'Maine Pyar kiya' style communication *Updated* - Page 8

Originally posted by: mischief

Beautiful collages Gan!!! 👏 U are a QUEEN of collages in capturing the best moments of the episodes. 👏You make us fall more in love with these moments of Ishra each & every time through your collages..🤗

Well about the episodes!!! I have said this million times and still don't get tired in mentioning this over and over again that ISHRA are MAGICAL in all their scenes!! ⭐️ The moment these two come on screen they have to create something which more magical, intense, outstanding, etc...etc with each & every performance of theirs whether it is Romance, Intense scene, Nokjhok or even their rarest of rate communicating scenes 😉

But I have to admit one thing over here that there is always something which I hope to see in the episodes and I'm left dry without those moments!!😭. What all had I expected was one small moment where Raman would hv been apologetic towards Ishita for the words that he had said to her but Alas some wishes are always left unanswered. Everything about Ishra in this serial is cut short these days...😡 The feeling of completeness/contentment with a scene is something which I don't get to see these days in the episodes.

One thing which crossed my mind is thus Raman really trusts Ishita with things relating to Adi???! Coz whenever it comes to Adi, he doesn't share most of the important things with her inspite of ishita showing her support with matters relating to Adi... Or is this again a build up for the upcoming drama? 😕 Whatever it may be, I'm forced not to like Raman's attitude towards this whole Ruhi-Adi exchange thing!!! Now my only hope is to see a BIG Change in the dynamics of Ishita - Raman's relationship!!! This time CVs I don't want you to show Raman taking Ishita for granted and Ishita taking everything in her stride for her love for Ruhi & Raman... This time I want to see a strong Ishita to emerging out of this situation who is more vocal & rebellion definitely after her breaking point😛.

@bold

Yes even it annoys me him not sharing the little things. But I can share what I feel about this. It's a quintessential male behavior, not just Ramans...when it comes to matter where they feel there is a lot of financial impact (remember Raman still sees this as a 4 Lac/month transaction) on the family, they try to hide it as they feel it will unnecessarily worry them...I feel that's why he's hiding it from her. But wives get a hunch about hubbies' odd behavior. She has picked it on too and asked him. That he denied to share with her combined with the fact that Shagun has played trick on the contract...it might create bigger problems where Ishita might view it as Raman's effort to hide the swapping proposal fo Shagun's ..this is entirely my assumption, the CVs might not go this route at all. And yes I want Ishita to stop being "I can take it all for Raman and Ruhi" and rise up to the occasion...which I feel she'd as somehow Ishita, Ruhi's mother is a much stronger/vocal person than Ishita, Raman's wife.

It's going to be gut wrenching to watch it, and I can wait for it to be all right soon. If one part where I wouldnt mind a bullet express, it would be here. This is a choice no parent needs to face ever.

Btw, found it funny that an apartment that had 3 bedrooms to start with (and no room for Romi), now has a separate one for Adhi.. which brings me Gan, to your 'convenient amnesia' 😆

Gan ... Liked the post , wonderful collage...

Edit : sorry just checked other members already posted this information ...

Post updated on pg 1... random ramblings, YAAAY!🥳


@Doc: Terrific post... I shall await your translations, take your time my dear- you are worth the wait!😉

Originally posted by: RomComFan

Post updated on pg 1... random ramblings, YAAAY!🥳

Here's to nostalgia, the best way to keep positive!

Okay, off I go to catch up on all yur wonderful insightful posts...😊

beautiful collage

YHM's essence lies in its moments,
its human interactions, its
relationships and their
complexities...not in just big
celebrations leading to bigger
dhamakas. When will the CVs get out
of their current prime time masala
mindset?
@bold: well said

@Anu- Those are lovely gifs!!!!❤️.

@anu - PM'ed you! And thanks for the complement...I felt most my post was just rambling bc after watching the SBB/SBS my heart was just so sad that I couldn't actually analyze the episode/characters! Just watching Ishu breakdown was gut wrenching.

