Shagun's fear of falling from grace *IshRaRu Collage added*

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"From where I'm sitting,
I AM the centre of the Universe!"
... And today it kinda hit Shagun that she's no longer the center of Adi's universe...the one person she always thought was for her for good. Adi's eyes have started differentiating between right and wrong... And I liked the fact that Adi couldn't lie properly to Shagun... Very 12 year ish

Looks like the CVs are now going to butcher the sensible Vandita for GKC track. And Amma needed to protest to Toshijee as she's a mother of two very independent, caring girls who look after their parents even though they are married...


Loved Adi's phone call to Dadu to wish him and the little hint of sibling bonding between Adi and Ruhi where it's obvious he had shared about Dadu's birthday.


Kostin is what's holding Raman from having a talk with Ishita... why prolong the silent mode... Convenient much for what's coming?

Precap : RKB if you know about this woman and her games... How do you sign a legal document without reading it through?


The scene of the day for me... Some words that will come to haunt Raman soon .. A daughter who wants to always be with her parents ...a husband's ego acting as a roadblock of communication between a couple... a poignant scene. Essence of YHM lies there

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Posted: 10 years ago
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"Nobody sees anybody truly but all through the flaws of their own egos. That is the way we all see ...each other in life. Vanity, fear, desire, competition-- all such distortions within our own egos-- condition our vision of those in relation to us. Add to those distortions to our own egos the corresponding distortions in the egos of others, and you see how cloudy the glass must become through which we look at each other. That's how it is in all living relationships except when there is that rare case of two people who love intensely enough to burn through all those layers of opacity and see each other's naked hearts."
- Tennessee Williams


What perfect timing, i log in after 3 days and find you posting at the same time. 😃
Will be back to update once you have updated.

Raman-Ruhi-Ishu scene.
#Way too many feels
#Adi ❤️
#Puttar is still being as ass to missus
#Still wanna jump puttar

This song is more for me as I need something motivational today but it suits puttar and missus.

Missus: Don't ever give up on puttar, show him the way and give him the courage to make amends for all the mistakes he has made. You are a conqueror! don't let a man's ego ruin your beautiful marital relationship.

Puttar: Make amends, don't accept defeat at the hands of your ego. Only you stand in the way of your fairytale life. Be a conqueror!


Life is like a big merry-go-round,

You're up and then down,

Going in circles trying to get to where you are.

Everybody's been counting you out,

Where are they now?

Sitting in the same old place,

Just faces in the crowd.

We all make mistakes,

You might fall on your face,

But you gotta get up!

I'd rather stand tall

Than live on my knees,

'Cause I am a conqueror,

And I won't accept defeat!

Try telling me no,

One thing about me

Is I am a conqueror,

I am a conqueror!


Edited by Eyes-Wide-Shut - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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res

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"Anyone can have a child and call themselves a parent A real parent is someone who puts that child above their own selfish needs and wants ." ~Unknown

"Every discussion which is made from an egoistic standpoint is corrupted from the start and cannot yield an absolutely sure conclusion. The ego puts its own interest first and twists every argument, word, even fact to suit that interest." ~Paul Brunton, The Notebooks of Paul Brunton

Best moments from the episode:
  • Sarika standing up for herself. Again all the woman of YHM should learn something from her because she the only person who isn't letting the anyone walk all over her.
  • Ishraru scene. Even though both Ishra are mad at one another it was nice to get a family scene specially father-daughter bonding. These little moments is what the show is about because these relationships and bonds is what has attracted us to the show.
  • Mr. Bhalla's grandchildren remembering his brother. It was so sweet of Adi to call his dadu and wish him a Happy Birthday. It is a nice change in Adi. I haven't forgetting our sweet Ruhi making her dadu a birthday card.
  • Adi realizing the importance of family and telling his mother that he misses the Bhallas. This change in Adi is great not only because he is slowly changing but because he is realizing the differences between right and wrong. I feel like if the Adi's custody case goes to go court then Adi will choose the Bhallas over his mother this time.
Worst moments from the episode:
  • Because of this GKC, Cvs are butchering Vandita's character. She is always shown as sensible, then the cvs should show it that way. Instead of her talking to Sarika, she should put some sense into the whole Bhalla family.
  • Shagun,Shagun, Shagun. I am tried of seeing her on my screen. This woman is incredible selfish. She cares more about her well being then her children. I cant believe she wants to trade her son who she claims she has raised for her daughter who she barely connects with just to get back at her ex. Plus the last scene was just too funny.
  • Ishra and their lack of communication. Its offical, this couple has the worst communication in all of the current shows on television that I watch. They both need to sit down and talk to another. I get Raman was angry and frustrated so he took his anger out on his wife. But now things have calm down so he should go talk to her.
I didn't understand Shagun today. Does she fear loosing her son because she doesn't want to be alone or is she afraid to loose her pawn? And how on earth did Raman become a CEO. Doesnt he read the contracts before he signs them.

