I have a question regarding Ishita's responsibility..

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi people, i rarely ever make post... but i have a question today...n didnt seem to see anyone address it...may be i missed out... or may be my memory is failing me... as far as i remember the 'responsibility' of finding about the groom was already done by bhalla ji... n then after roka was done, then ishita who by the way was meeting this guy for the first time, said she will call her junior (whom she hasnt met for ages n she informed that too to toshi ji) n recheck abt the guy.. when she got good review..n ifnormed all, raman said.."maine to pehele hi kaha tha..tum ko khamokha apna credit chahiye..."..then toshi ji said.I trust ur judgement...
My question is..after roka, kya chking n judging the guy? n how then mrs bhalla suddenly blame ishita... n y was raman n mr bhalla keeping mute over the whole situation...

I love Amma's dialogue.. kaan ka kacha hona bahut buri cheez hain... its better to have intelligent enemy than having stupid friends...

I know its drama... but drama ke liye Kuch bhi?? n if it is completely ishita's fault, then Ishita also has the right to choose mihir for rinki.. kyunki apparently all in bhalla are just mute spectators...they had no hadn in deciding avt rinki's mrg to that guy...

They were any way searching a girl for mihir... n mihir is a good boy they all know that... rinki ki bhi arrange mrg hi ho rahi thi... so logical step is rinki mihir marriage..since mihir's love already gone (atleast they know that)...

Mind you i m neither a ishita fan nor a raman fan...i m ishra fan...n i love them to core...but bas aaj kuch zyada hi ho gaya...just for the sake of drama...

n i wanted to ask shagun...if u can shamelessly parade around after ur so called marriage being called off...why will things be different for rinki...n it wasnt her fault..so god damn...such regressive thoughts abt the cvs...

sorry for the long rant...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Answer - there is no logical answer! 😆
All the Bhallas had a role to play in this stupidity- Toshiji, Bhallaji, Raman, Ishita, & even Rinki.

Toshiji - in my mind, holds the most blame thanks to her rush to get Rinki married.

Bhallaji - "did a background check" but played mute during the blame game

Ishita & Raman - both should have (1) not bought into Toshiji's guilt trip and let Rinki do what she wanted & (2) actually done research on the guy. But really they have less blame than Toshiji and Bhallaji...they were dealing with Raman's job insecurity and Ishita was working more.

Rinki - has a small degree of blame too because she too bought into her mother's guilt trip without putting up a fight. Rinki has school and a future ahead of her, but thanks to her mom's pressure she agreed to the marriage. Then because of her mom's sadness, she will silently agree to enter into a marriage with a man whose heart still truly belongs to someone else.

While all the Bhallas have a responsibility to Rinki, the onus of the burden should not have fallen onto Raman & Ishita. It is Toshiji & Bhallaji's responsibility to their daughter to find a good groom. Raman and Ishita, due to their kind and caring nature, have always had the burden of others fall on their shoulders.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is a very good question that has no answer because the CVs are idiots
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@krishy...hey yaar..whats up? you r absolutely right...but my question is y was raman so quiet?? just too show this stupid stupid drama by shagun... they muted him... he was just staring... what was tht... toshi ji is a yo yo... n seriusly i wud rather deal with param type kameena than toshi ji kinda woman... for pammi, her answer is y r u taking blame.. n for her bahu its "dusro ki baat nahi sunni chahiye..."eh hoti nayi soch.,...naaah...too much expectation..
n rinki...come on girl...say tht my life doesnt end... i will nto marry just for the heck of it... y

Ho kya raha haain...

@drb6...lolz...cvs have really lost it...first time i m getting irritated with this much loved show... tht shows how much patience i had for this show..



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalz_123

@krishy...hey yaar..whats up? you r absolutely right...but my question is y was raman so quiet?? just too show this stupid stupid drama by shagun... they muted him... he was just staring... what was tht... toshi ji is a yo yo... n seriusly i wud rather deal with param type kameena than toshi ji kinda woman... for pammi, her answer is y r u taking blame.. n for her bahu its "dusro ki baat nahi sunni chahiye..."eh hoti nayi soch.,...naaah...too much expectation..

n rinki...come on girl...say tht my life doesnt end... i will nto marry just for the heck of it... y

Ho kya raha haain...

@drb6...lolz...cvs have really lost it...first time i m getting irritated with this much loved show... tht shows how much patience i had for this show..


Hey Shalz! I feel like I haven't chatted with you in a while about YHM for some reason! I'm doing well! how are you?