Also I loved your post and what an apt comparison between Raman's love for Adi and Ishita's love for Ruhi. Both of them may be weak in their love for their children but hopefully after the impending drama, they will completely be each other's strengths!

Shagun not only took advantage of the fact Raman would push forward at all costs to get Adi, but she hit his sense of pride...I guess the cat's out of the bag that he got a new job (just not the employer 😆 and she's using that as a weak point. Hiding info about money is not unique to Raman..we saw Appa do the same but to a much lesser degree. So much of the core of this track has been built on money matters, which I find very interesting!

Your comment about the leads hair - I agree! KP may not get to be clean shaven for a while but at least he can tame the mane!

Also I'm not a huge fan of the background music either...it seems different in an odd way...

Originally posted by: RomComFan

RES... to the YHM bullet train express, speeding through or completely ignoring the necessary stops and pausing for eons at the unnecessary ones... here's hoping the new tracks focus more towards the leads then the vamps and villains.🤢

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I am, as most of you are, frustrated about the lack of communication. Surely there is a deliberate reasoning for the CVs to take this route- so that when it all comes out the dam will burst and they will both fall apart as individuals and a couple, needing each other but not able to reach out because of the deliberate acts of omissions of these past few days. But for the characters themselves as well this kind of makes sense.

Yes ISHRA and RKB have taken long strides in their communication, but there is still a part of RKB that just wants to take care of everything by himself. Unlike with the accident track, he is not hiding this truth because he doesn't trust Ishita, but because he doesn't want to give her additional worry. His worry even today about her possible reactions to the monetary agreement with Shagun was simply about avoiding what he feels is an inevitable fight for an unavoidable situation. He knows Ishita loves his children but he also knows hat she doesn't agree with the lengths he will go to get his son. The fact is Raman is trying to protect Adhi and bring him back into the fold. Ishita is trying to protect Adhi and Raman... and Raman, he doesn't feels he needs to be protected.

And that is why he is making such fundamental mistakes in his manuvers against Shagun (and his choice of legal advisors). Raman sees Adhi as his only weakness, what Ishita sees is that his weakness for Adhi has also made him vulnerable to Shagun's ploys and manipulations- something we have all been witness from the moment Adhi was introduced. As much as the coming track is about ISHRA, ISHRARU, Adhi , the GKC concept and everything else... I see this as the track that will finally make RKB see the truth of his true vulnerability and for that, as much as anything else, I will watch.

Raman needs to face the blindness that his love for his son has given him, it will always be a part of him to some level- like her love for Ru blinds Ishita, and they both must come together and admit that in such moments they need the support of the other. They need to know and accept that that said support will come free of judgement and will that the worry will never be seen as a burden. These seem like simple lessons, but for two people who life has ljet down so much , especially regarding those particular children, it's a hard lesson to learn. And perhaps this is the only way to make sure that they not only learn it, but also never forget.

Random thoughts:

1. Was RKB gelling down his curls in the beginning? Wouldn't it be easier to get a trim?#Please stop these crimes against hawtness #Not fair #l need him to look pretty while he mopes for the upcoming track #Atleast give me a pretty puttar to look at #Fangirls against hawtness reduction

2. New background track... not really liking it. The BG scores just seems really off these days, is it just me?

3. Ishu's hair... NO!🤢

4. Old apartment mentioned: Finally getting rid of the curse of the service apartments? Back to quality YHM?

5. How many rooms does the Bhalla home have?😛

6. 24 hour deadline: Bullet train? or Turtle pace? Place your bets ladies and gents!😉

Originally posted by: krishy13

Today's episodes highlighted...

• Cute fights that break the ice (& the wonderful collages that capture them)
• Ishita continuing to frankly speaking your mind without aggression 👏
• The pride of men like Appa & Raman who foolishly keep money matters from their spouses