19.1.2015 - To Be, Or Not to Be- A Good Husband/An Obsessed Father - Page 2

Originally posted by: mnr123

If ShAdi have ended up in Bhalla house as per precap y is Ishu still apologizing to Shagun?

Y should we watch this serial if cvs r hell bent on showing a scheming ex wife, a brattish son who manipulates his way out, A sorry n weak wife, a blind husband, a torturing Mother in law. N seriously dialogues r so pathetic Ghar ka chirag n all. Who in 2015 thinks like this n is there any positive outcome in the end? I highly doubt.

Originally posted by: teenager08

I was having this feeling right since the morning that perhaps i should skip the epi lekin i was free at 7.30 toh sat down to watch this crap AND. NEVER EVER I HAVE BEEN SO DISAPPOINTED ON ANY DECISION I've made in my entire life. :|

Hahaha...I think like that EVERYDAY...and even then, I sit down to watch this crap and get FRUSTRATED as ever...

Im still in shock as to what the hell did i just watch? :O
It was such an annoyingly boring epi that i felt like pulling my hair at the end of it. :| It wasnt boring for me..it was just PISSING OFF..LIKE, BIG TIME

I am genuinely, not interested in the financial crisis of the Iyers. Entire 20-25 mins spent of financial management of Mr. Vishwanathan Iyer. :/ Itne crucial storytelling part mein they chose to fill the scenes with out of context and sub-standard plot. Just what did they want to achieve by showing this crap along with that irritating BG music? Saturday ke epi me they'd have done that i'd have still digested it. Ki they want to push the drama monday hence this endless dragging. Lekin why on earth todayy? :O :/ Pathetic is the word. PATHETIC. :/ Hahaha...even I was thinking why ALL of a sudden they were focusing on Iyer financial crisis...Im wondering will they keep it all back once they see HOW much of a sensible husband Raman is to their daughter? How he yells at her, blames her, misunderstands her...

Couldn't they have shown Ishita's and Raman's introspection a tad bit more? Kya chala jaata if they had given the leads more screen space? Arre Mihir ko hi dikha dete? There could have been an Ashok-Suraj scene also. Lekin nahi. Financial crisis ka drama le kar baith gaye. Vo bhi 10 min nahi, 12 min nahi, seedha 25 long mins. What the hell? :/ SO ANNOYING.🤣

The only thing that worked for me was Ishita's tears at the end (told u, im a huge fan of them. ;) ) and Raman not asking Ishita to apologise. It would have been end of YHM for me otherwise.
Although i do feel, it would have been better if Raman had not told her about that apology thing. He didn't ask Ishita to apologise lekin if he really knows Ishita, he would know ki Ishita would go any lengths for his happiness and that is where he went wrong. Kuch na bolta, chup rehta and then apni frustration nikaalta Ishita par, and koi aur Ishita ko bolta, someone like Mihir would have told her the happenings of the house, and then Ishita apologising or something, that i'd have digested with so mich more ease than this. Anyway, thik hai. Maafi maangne ko nahi kaha ye hi bohot hai. It hurts to see where my expectations from Raman has come down to - Ishita ko kuch galat karne na bole ye hi thik hai. :/
This is not the Raman i love. Please get back in form Raman. Please. :/ Kya keh rahi ho yaar!! Raman ne ITNA chillaya Ishita pe, ki ab woh mann hi mann shayad decide kar chuki hogi ki use maafi MAANGNI CHAHIYE...even when he was mulling it over, I somehow, didnt feel ANY KIND OF FEELING for him...I was just too appalled, shocked, pissed..I cannot believe he still prioritizes creep son of his over his WIFE, TILL he stands up for her tomorrow...but if LETS her apologize and then says, "TUM ADI KI MAA KYUN NAHIN HUI?" I will tear my hair apart, and throw something at him...

And Ishita. Oh my god, woman. I feel for u. Trust me. And that's exactly why i just don't want u to be stupid in the name of being kind. It's not worth it, honey. So not worth it. I've been saying that for soo long now...She can always GIVE UP on this crazy Bhalla family..

Going by her lecture- Shagun ko ghar me laayi, anniversary celebrate ki, apna khoon jalaya - ye sun ne ke liye ki it's ur over-sweetness that ruined the bond between a father and a son? :O That's too much, really. But its the truth...did she really say 'ApnA khoon jalaya"...Did she?? Im impressed..Atleast SHE IS CONFESSING TO HERSELF KI USKO KITNA DUKHTA HAI

I remember Shagun's words so vividly now. Ishita is nothing but glorified Aaya. It's true. These people just don't appreciate her goodness yar? Isliye i become all the more irritated when she tries to be so mahaan. Faayda kya hai? If cv's want Raman to love Ishita, he will do it despite all her faults and jab ladana hoga, they'll make him to that jab Ishita ne kuch kiya nahi hoga. No point. No logic. Just nothing. :| Exactly...this stupid family and that stupid Raman does NOT deserve a gem like Ishita..I'll admit..its pure TORTURE when Ishita is spreading the good word around..and thru her virtuous deeds...and YET, it all comes to asking MORE sacrifice from her..What do they want yaar?? She shud also idealy give up her degree, her job, pack her bags and wait hand and foot on these Selfish, Unappreciative people..

