Moving Forward *Updated* - Page 10

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Yes Ishita and not anyone from his family was the 1st one to show Raman that his daughter need him more than his parents and siblings.. He came around and has fixed that. With Adi it was the other wasy around...Adi had the cocoon of love which was snatched from him because Raman and Shagun's failing relationship and Raman's inability to fight for Adi because he was not that strong that time...and that led to Adi having a dysfunctional childhood with all wrong role models influencinh his upbringing...hence Raman's guilt. And that's is why he's trying his best to make it comfortable for Adi so that Adi realizes he has a loving family , unlike what he had been fed past 6 years. Raman is tolerating Shagun for Adi...but Shagun is getting impatient and showing open signs of hatred for Ishita...and her fangs are showing once in a while...Yes she's going to pull all the cards to irriitate, insult and intimidate Ishita...but how long can she continue without getting caught?...thats the question..

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Aru the gifs are to die for! Thanks😊

Originally posted by: shadeslayer

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Collages are lovely as ever! Just read the WU- Will be back in the evening to update

Gan Your collages and this entire thread are such a stress buster!!!So for that 🤗. Saves me from going bat shit crazy due to work. 😆

I loved the episode- Mainly because it had a heartfelt conversation between Puttar and Biwi. Their conversations are so beautiful- so close to reality. *Sigh* The reasons that I am yet stuck to this show inspite of all the OTT mono-expression duos drama. 🤢. And Yeah, hand-holding and forehead kisses etc- small gestures of intimacy are anytime preferred over lip-locks and stuff. Somehow, I find them so much more romantic. I am fed up with the grand gestures and subsequent interruptions. Advice to Puttar:

Sweetheart- Hold biwi's hand- Take her to the kissing corner (as suggested by Doc😆) in the room, and just spill it out!! That is all Dude. Or better still- give her a bear hug and then do whatever the hell you like😳. as it is- words are not really required for this unique Couple. @bold ...me likey that suggestion...go for it Puttar😆

I guess because of such stuff I did not enjoy the 5 min pseudo-date as much as their hand-holding and their conversation in the start. The part i did like was when they said "sirf Ruhi ke liye" together!!! Just emphasizing how far they have come in their relationship.😳 I loved the part that he took them to that place for their 1st date as a couple...and reminded her that this is where she agreed to marry him. sweet gesture...only if he had kept it low key...but that's okay I guess he was planning to do it in a grand fashion.😆

Coming to Ruhi- I DO NOT like her mouthing dialogs which are way over her age.🤔 Throwing tantrums is one thing- But the whole Yashoda maiyya blah blah that she spoke today was too much. I would have preferred her asking an innocent question to her father instead- like- "Papa, Adi bhaiyya says you will leave Ishima for shagun mumma; Will you do that?" But I guess that would become "Ek teer se do Shikaar" and our dear old CV's would never want that to happen would they.😡. And I love seeing Shagun get insulted- but when a 7yr old does that... not my cup of tea. Baaki ke ghar waale itne zyaada andhe hai GKC ke moh mein????

Romi- Disgusting is the word-Long way to go for him.

Shagun- Once an airhead; always an airhead👏. Keep it up Bimbo- You will soon create a record for dumbest creature of Indian television!!!😆 @bold 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Precap- Bring it ON Biwi!!! 👏

Originally posted by: -Ishita-

Nice post and beautiful collages.. 😃

IshRa scene was indeed awesome one.. Raman knows Ishita inside out.. It feels good when a person knows what is going on in his or her mind while the person behaves normally.. Puttar simply knows it..when Biwi is sad.. 😳 Also the insecurity point was apt.. we genrelly get angry or upset if our near and dear ones get more attached to others.

I kinda liked Ruhi Shagun scene.. only because Ruhi gave it back to Shagun in a way no one in our Bhalla house could. coz they are simply blinded by their so called love for not so precious GKC🥱

Ruhi wanted love.. which she got from her Ishima.. she was brought up by ignorant father, an absent mother and was away with her only sibling.. she was also devoid of family life until Ishita came in her life.. Today she is standing up for her mother..for the love Ishita gave her.. in life we need nothing but knowing that our efforts and love actually matter to someone and they acknlowledge it..

and Romi Bhalla.. To think, i thought.. U would feel bad.. emotionally.. but never ever had thought that you would take it as an offence of you not being a ''Man"!