Overall I didn't enjoy the episode. More of the villain was shown then the main leads.

PS. Amazing collage as always.
Edited by cocololo123 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Silence sometimes isn't the best option.

For Toshiji's views - every time someone stays silent and doesn't correct her, they enable her and are equally as guilty of perpetuating such thoughts.

For Raman - things will escalate bc he won't have a conversation with his wife due to pride. His current behavior is truly convenient to make his fall from grace in the next week or two even more dramatic...
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The one place (not related to Shagun's constant presence) that I think the CVs have really botched the track is by not clearly showing/explaining Raman's intentions behind trying to bring Adi back or approaching Sarika. He is no longer majboor to give into Adi's whims for acceptance, and he does not have Toshiji's GKC mentality. He wants his son away from his vile ex and under the protection of the Bhallas because clearly Adi has warmed up to everyone including Ishita.

Yes - his "quick fix" attitude for the Romi-Sarika union was an insult to women, but unlike Toshiji, his motivation was not for sake of bringing in another boy child. Without delving into the situation and getting Romi's POV like Ishita did, he wants to fix matters for his brother and save him from shame.

Also...while I don't agree with his approach to the Sarika-Romi issue, I don't think Raman should be labeled as a "sexist Bhalla". In fact, I think the only one who has sexist views in that house is Toshiji and like I mentioned above, the rest of the Bhalla-Iyer clan are not sexist but every single one of them ARE enabling Toshiji's regressive soch by not attempting to correct her. Mr. Bhalla had his moments of trying to reason with her, but one voice is not enough.
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Today's episode had a few scenes that warmed the heart...
  • I loved the Raman-Ruhi-Ishita scene today! Even though it was clearly there to make the impending drama hurt more, it was adorable and light-hearted despite Ishita and Raman's cold war. I'm a sucker for daddy-daugher moments, so the CVs gain one tiny point for this scene. 😆
  • Regarding Ishita & Raman...even though they are in a cold war for stupid reasons the CVs decided to concoct, you can really see & feel the angst both are going through being emotionally apart from each other.
  • I really liked the Mihir-Rinki-Mihika scene today. Even though Mihir had a small moment of showing off like RKB did during Holi (on a grander scale)...the scene was just a refresher from all the drama. I feel a little bad for Mihika but it looks like she is trying to make the best of it right now! Plus, I'm really liking Mihir & Rinki's jodi! They complement each other well and minus all the hair gel, Mihir looks cute!
  • Waise, Mihika was there to talk about travel plans...I hope she's not going somewhere and leaving us with more Shagun drama without breaks.
  • The family scene today was also adorable! I like seeing the bond slowly forming between Ruhi & Adi! It's WAY better than that stupid "My mom is better" crap we got before the race. All of these small changes in Adi are giving Raman more motivation to bring Adi back because now Raman is not as worried about "Will Adi be able to adjust here?" because clearly Adi has made progress.
  • I didn't mention this yesterday - but Sarika, you go girl!
Here's to next week's rootna-mananna Holi & drama!

Edited by krishy13 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Res. Raman's beahaviour- Just for the sake of increasing MU. Easy route taken by cv's. Nothing more to it.
I loved the Raman-Ruhi-Ishita scene. it is such scenes for which I am still stuck to this show. And yes, this moment is going to come haunt Raman once he realizes what he has done in his haste to get his son's custody back. I look forward to see Ishita's reaction to this particular truth.