This show has become heartbreakingly disappointing. :|

Adi, there was one thing i that i hated u. Now, i want to kill u. My blood boils seeing u on screen. Just get lost somewhere, please? I might not be this polite the next time i write anything about u. :/
I would never accept him in Raman and Ishita's life. He needs to stay with his mom only. I didnt have the GUTS to write this down...you did...I really want to kill him or something...like, throttle him...SUCH A DISGUSTING MORON...he doesnt DESERVE love...or kindness...am sorry, am speaking so venomously

Toshi Ji, i've never been so disappointed with u than i am seeing the precap. You are a hypocrite. No kind of apology to Ishita now, will make me trust u, im sorry. You crossed all the lines with the precap. :/Toshi ji ka toh gala dabane ka mann kar raha tha mujhe...I really wanted to whack her..sorry, she is a Sr. citizen and all...but I wanted to fry her gradually depleting brains SO BADLY


@gravity, one favour from u please. Please give ur reviews for the epi tomorrow positively. Lol. It's ur review which will help me decide whether to watch the epi tomorrow or no. Today was the worst decision i made in ages. And im not even kidding. :|

Originally posted by: luv2liv

R.I.P for YHM

Note: no bashing plz...

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

You know for the first time in forever, I felt pity for Raman. The way he was saying what can I do.. that's true actually! The dude suffers from cognitive disorder! Poor soul! So much on his tiny shoulder when he doesn't understand or know what's happening.. #NotFair!

Originally posted by: Bibliobibulus

What has happened to this show? I haven't watched an episode in over a week.. They've made Raman bipolar, or what? One day he's all mooning over Ishita, praising her to the skies, and the next minute he's screaming like some fishwife! And they've got him conveniently forgetting how Adi sent Ishita to jail by faking abuse.. How can he not see how the devil spawn is manipulating him? And what happened to not letting Adi grow up feeling like he can get away with anything? How is his current behaviour being tolerated? Too bloody much! Won't bother watching until this puke-fest is over..

Originally posted by: gravity23

I didnt...I just COULD NOT..Maybe because his sudden drop to a blaming husband and a BLIND, OVER-OBSESSED father was strategised to highlight Ishita as the right one...just as today's confused Raman was portrayed...the CVs are scared the backlash Raman is facing is too mch..so they're just trying to temper it down...but if that;s the case..he couldve just kept his mouth shut instead of YELLING at Ishita and blaming it all on her..that was distasteful...

but it cant work like that naa!

I mean, his sudden transformation to a husband who doesnt BELIEVE a word his wife says...and then back to a contemplative husband trying to think of doing the right thing..JUST DOESNT WORK..Also, am telling you..yeh sab nautanki hai...kyunki aaj hamare dil mein Raman ke liye jagah banayenge..kal PHIR Ishita ko SACRIFICE karte huey dikhayenge...JUST TOO MUCH

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

My entire comment was sarcastic yaar! I called him cognitively impaired! I mean, yes the pity part is true, but to me, pity is the last emotion I want to feel about a person. I think it's the worst emotion of all much worse than hating someone. Raman has fallen so much that I'm not mad at him or hate him- I pity him.

Originally posted by: gravity23

CVs, HOW hard are you trying? First, you turned around Ishita completely and led us to have a glimpse into HER perspective. Alright. Then you tried to show Raman mulling over ADI's unreasonable demand in the context of ALL that his wife has done till date. What are you expecting? That we should feel for Raman's predicament? I don't. I can't. Coz I Just CANNOT forget how FRUSTRATED he looked when he yelled at Ishita...it was so OBVIOUS that he thought SHE was the one to be blamed. Disgusting.

If you've really changed Ishita for the better and given her a voice, then make sure she SPEAKS OUT in her defense tomorrow. Much better, if she goes up to ADI and tells him, "Main tumhari Maa se maafi NAHIN MANGUGI"..I will give my right arm for a Telly soap female lead to be portrayed in this GUTSY, real manner. Seriously. But if she ACTUALLY apologizes to him, then I'll never ever believe any of the rosy shit you plan to show later on.

And if you cant manage THAT, then atleast have Raman stop Ishita at the RIGHT MOMENT, with something like "Ishita..ruko..ADI...Ishita Shagun se maafi NAHIN MANGEGI" Maybe then I'd get back a fraction of the admiration I had for RKB - the loyal doting husband who knows right from wrong and isnt held back by his EMOTIONS to stand up for the right thing...and here, for his wife..

But if you plan to do neither..and are HELL-BENT on having Ishita apologize to Shagun and the Bhallas chant, "Ishita tu badi great hai" "Tera dil bahut vadda hai" et al, then DON'T EVEN BOTHER WITH ROMANTIC, MUSHY LINES OR DECLARATION OF LOVE LATER ON. How can LOVE have any meaning if it only ASKS of you, and drains you out, and makes you squirm, and makes you cry, and makes you feel lonelier than ever?

Originally posted by: gravity23

Hahahah...Im sooo sorry Wings...didnt get that..Im telling you..watching this crap show regularly has led me to lose watever little sense of humour I had😉

And yet...I am suddenly in favour of Ishita leavin this man who LETS HIS PAST HANG ALL OVER HIM..that's SUCH a turn-off for the current wife, man!! They're about to kiss...ADI Hospital mein hai...They're giggling over Parikrama pictures...ADI's making faces..They're getting cozy on the ouch in the hall..ADI comes down the stairs and watches them...W.T.F. is this obsession over ADI? I mean, WHICH wife in the world will so patiently wait thru it all till the dust settles down and she can FINALLY consummate wit her HUSBAND???