precap also explains the same...the way she scolded raman for not sharing the things with her and the way she asked him to move away from her shows her pain of losing ruhi but not any sort difference between the love she has for ruhi and raman.. for every mother kid id more important than husband and love of the kid and husband cant be compared at any point of time..
in my pov we need to appreciate ishita for one thing that she did not misunderstand raman and say how can do this for ur son?? she trusted him that he might be his mistake but not a deliberate action.. in the place where ishita is any woman will feel that raman might have done it wantedly owing to the ghar ka chirag theme always running in the house and his mute and hidden actions in the previous days. she still trusted him that he can never do this wantedly and blamed him how can he sign without reading it and not sharing it with her as the problem might have not arised if both were present or if he was careful enough.. this shows her trust in her husband and her love for her daughter but not any sign of still struck in sirf ruhi ke liye mode...
ishita taking away of ruhi is just her way to protect her daughter from all the things going around..
from the talk of lawyer and shagun it is clear that raman cant stop this until court intervenes and court will be closed till monday and so what ever they may do they cant stop shagun from taking away ruhi from them for atleast one day.. we may think it may be for one day but just think about the torture ruhi goes thru when shagun takes away her in exchange of adi.. how insecure will she feel??? will she be able come out of the complexes and misunderstandings she might develop in the short span thinking that her family loved adi more than her.. and i guess this is the reason why ishita took away ruhi with her so that her daughter wont go thru this drama.. she is ready to break law or get herself punished according to law to protect her daughter.. this is true love of a mother that she can go to any extent to protect her kids from the pain and humiliatiion...
for me this shows that ishita was no way wrong in her actions and words...