Muft ka advice *More Advices ;)* - Page 9

Originally posted by: krishy13

Muft ka advice for CVs - sprinkle in a FEW more of these light-hearted, semi-logical, positive episodes like we got pre-time-slot change, and you'll probably hear 40-60% less whining from our end! 😆

This may be the first episode in a while I will rewatch for fun!

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I've watched today's episode 2x times now. It displayed exactly what YHM is about - simple moments between people. Yes the drama progresses the story, but so do these simple moments. Episodes like today highlight the various shades of people without being cringe-worthy.

In this episode, can see how how the decisions of various characters eventually impacts them. The best example is Romi. He started out as a spoiled brat, looked like he was improving, but then lost the respect he slowly built up through the Sarika kaand. Now we can see the groundwork being laid for another test for Romi. When Param tried to poison his mind, he stuck with his family, but now the question is - will his family ties hold him back from further creating any further damage? Yes the family may have gone too far in teasing him, but what has Romi done thus far to prove them wrong?

The Puttar & Missus are the epitome of a classy romantic couple. There is intensity and passion between the two, but today Puttar took it another step further and let her know that they share something SO much deeper than just physical attraction. I so want to find a Puttar of my own some day! lol 😳

So I can fully enjoy this episode, I am choosing to ignore how dumbed down they made everyone during Pngal-Lohri. I hope the CVs redistribute everyone's brains ASAP! We've gotten our original JKR back but now I want our Puttar back in full form!

We know there are many more tests and tribulations ahead for our favorite couple, but if the CVs can actually manage to find a balance between the drama (toning down the OTTness) & normal episodes, they will have struck gold!

Also - based off the precap & OLV, looks like Shagun is sacrificing her tiny blouses to try to emulate Ishita in a last-ditch effort to "capture" Raman with her til! 🤣

@Gan - I'm so happy we got multiple collages today, and thanks for the shout out in your main post! ❤️

@purple aaj hamare thread pe everyone is after Shagun and her til size brain or her blouses🤣 ...well RKB induced joke-fest😉

@Underline...yes that's what YHM was always about...this OTT drama started during the Shagun -marriage track...See today none of us complained about Shagun...rather we have been talking about her😈🤣

@bold green...sure kyun nahin...umeed pe duniya kayam😉 so long as you don't shagunify JKR's RKB...you're fine...

the advice you gave was really good 👏

updated page 2!!!

Damn what a day to have been caught up with real life!!

Originally posted by: GanBarunFan

Added your advices to the main post😉😆

Awesome advises👏

Originally posted by: krikumar.91

Today's episode was really very very special... It showed a range of emotions today... Will try to cover some of them:

Love and passion: Today, in the first Ishra scene, these two emotions can't be separated... Right from that cold stare on Tandon's entry till that patch up, these two emotions overtook these souls... Raman's passionate eyes followed Ishita everywhere making her blush profusely... Amidst the presence of the whole family, in front of that lit pyre, Ishra's passionate eye locks stole the show... Slowly, a message was given and she saw that her Raavan kumar wrote a sorry on a small piece of paper... Message was really short and recycled but the genuineness in those words melted Ishita... Raman finally got that much awaited lovely smile of his wife... With a small assurance that his family is busy with celebrations, Raman finally slid his arms around Ishita's shoulders to get lost in her...

Diffidence: When Raman took those steps to convince his wife, his shyness attracted my attention...making YHM special again. This man is crazily in love to have eyes for anyone else apart from his wife but he never crosses the limits of decency at any cost... The way he guards the intimacy is just remarkable... Raman turned twice to ensure that no one is looking at them... Hats off to cv's for giving attention to these small details relating to the leads character sketch... Raman stole my heart with that gesture...

Anger: On understanding Shagun's game, Ishita felt angry... She felt bad for that kid again... She understood that Shagun is behind these misunderstandings and decided to capitalise on this emotion by suppressing it for the time being and decided to act wisely.

Jealousy: Yes...It was there...in the most unexpected moment...When Raman was making fun of Shagun, one soul was fuming outside but another soul was fuming inside... For the first time, there was no life in that smile of Ishita... She didn't want that woman between her and Raman... She didn't want to be compared with that woman... That emotion subtly came out in that question... She questioned him...That he loved the same woman before and finally they drifted away from their topic with their usual nok-jhok...

Detachment: Romi detached himself from his family... Romi has never been a good boy till date. But, he was hopeful of getting this promotion. When his own family considered him unfit, he slowly detached himself... This track will come back soon to haunt us because there was a naagin listening to the same...

After a long time, Shagun's presence couldn't do the damage today... The epi was brilliant... cv's...Keep up the good work...

great job Kri! I didn't think this way...insightful!👏

Originally posted by: --Sia--

beautiful post Gan ...

Sia🤗 I miss your song posts yaar

Hi gan, superb collages:-) your thinking level is always great.. Your posts remains special always.. Hats off to you:-) hope cv's read your posts regularly and follow your advice.. Then coming back to the episode, one great thing i felt was ishita just wanted this heart felt sorry from raman and not the costly diamond earrings. If it was shagun, she would have happily got the costly earrings and crushed the sorry paper and throwed it in dustbin.. Wow what a difference in these two ladies.? I want Raman to point it out in some of his dialogues atleast to himself. And shagun, Eventhough you expose your shoulders everyday to impress raman, nothing will work out. Because raman has realised that something more is found in hidden things because ishita wears dresses decently. He has started to see the inner beauty. His interests have changed shagun. So better stop wearing such dresses. Your mole can never stand infront of ishita's smile..:-) can anyone tell me why did ishita start the pillow fight? What did raman say to her?

G great collages, sorry real life took over and I couldn't come and gush over puttar and missus' cuteness.

What can I say about the song followed by the bench scene, there is something about this couple and a bench. Something so real transpires between these two on a wooden bench, time ceases to exist, just two souls trying to unite under the watchful gaze of the sparkling stars and a shining moon. All it took was simple piece of paper to melt the ice between these the warring Buddha-buddhi. This scene is the reason I like YHM so much, so simplistic, so real and yet beautiful. Such a real touch by puttar to check over his shoulder ensuring no one is gazing on this beautiful moment between him and his beloved. Ishita's eyes so benelovent and so thankful having found a partner who loves with all his heart, cares with all his soul and apologizes with all his honesty. So real and so beautiful. Oh how I wish these spend an eternity on a bench loving each other and in the process killing all of us. A few line from a song about stealing a few moments of love amidst all the chaos.

Silwaton mein ulghe huan, lamho ko chal suljhayen

Karwaton mein soyaa huan, khawabon ke neend udayen

Aise kasak ji ye hum dikhla yain, chupke se aa thoda ishq kar jayen

Coming to the bedroom scene, again beauty in simplicity! No big gestures, no big gifts, no big speeches about love heck not even touching each other yet so romantic, every moment oozing love for each other. Sharing a joke about grammar', brining in his past and indirectly complementing their compatibility. I loved how they conveyed that marriage and companionship is more than physical beauty, it's about friendship, it's about sharing common values, it's about family and finally it's about just being comfortable with each other. A little tease, a pillow thrown, a smile, a wink and finally just being in the moment! If you can't tell I am in Gulabi mood because of these two. A song for this beautiful called Humdard, a song about weathing storms together with each other's support.

Tum a gayezindagi a gayi

dil ko mere ronakein mil gayi

rab kare waqt hi ruk jaye yahin

YE pal main jee lun sadaa

ab dur jaana nahin.

Jo tu mera humdard hai

Suhaana har dard hai

I am gonna go read all other posts and gush some more.