And CV's if u keep on stretching the confession then it won't have any meaning.. We know they love each other.. they know they love each other.. but kitna prolong karoge 🤔

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Well, I find hand holding and forehead kisses more romantic too! I wish they'd stop with the grand gestures though! Raman is thinking wrong. They don't need a special setting for admitting their love- they do it all the times by their behavior. I wish he'd just say the words and get it over with or she'd just say it.

Originally posted by: maaloo

Gan.. can't go to bed without without drooling at the gifs you post (and gifs by others too as well @aruna.. wow.. gushfest indeed) and reading your take.. Aadat si ho gayi hai.. acchi aadat. . 😛

Couldn't watch the full epi.. (got migraine.. and the friggin' cold and snow isn't helping a bit) just watched the romantic scenes.. between miya-biwi... thanks to those pix in your collage. Hand-in-hand love.. haaye.. marjaawan..

couldnt enjoy it to the fullest... will watch it again after i get better.. but had to come and read and gush a bit before I sleeping. .

There is something about holding hands.. may be its the trust factor that always gets to me..

Leaving with this quote

'Night

PS .. Havent read any of the other posts.. just skimmed through the pages. .will do so tomorrow.. would love to read them all..

Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

Did I ever tell you that I am obsessed with this couple and their unique story, did I..did I? lol if it isn't evident I am in LOVE with this these two who trying to find love within each other. More than any romantic dances, any physical intimacy and/or grand gestures, their emotional conversations make my heart flutter.

I do not have words that could justify the beauty of the little scene between Raman and Ishita in their bedroom, so simple and yet so beautiful. A lot was said and conveyed in that scene very subtly; Raman said, We should protect our loved one's insecurities and not share it with everyone'. How beautiful and simple, a SIL guarding his FIL's image and self respect by not mentioning the financial crisis to anyone and fixing the problem without anyone knowing.

Ishita felt like she failed as a daughter because she could not read her father and sense his trouble, so very poignant and true, we often get so involved in our own lives and problems that we tend to forget our loved ones. The beauty of this scene was how Raman dealt with her guilt and made her feel comfortable, he said, isn't your appa my appa', with a simple statement he declared that they are a team! So what if she was preoccupied with her life and could not sense Appa's trouble because he was there to fill that void like she fills a lot of voids in his life. So many feels!

Puttar is so cute! He knew the missus is stressed and so he asked her to spill the beans, he did not belittle her concern but made her feel secure by reaffirming her love for Ruhi and Ruhi's love for her Ishima. The most endearing part for me was when he joked about the jealously and neglect he feels when he sees the love between Ishita and Ruhi, I found it so cute and romantic, a husband asking for his wife's undivided attention and almost wishing he would be babied and coddled like his daughter is.

There is a song called Labon se from the movie Astha penned by Gulzar saab, in which he outlines a man who has been roaming around this planet trying to find solace 'therav' in hindi but he couldn't find any until he met his beloved. He is pleading with her to kiss him with her lips and hold him with her eyes, aakhon se tham lo-I cannot translate this brilliance in English any better than this. This is about a man being a wandering soul for ages till he is in the arms of his beloved. In that song he further states that he is so enamored by his beloved's love that he sometimes wished that he taken birth from her existence because there is nothing purer than a mother-child relationship. I apologize for making it sound incestuous because it isn't, I can't do justice to Gulzar saab's work and in the process of explaining his lyrics I butcher the meaning. Below are two lines that from the song that I referenced here.

Labo se chum lo aankhon se tham lo mujhko

tumhi se janmu toh shayad mujhe panaah mile

Raman's expression of a little jealousy is the biggest compliment to Ishita's love because he is so enamored by the love she has for him that he cannot fathom what would it be like to actually experience love from Ishita the mother. This was the most loving part of the episode for me. If you can't tell I have listened to Labon se chim lo song a zillion times already and when I get into Gulzar saab world I tend to lose my self so I have lost my train of thought and hence must end my rambling here.

Sorry couldn't comment on their date, and Ruhi-Shagun fiasco as my hands hurt and my brain is fried.