Shagun looked like the wicked witch- Period. She again proved that she does not have a single maternal bone in her; not a single one. And this whole swap drama is just to scare the Bhallas and make them run enough so that she gets to keep Adi- the child she yet has some amount of influence over. even Shagun knows that taking ruhi away will hurt Ishita- but ishita will fight till her last breth for ruhi- which Shagun is incapable of doing. This again reminds me of the accident track- there too she used Raman's love for Adi- used her son's crime to get the one thing she wanted- A ring from Ashok. well, we all know how that turned out- This will turn out opposite to what she expects too. There is going to be a hell lot of Dram before that though- so for that- #Buckle Up. #Its gonna be a bumpy ride!

As for Raman in the precap- For all the times he has told Ishita that she bought her Dentistry degree- I would like to tell him this- Did you luck your way through to the CEO position my dear Puttar???? Coz the way you are signing documents without reading and making custody arrangements without court orders- I am pretty sure you would have been broke if you had followed the same ideas in your business.

P.S. Let us see what Holi brings us. #Please apologize to biwi puttar, before going and Romancing her. Shit is gonna hit the roof anyways- get your apologies and roothna manana for a short period done now. #I believe in You.

Also, Plzz- Cv's NO drunken Consummation for this couple- Please. Have some mercy on your audience.
Edited by shadeslayer - 10 years ago
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Tonight Shagun somehow reminded me of Norma Bates. I know she did nothing extraordinary to get compared to Norma, it's just a product of my hyper active imagination but still, I felt like she's reaching there!

Anyone else?
Edited by Wings-of-Fire - 10 years ago
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Nice post gan 😛 u exactly wrote every thing what i felt during watching the episode..there were so many tracks running in the same time but i don't like none of them😕 i don't have any idea of were the story is heading, actually my head is spinning over dose of shagun and adi, and raman's love for GKC, and list of family problems to be solved for ishra.. 🥱 i all this mess ishra was lost somewhere 😭
I am still not getting the weird behavior of raman with ishu he didn't behave like this when she actually commits mistakes 😆 all of a sudden he is showing attitude 😕 good to see adi 's change, and the rest is not worth watching ... 🤢 if this kids' swapping happens good for ruhi, atleast she will get some screen space and for ishra also, i am fed up with this too much screen space and CVS love for adi and shagun 😡 🥱
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Originally posted by: krishy13

Res but I will say silence sometimes isn't the best option.

For Toshiji's views - every time someone stays silent and doesn't correct her, they enable her and are equally as guilty of perpetuating such thoughts.

For Raman - things will escalate bc he won't have a conversation with his wife due to pride. (Truly convinient to make his fall from grace even more dramatic...)



I completely agree with you Krishy.



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Posted: 10 years ago
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RES... lets' al ignore the distant rumblings and bask in the ISHRARU love, the dark cloud will come soon enough.
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Blah.
Blah.


Blah.


HE KNOWS Shagun and he will STILL sign those documents?

2 legal questions:-

1. Any contract's one of the most essential prerequisite is that there must not be any element of fraud or coercion, otherwise that contract is void ab initio. Void since the very beginning.

2. Wasn't ruhi's sole and complete custody was given to Ishita? How is the custody Raman's to give?


Uh! This is just stupid. I cant fathom a brilliant man like raman doing something so stupid.


AND yes. CVs are very conveniently pushing the STUPID-EST fight into something very silly.

I did not like it at all. She doesn't deserve this. Kuch bhi dikha rahe hain CVs abb. KUCH bhi.


I would just like to say that if CVs want to salvage their show, they should stop this nonsense in the name of drama.

Har 2 mahine pe, same case leke koi court nahi jaata. Theek hai, even if its fiction at least show SOME sense.

Ruhi ka custody is TOO overdone. TOO much.

Ishita will be heartbroken by Raman's action for sure. I hope she will be shown heartbroken by our very GREAT CVs.

And I agree with whatever you said. This needs to stop. Shagun needs to GO. GO GO GO AWAYYY


Waiting for the collage :)


PS: Yes. Aditya's call was cute :)

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