bullying/ rude comments on d forum - Page 2

WELL SAID

Originally posted by: sakshi.ekansh

RESPECT...
The amount you give the amount you receive. It's totally a give and take thing. You can't expect respect when you yourself don't respect others. I agree it's a public forum and it is indeed made to let people share their thoughts and point of views but every thing has a LIMIT and that should not certainly be crossed...
Share your thoughts, state your point of views but chose your words before posting.. We all are here with hell lot of differences in point of views but if we want others to understand and respect ours we shall have to do the same...
If you disagree with something posted, try to state your view in a respectful manner. But if you find something disrespectful do mention about it and ask mods for it but it is very important to be patient and do not start bashing...
I hope I made sense Pallavi. Nice Post...

WORD! precisely d point, we need to be careful with our words, I am glad u mentioned reporting to mods wen we feel abused/ bashed.

nice post dear,

Awesome post.!

Very much required.


I or anyone else here do not need to justify our attachment towards the show.



One gets angry only if one has expectations. And one has expectations only if one sees promise in something/someone and gets attached.


If we were not attached then we would not even bother to react or respond and this forum would have no one coming to it.


Attachment does not mean blindly appreciating whatever that is doled out and never pointing out obvious blunders at all.

Objective of a TV show forum is to discuss the show and not its members.



Discussion means both criticism and appreciation and so shall it remain irrespective of what people think about it. To do either of it one has to watch the show. I don't think either of us had watch to show to look out for blunders and discuss it here. People actually don't have enough time to discuss something they are not connected with.

I seriously dont understand why ppl jump on others wen any post made against ishita or raman.

Arre if someone thinks ishita still loves subbu or raman still loves shagun then let it be! Whats the point in making personal comments on members in such posts if someone is so hurt then they should ignore such posts. Or debate in healthy way.
Ur not a,loyal fan..saying all this is just stupidity.

Originally posted by: bigul

nice post dear,

we all come here to relax and have fun not to get stressed,

everyone should realise that members are real people, so how far its reasonable to hurt real people for some imaginary characters or celebs about whom anyone hardly knows.😊

oh absolutely! 😊 I am glad u added dat bold part.

Originally posted by: anamika244

Awesome post.!

Very much required.


I or anyone else here do not need to justify our attachment towards the show.



One gets angry only if one has expectations. And one has expectations only if one sees promise in something/someone and gets attached.


If we were not attached then we would not even bother to react or respond and this forum would have no one coming to it.


Attachment does not mean blindly appreciating whatever that is doled out and never pointing out obvious blunders at all.

Objective of a TV show forum is to discuss the show and not its members.



Discussion means both criticism and appreciation and so shall it remain irrespective of what people think about it. To do either of it one has to watch the show. I don't think either of us had watch to show to look out for blunders and discuss it here. People actually don't have enough time to discuss something they are not connected with.

I seriously dont understand why ppl jump on others wen any post made against ishita or raman.

Arre if someone thinks ishita still loves subbu or raman still loves shagun then let it be! Whats the point in making personal comments on members in such posts if someone is so hurt then they should ignore such posts. Or debate in healthy way.
Ur not a,loyal fan..saying all this is just stupidity.

Originally posted by: bigul

nice post dear,

we all come here to relax and have fun not to get stressed,

everyone should realise that members are real people, so how far its reasonable to hurt real people for some imaginary characters or celebs about whom anyone hardly knows.😊

@bold: excellent. Nicely made the point of the day.
I too had a very bad experience in one of my posts (personal bash). I tried to explain the member which turn out to be my waste of time and energy. Thus I started staying away from the forum (most of the time).
Really if we don't like the show, what's the point of discussing about its plus or minus. We enter our words just to share our views and get others POV, not to fight or hurt unknown members.

Much needed post ..thank u n love u

Agree with all what u said exept one thing
I am a show fan/wiewer NOT Ishra lover 😆 😎

Originally posted by: Ramyalaxmi

@bold: excellent. Nicely made the point of the day.
I too had a very bad experience in one of my posts (personal bash). I tried to explain the member which turn out to be my waste of time and energy. Thus I started staying away from the forum (most of the time).
Really if we don't like the show, what's the point of discussing about its plus or minus. We enter our words just to share our views and get others POV, not to fight or hurt unknown members.

I can totally understand wat u hv been feeling, I hv had very similar experiences on d forum. Tfs.