Raman was mute b/c this episode needed to compete with the current #1 TRP show:



Truthfully - there is no answer as to why Raman was so quiet. For him not to defend the love of his life was a STUPID move on the CVs part. It's utterly disappointing and reminiscent of when Raman OTT exploded on Ishita during the "Shagun & Adi move out" subtrack.

I have a lot of patience for this show! In fact I can take the GKC drama, Ishita/Raman not pressing charges after the bachelor party kaand, Raman dancing at his ex-wife's wedding celebrations, and even the most ridiculous NYE/anniversary party.

The one thing I cannot take is today's episode and it's regressive, anti-women's empowerment crap. Why should an educated woman be forced to marry someone (even if he's like a son to her parents)? Why should a loyal brother and friend be guilted into marrying someone? 🤢

Khair...it's not worth it...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Today thru out the episode I found Only one sanest person i.e.Madhavi.The way she stood for her daughter ...i expected Ishita's in-laws to stand for her like that.

Shagun was hurling all the accusations...and what I see a silent husband..Pammi going scot-free...a mum FIL,who has checked grooms background and was going ga-ga over their choice... 'toshiji humko heera mila hain"...Toshi who was so sure of the groom as Pammi had brought the rishta and according to her everything is fine.But when the fate turns out to be brutal...all blame gone on Ishita and no one has the the voice to stop Shagun and say her to shoo -off and that Ishita is not solely responsible.

I was also surprised to see Rinky nodding to her Bhabhi's wish.WTH??She is forced to a marriage and the guy turned bad...instead of objecting she agrees for another one.It's her life...she is educated ..can't she voice her opinion?She fought with her family to continue her studies instead of getting married...so,what stopped her now from voicing out.She could have easily said that she doesn't want to be a part of this dulha replacement circus.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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@krishy... i wasnt in forum re for many days now... first my mom was not well..had to do a bhagam bhaag..n then cousin bro's marriage..it was very hectic..
i know... i understand what you are saying abt mihir... mihir saying yes to the marriage reminds me abt a very wierd advertisement i saw...where the guy's relatives where thinking of cutting his kidneys just becoz he stays at their place whenever he comes to town... some stupid n weird ad... lolz...



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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: divine_16

Today thru out the episode I found Only one sanest person i.e.Madhavi.The way she stood for her daughter ...i expected Ishita's in-laws to stand for her like that.

Shagun was hurling all the accusations...and what I see a silent husband..Pammi going scot-free...a mum FIL,who has checked grooms background and was going ga-ga over their choice... 'toshiji humko heera mila hain"...Toshi who was so sure of the groom as Pammi had brought the rishta and according to her everything is fine.But when the fate turns out to be brutal...all blame gone on Ishita and no one has the the voice to stop Shagun and say her to shoo -off and that Ishita is not solely responsible.

I was also surprised to see Rinky nodding to her Bhabhi's wish.WTH??She is forced to a marriage and the guy turned bad...instead of objecting she agrees for another one.It's her life...she is educated ..can't she voice her opinion?She fought with her family to continue her studies instead of getting married...so,what stopped her now from voicing out.She could have easily said that she doesn't want to be a part of this dulha replacement circus.


@bold..word...👏 tht is exctly what i felt... she was indeed the sanest person... n tht says a lot abt this drama...coz we know generally amma at times can be really unreasonable...n the so called reasonable people kept mum...lolz...

I absolutely agree with you regarding the rinki's stand... aaj ki ladki hain..kese ese rote rahi...bol nahi sakti thi...shagun ko...shut up u bloody b*****... why will i be cursed... u get lost... any way.//we know this whole stupid nri drama was for mihir rinki mrg...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: shalz_123


@bold..word...👏 tht is exctly what i felt... she was indeed the sanest person... n tht says a lot abt this drama...coz we know generally amma at times can be really unreasonable...n the so called reasonable people kept mum...lolz...

I absolutely agree with you regarding the rinki's stand... aaj ki ladki hain..kese ese rote rahi...bol nahi sakti thi...shagun ko...shut up u bloody b*****... why will i be cursed... u get lost... any way.//we know this whole stupid nri drama was for mihir rinki mrg...

To see Rinky in tears...I don't have a problem.The mess that was created, is bound to shake someone...but what I didn't like was her agreeing to marry a person immediately.I would have preferred if she said that she don't want to get married now...atleast not for the sake of what Shagun said.She has the right to make decision of her own life...and that she wants to invest now on studies rather than going after a commitment after such mess.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hey TM I really loved your Pov stating that if Shagun can shamelessly roam why not Rinki. I too feel CVS are forcing another marriage. Personally I feel TOSHI blindly believed Pammi. What was more annoying than Shagun was Raman's silence. I really loved him on Vandita's Godhbharai but today just opposite. Thanks Cvs

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