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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: swathi1990


Yup.. finally it is done... we are gearing up for sangeet... Yay 😆

mrs sagar is not upset re... She observes that II is upset..


Something is fishy about Mrs. Sagar!!! Either she is sick or she is giving some info to chacha and party. I am not getting warm and fuzzy feeling.

PS: IF was acting funny last night, I cant see my comments from the last update😭
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: adlin1784

Hello everyone.

Again wonderful updates Nisha.

So here I go with my thoughts (sorry if I go too far with it but it's kind of interactive thread for me as I don't know what is going to happen next I can't help myself to write my thoughts here as it's the only place I can talk about...And I had Nisha's authorisation.😊) And sorry I don't use lot of emoticons so hope my comment won't be dull.

Anu searched for prenup's meaning on Google and it's about clauses in case of separation or divorce. And that's what R&B talked about ("upon DIVORCE"). But II never talked about that. She wants to make "legal" rules about their married life (as to whom pay for what) in order to keep her independance. As if in all her confused mind and thoughts about their relationship she knows that once she will marry him he will have all control and she will follow (as he knows how to convince her).

Everyone talked about II's insecurities but I think R&B has some too. He wants her to be his as soon as possible he knows about some of her doubts, he can sense when she is troubled but as she is such a talkative person maybe he expects her to express everything. And if she doesn't that means she doesn't want to share... He is angry about prenup maybe because that means she doesn't trust their relationship to last long or maybe because she wants to keem him aside.
Yes he is confident about his commitment but he doesn't want to hurt her or to lose her that is why he didn't tell her about Paris (I don't agree) but if he tells her what will she do ? She can back off. Her father also.

And something I am wondering about : everyone knows that he left everything and settled in Paris but no one thought that he will come back there even after getting married ? Neither Sam or Ranjan ? Don't talk about II she is completely lost cause. Her parents ? Don't know about Tan. Do everyone think because he is marriying her and she being so close to her family he will stay ? In his father's house ?

Maybe Nisha will explain that later.


Voila. I'll stop here. Sorry for my looog comments.


perfect Adlin!!!

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Posted: 10 years ago

I was just about to write when Anu highlighted the points that I was about to comment...Wise women think alike 😉

Adlin: Vous avez fait un excellent travail, I am trying to write in french apres 15 ans 😳.
Merci Bcp 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi21

I knew Ishita was always uncertain about a lot of things and insecure where Raman was concerned but this kind of insecurity seems out of behaviour to me.

Had this prenup thing come up 5-6 update before this, I would have gladly read through it without a frown but it seemed out of place..not in sync with the progression of story line.

Although I individually enjoyed the chapter, just when it came together as a part of story i did not. Like last few chapters were something else only! Amazing ones.

And no i am not saying every chapter has to be perfect. Its just my view that its a little out of sync with the kind of progression you have shown so far in theit relationship.

I know raman and ishita share a rare kind of relationship. Its unique and i dont question that.

Also i did not understand why raman was still clueless about ishita's behaviour. By now he knows her too well to ubderstand why she demanded a prenup. Is he not?

but there is only so much their relationship can be hit by their insecurities and still seem like a real relationship. Even if its their relationship. :)
Its just my view as a reader. I will retierate that I really like this story. Faults and all. :)


Hey Arshi, in two months her life has gone upside down, so has his in 3 weeks they decide to marry ,families are complete opposites.
He hasnt probably met anyone like her and she hasnt met anyone like him. They come from different galaxies .

She is seeped in doubt, its not making logical sense to anyone how this is happening .. have we ever heard a Birla marrying an IIM Iyer grad no right or from Iyers side their priced possession marrying a guy with scandals associated but they are .

I was working , stopped working gave away all my money to my father before coming to US had to wait for 4 months for H1 visa and refused to spend my husbands money on clothes..it felt awkward ..
Normally in normal couples u verbalise it and tell ur future husband the following, i want to work after marriage, i want to travel, i like bollywood movies and even now after working i am sooo bad with finance.
This is what she would have been comfortable with but now she is going to a different galaxy , she is not the person she is with him..so totally in character to think of this..she doesnt know yet he loves her more than anyone else and cant think of a life without her .
He will make her know that slowly in his way and we are going to gush and gush..😳

So for me as long as we got it before marriage its fine because that gets him angry but also makes him sense her insecurities more, over the past updates he can see she is uneasy hopefully this will help him realize why.

