Rajma idli daily rantings

It was a decent episode


It gave a small teaser of things that might come in future


I guess today they also kick started the adi detaching from airhead track


The belly dancer scene with Raman was hilarious and Raman expressions were awesome as he was scared and worried at the same time and it was as difficult for him as it is for diabetic to avoid sweets


Ishita perhaps tried to look good for Raman for the first time

The whole so called Raman exposure scene wa hilarious with ishita horrified expressions and ott drama Raman position in the bed and to top that dancer trying to protect her image


Ishita after finding the truth trying to fool Raman and Raman trying to score point over her was good



The medical report scene was interesting and it can have interesting and different interpretations


Now ishita tearing report and saying she does not want anything can be meant that she would never allow Raman to get close to her


Ishita clearly does not understand what a wife is beyond looking after kids and doing everything for the family


It is interesting that she does not think that ramsn might want something else


Raman reasons for getting her reports were good but lets see


We had mandatory Haddis disrupting them and ishita ready to join them

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Hello Leo

Happy Monday 😛

Let me get to the ranting part directly 😆

Till the episode aired, I was honestly believing that the report could NOT be Ishita's medical report. I did not think Ishita and Raman were at a stage in their relationship where they could think of a child. In spite of the real Love they have for each other, they havent yet reached intimacy stage.

I would have wholeheartedly accepted that scene if this report, if it were not related to fertility. Like, if Ishita had a different medical condition and she had be told it was not curable, and if Raman found something that could solve that problem. His intention, his discomfort of seeing her in pain and everything would have been touching (to me that is).

But this subject is something that they have never discussed. I fail to understand how one party in a couple in this modern day and age could do something like this without discussing with the other. and seriously, is this our CVs 'sanskari' way of showing they are ready for the NEXT step in their relationship ? seriously ? what is next ? they lie on the bed, lights go out and Voila Ishita starts fainting and throwing up in a couple of episodes ? If that is what they wanted, they could have shown it later, once they had started living a regular marital life.

To me, no matter how I analyse this scene, the end result is going to look like, they got intimate to have a child OR Raman was desperate OR being intimate without the need to have a child is somehow 'illegitimate' even if you are a married couple.And, What is more baffling is Ishita's need to say 'Oh I don't care about it anymore'. I think, as a viewer, I was taking Ishita's pain more seriously than she is.

If it looks like I am reading too much into it, it is because I am. This was one of the last remaining issues in this story that was still rooted firmly in the beginning. This was still an angle where I was hoping they'd manage more realistically.

Anyhoo... in my eyes, if they want to fix this now, they SHOULD show them consummating their marriage in the next episode after Ishita has declared she doesnt care about having a baby anymore. At least then, it won't feel like a baby is "the start and end of it all" >> and no, this is not a fan's attempt to see steamy romance.😆 its just a wish to see a sensible story. and today's scene would make sense to me and I will take back my words 😳


PS: I know this show is like a comedy of medical errors, but seriously, which ob-gyn would review an Old report (I am assuming this report is from the time when Subbu broke up with Ishita) and return a different diagnosis without examining a patient?


PPS: The belly dancer was a nice light comical touch 😳 Why do the mothers have to come there when they have actually planned for IshRa to have alone time ? 😲

U r right Leo, felt really bad for Raman. How more clear could he be?? 😉 Isitha needs to wake up, & this was expected of our sanskaari slot but still I'm disappointed!! 😛

Raman shud have confessed and told her he wants to take their relationship to the next level, he had hinted with condom earlier. Instead he showed her the report which means he wants to consummate so she can have a child!

Originally posted by: Annthew

U r right Leo, felt really bad for Raman. How more clear could he be?? 😉 Isitha needs to wake up, & this was expected of our sanskaari slot but still I'm disappointed!!😛

True


Agree with you


We shouldn't expect anything out of our sanskari slot ha

Originally posted by: sunitas123

Raman shud have confessed and told her he wants to take their relationship to the next level, he had hinted with condom earlier. Instead he showed her the report which means he wants to consummate so she can have a child!

Unfortuntaley the Bhallas interrrupted and it was odd for ishita to continue...

Why cant Raman confess? He just asked for a kiss on the cheek thats all?

Well


Not everything are meant to be spelt out


Some things are meant to be understood


And he already planned a surprise for her

Why can't ishita do something

Firstly I wud say m very surprised that Cvs got this issue this early. Coz I was not expecting Ishra to talk about intimacy hinting towards consummation 😛

I have not watched the episode. But I agree with Ishita.

Firstly I think she did not say NO to getting physical with Raman- we have seen her back hugging him etc.

Her point is that she is too happy within her life n she loves raman n Ruhi n doesnt need anyone else (a baby). Ya she gets affected if someone calls her a Baanj but anyone wud. Next time if this Baanj stupidity is shown I wud like Ishita to smile at that person n Say ruhi is my child n I m not a baanj(she has papers to prove too now) rather than crying in front of that person. When someone taunts u - U smile n give them a fitting reply they will never taunt u back coz they can see that their taunting is not affecting u any more.

According to me she is not wrong in not expecting another child.

If Puttar still wants a Baby with Ishita all he needs to do is tell Amma n Toshiji about the reports.
🤣 Both will do the needful of explaining Ishita (especially Amma 😆) about having babies 😛.

Overall m really happy with they way this infertility issue was treated. 👏 A husband saying that he wants all the happiness for his wife and wants her to feel complete in every sense and wife saying I am already complete what more do I need? I think I prefer these kind of understanding in relationship over cheesy Romance with couples saying ILU etc.

Another inportant thing I want to add is - suppose Ishita refuses for physical intimacy is it wrong? I dont think so - there r so many marriages conpletely platonic n they still work. Intimacy is a part of marriage n also Love but if one of the partners is not interested in it I think the other partner needs to respect that. 😳 Besides Ishra marriage was a conditional one only for Ruhi so they had not thought of getting intimate from beginning. Just my POV.

It's quite puzzling as to what ishita wants out of this marriage.

I am not saying that being physical is only thing about a successful marriage and being a good wife but then ishita should also realise spending time with husband and also understand what he wants

Now tell me ramsn wants to complete the marriage and is anything wrong in that

Originally posted by: Ananya05

It's quite puzzling as to what ishita wants out of this marriage.

She is quite content taking care of kids and doing household chores. It's tough to believe that she could be unaware of Raman's expectations from her as he has made it obvious on multiple occasions and today's gift validated it even more. It makes the whole situation very unfair to Raman.

It's beyond my understanding that she herself does not show any interest in taking their relationship further and getting intimate with her husband.

Will she remain ishima forever?

Awesome post


That is the whole point


Ishita should understand Raman

And his expectations from her


It is clear that for Raman marriage is more than just for Ruhi

And ishita should understand that