Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 9

Originally posted by: SnighdhaG

What an episode!👏
"You complete me Raman"...wow! What else is needed to convey her feelings for him? She accepted she is INCOMPLETE without Raman, she EXISTS because of Raman. Her past wounds are nothing now because of Raman. She only once mentioned Ruhi, rest of the times she was all about her soul mate, Raman.

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

Ab

Kya Kare

Raman ka bad luck hi kharab hain

Originally posted by: --Megha--

Finally saw d episode n it was quite good. The transition from comedy to serious issue was nicely done.

Firstly I will talk about gifts.😛

Raman's gift was quite emotional one n Ishita's practical. It kinda suits their personalities.😳

I think Raman is more emotional n sensitive n Ishita more rational of the two.

I liked Raman's gift more than Ishita coz it was about her utmost happiness.😳Wud have preferred Ishita giving a better gift than an office renovation but may be Ishita is not good at expressing romantically.

I agree with u Vyas that a woman needs to be wife first n then DIL n lastly a mother coz that is the order - you marry a man then become connected to his family n then a mother. I think just coz one is a mother doesnt mean u must shy away from ur responsibility as a wife. Responsibility of a wife doesnt stop at cooking n taking care of husband but also being with him emotionally. I guess Ishita is other way coz she was a mother first, then became a DIL n then a wife. So her list of priorities have always been like that. But in today's episode Ishita was right that it wud have looked awkward if Ishra spent time in HM suite with family below.😆

Intimacy I think will come much later not so soon, there will b talks and lots of failed attempts.😛

I can c Raman as a good n supportive husband n good son in law but rarely a good father? This is the major complain I have with CVs. Raman even though "neglected" Ruhi for 6years we could see he loved her. He tried to help her with lice in her hair or taking her to dentist or even talking with her over phone when she was sent away to Shagun's. So basically he ignored her coz her mole reminded of Shagun but never disowned her- he always thought about her. N he didnt wanted to b too close to Ruhi as he feared that fate might take her away from him just as Adi went. So I dont take that BS that Raman is a bad father n Ishita a good mother (she is a good mother n every credit needs to be given to her for raising Ruhi as her own child although she is not her biological daughter). But having said all that Raman too loves Ruhi a lot n he should not b used just as a prop but as a father in storyline.

Same applies to Adi Raman bond. It needs to b developed over Ishita Adi bond. Shagun was always shown as a neglecting parent (Adi uniform and 30k episode). Earlier it was ok for Shagun to neglect n forget about Adi coz Ashok's servants cud cook him meals here Shagun needs to take care of that on her own. In the precap they could have shown Raman getting Adi chinese over Ishita n Raman taking care of Adi n Adi realizing Raman's goodness over Shagun. CVs need not make it a comparison between Shagun n Ishita for who is a good mother? That fact is already established. We all know its Ishita n we need not see Ishita Adi bonding when actually they shud b showing Raman Adi bonding. I think Ishita Adi bonding shud come later once CVs have established Raman Adi bonding.

In today's episode Amma n Toshiji barged in between Ishra discussion n took Ishita's side. I guess Toshiji's priorities lie in GKC then Ruhi then Ishita n then Raman. Its surprising that each time she praises Ishita it is forgotten n only her GKC jaap is remembered. If Toshiji was blind to "Male heir" n importance of their position in family - she would not have reprimanded Raman for accident track or Ruhi custody case 2 or today n sided with her Bahu. She wud have blindly supported Raman. The reason she is worried for Adi is also coz of the fact that he has been influenced by Shagun n she wants Adi back in Bhalla family so he has a normal childhood - maybe thats a reason she blindly agrees to Adi's wishes. Overall she does have certain shortcomings but she supports her Bahu a lot over her own son which usually one wud not find in an Indian family.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font color="#990000">Good post !! and good episode .. Watch it online after so many days ..</font>

<font color="#990000">Well Leo : Only two things that I can;t understand "</font>

<font color="#990000">1) Ishita tearing medical report: Well for me( atleast for me it was hilarious and specially her dialogue delivery doesn't match with that situation at all) Reason why I am saying this - First of all it was medical report of Ishita which means Ishita herself has gone and had done. When it is related to gynaec problem it can;t be done by only blood test, urine test. They need to do internal check up.Which clearly means Ishita has done that. If it is not important for her why did she went there at the first place</font><font color="#990000">😕?????If she wants to tear it then what is the need to spend so much money and energy of someone 's else as well?</font>

<font color="#990000">Or - it means she went to do check up because raman forces her</font>

<font color="#990000">or</font>

<font color="#990000">Raman does that thing without her knowledge which is nearly impossible or She went there does her check up but not ready to read it which does not make any sense .</font>

<font color="#990000">Whatever the case may be- Human Ishita who has almost lost everything in life, who struggle to get motherly love because of this problems, would have read atleast once and then she would have tear it.</font>

<font color="#990000">Secondly I respect her decision of saying no to raman for physical intimacy . But just want to ask is ishita 18 year old girl or 31 year old woman who almost into getting married twice before she got married to Raman.</font>

<font color="#990000">No am not against of female saying NO to physical intimacy but am against and sick of showing - sex in bad state. Couples never do sex just to have a baby. Nor sex is bad thing - it is expression of showing love to other partner. High time we need to show this now. High time indian television should stop this nonsense that couple got married and consummate their marriage after 1 year .</font>

<font color="#990000">P.S> no intention to hurt anyone feelings. In hurry was about to write longest EW .. But i guess some other day.😃</font>

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--

I think

He sent her old reports mayu without her knowledge


And agree about husband wife relation


It is not only about making babies

Originally posted by: mayu1982

I diaagree with you in this case - no doctor in this universe can produce new report on basis on old report.

Specially if it is related to gynaec problem. Every time patient need to do test on doctors' demand.

Personal experience- After having two miscarriage, every time each doctors does separate test(almost same the same test ) for me and they do consider the old report just for reference nothing more than that.

Originally posted by: mayu1982

<font color="#990000">I diaagree with you in this case - no doctor in this universe can produce new report on basis on old report.</font>

<font color="#990000">Specially if it is related to gynaec problem. Every time patient need to do test on doctors' demand.</font>

<font color="#990000">Personal experience- After having two miscarriage, every time each doctors does separate test(almost same the same test ) for me and they do consider the old report just for reference nothing more than that.</font>