Hope I made sense .. for some reason pre nup makes so much sense in their story IMO so i have become the new pre nup advocate of SoSy 😆😆🤣

Edited by TanjoreGirl - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago


I was just about to write when Anu highlighted the points that I was about to comment...Wise women think alike 😉

Adlin: Vous avez fait un excellent travail, I am trying to write in french apres 15 ans 😳.
Merci Bcp 😆


Thank you Shevane. As for your French : c'est excellent et sans faute bravo mme aprs 15 ans.👏
Edited by adlin1784 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
Guys help me out.. I am unable to access the thread via wifi on my laptop as well as my phone.. I tried via mobile data and it cnnected instantly... Why is this happening to me 😡
Please suggest me tips na..my laptop is conecting me to other websites except IF and so is my mobile via wifi.. Anything wrong with my wifi????
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ashu9

Guys help me out.. I am unable to access the thread via wifi on my laptop as well as my phone.. I tried via mobile data and it cnnected instantly... Why is this happening to me 😡
Please suggest me tips na..my laptop is conecting me to other websites except IF and so is my mobile via wifi.. Anything wrong with my wifi????


Trying changing the wifi server to google server..it happenee to me with dailymotion..but worked after changing..check online for server address..but write down old server name in case u wanna change back
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ashu9

Guys help me out.. I am unable to access the thread via wifi on my laptop as well as my phone.. I tried via mobile data and it cnnected instantly... Why is this happening to me 😡
Please suggest me tips na..my laptop is conecting me to other websites except IF and so is my mobile via wifi.. Anything wrong with my wifi????


hmnn in laptop i would suggest reboot /restart
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: arshi21

I knew Ishita was always uncertain about a lot of things and insecure where Raman was concerned but this kind of insecurity seems out of behaviour to me.

Had this prenup thing come up 5-6 update before this, I would have gladly read through it without a frown but it seemed out of place..not in sync with the progression of story line.

Although I individually enjoyed the chapter, just when it came together as a part of story i did not. Like last few chapters were something else only! Amazing ones.

And no i am not saying every chapter has to be perfect. Its just my view that its a little out of sync with the kind of progression you have shown so far in theit relationship.

I know raman and ishita share a rare kind of relationship. Its unique and i dont question that.

Also i did not understand why raman was still clueless about ishita's behaviour. By now he knows her too well to ubderstand why she demanded a prenup. Is he not?

but there is only so much their relationship can be hit by their insecurities and still seem like a real relationship. Even if its their relationship. :)
Its just my view as a reader. I will retierate that I really like this story. Faults and all. :)


You Arshi are hysterical😆
Thanks for reading "faults" and all😆 I totally appreciate it.
You either worry they dont "talk" when they talk or address complex issues its not "whenever YOU wanted them to have talked"😆
Too cute and funny BTW

Yes, they talk when the author has then talking, not a chapter before not a chapter after...

I know many of you feel this COMPULSIVE URGE for them to say whatever is in their mind, especially you I feel you want him to say "Oh I will never leave you never cheat on you never fight with you always wipe your tears always hug you types"

She should trust him and put everything out in the open with him

THAT will cause it to be the last chapter, may be you missed some pages, but I said yesterday, if I have that type of conversation in every chapter or one chapter then either the story has to end or she has to go behind the curtain and start snooping on family, and like Hindi soaps I have to introduce some random new character so it can turn into a crime thriller joint family saga

There is a reason I have them talk 1% at a time... Nobody learns 100% of their job on day one or day 60? they are in day 60 of their relationship. Nobody moves into a new city and discovers 100% of it on day one... why should a relationship be any different I thought... some discoveries will be wrong, distasteful, unappealing, some discoveries will happen unexpectedly, some discoveries will hurt and maim them... they are humans after all and its just a random love story

The process of making mistakes and learning and retracing steps is what makes it exciting... I know people expect that in stories because it reassures them the leads wont separate etc. I PROMISE you there wont be anything creepy or perverted


I want to keep this relationship rocky and unsure, because that way the story stays ON THEM. The day they talk talk talk and talk and resolve everything between them ...
the story either ends or becomes saas-bahu or Kumbh mein bichhda hua bhai, or reborn mother etc

Lovely comments BTW
Thanks so very much for reading

Edited by Nisha0604 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: deernav



Trying changing the wifi server to google server..it happenee to me with dailymotion..but worked after changing..check online for server address..but write down old server name in case u wanna change back


How do I do that.. I come online using chrome.. So I have to change to mozilla now??

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