19.1.2015 - To Be, Or Not to Be- A Good Husband/An Obsessed Father

"Ishita Aunty ko problem hai" ADI announced. Raman tries to make him understand it isnt the case..and yet...the creep plods on and on

If ShAdi have ended up in Bhalla house as per precap y is Ishu still apologizing to Shagun?

CVs, HOW hard are you trying? First, you turned around Ishita completely and led us to have a glimpse into HER perspective. Alright. Then you tried to show Raman mulling over ADI's unreasonable demand in the context of ALL that his wife has done till date. What are you expecting? That we should feel for Raman's predicament? I don't. I can't. Coz I Just CANNOT forget how FRUSTRATED he looked when he yelled at Ishita...it was so OBVIOUS that he thought SHE was the one to be blamed. Disgusting.

If you've really changed Ishita for the better and given her a voice, then make sure she SPEAKS OUT in her defense tomorrow. Much better, if she goes up to ADI and tells him, "Main tumhari Maa se maafi NAHIN MANGUGI"..I will give my right arm for a Telly soap female lead to be portrayed in this GUTSY, real manner. Seriously. But if she ACTUALLY apologizes to him, then I'll never ever believe any of the rosy shit you plan to show later on.

And if you cant manage THAT, then atleast have Raman stop Ishita at the RIGHT MOMENT, with something like "Ishita..ruko..ADI...Ishita Shagun se maafi NAHIN MANGEGI" Maybe then I'd get back a fraction of the admiration I had for RKB - the loyal doting husband who knows right from wrong and isnt held back by his EMOTIONS to stand up for the right thing...and here, for his wife..

But if you plan to do neither..and are HELL-BENT on having Ishita apologize to Shagun and the Bhallas chant, "Ishita tu badi great hai" "Tera dil bahut vadda hai" et al, then DON'T EVEN BOTHER WITH ROMANTIC, MUSHY LINES OR DECLARATION OF LOVE LATER ON. How can LOVE have any meaning if it only ASKS of you, and drains you out, and makes you squirm, and makes you cry, and makes you feel lonelier than ever?

I was having this feeling right since the morning that perhaps i should skip the epi lekin i was free at 7.30 toh sat down to watch this crap AND. NEVER EVER I HAVE BEEN SO DISAPPOINTED ON ANY DECISION I've made in my entire life. :|

Im still in shock as to what the hell did i just watch? :O
It was such an annoyingly boring epi that i felt like pulling my hair at the end of it. :|

I am genuinely, not interested in the financial crisis of the Iyers. Entire 20-25 mins spent of financial management of Mr. Vishwanathan Iyer. :/ Itne crucial storytelling part mein they chose to fill the scenes with out of context and sub-standard plot. Just what did they want to achieve by showing this crap along with that irritating BG music? Saturday ke epi me they'd have done that i'd have still digested it. Ki they want to push the drama monday hence this endless dragging. Lekin why on earth todayy? :O :/ Pathetic is the word. PATHETIC. :/

Couldn't they have shown Ishita's and Raman's introspection a tad bit more? Kya chala jaata if they had given the leads more screen space? Arre Mihir ko hi dikha dete? There could have been an Ashok-Suraj scene also. Lekin nahi. Financial crisis ka drama le kar baith gaye. Vo bhi 10 min nahi, 12 min nahi, seedha 25 long mins. What the hell? :/ SO ANNOYING.

The only thing that worked for me was Ishita's tears at the end (told u, im a huge fan of them. ;) ) and Raman not asking Ishita to apologise. It would have been end of YHM for me otherwise.
Although i do feel, it would have been better if Raman had not told her about that apology thing. He didn't ask Ishita to apologise lekin if he really knows Ishita, he would know ki Ishita would go any lengths for his happiness and that is where he went wrong. Kuch na bolta, chup rehta and then apni frustration nikaalta Ishita par, and koi aur Ishita ko bolta, someone like Mihir would have told her the happenings of the house, and then Ishita apologising or something, that i'd have digested with so mich more ease than this. Anyway, thik hai. Maafi maangne ko nahi kaha ye hi bohot hai. It hurts to see where my expectations from Raman has come down to - Ishita ko kuch galat karne na bole ye hi thik hai. :/
This is not the Raman i love. Please get back in form Raman. Please. :/

And Ishita. Oh my god, woman. I feel for u. Trust me. And that's exactly why i just don't want u to be stupid in the name of being kind. It's not worth it, honey. So not worth it.
Going by her lecture- Shagun ko ghar me laayi, anniversary celebrate ki, apna khoon jalaya - ye sun ne ke liye ki it's ur over-sweetness that ruined the bond between a father and a son? :O That's too much, really.
I remember Shagun's words so vividly now. Ishita is nothing but glorified Aaya. It's true. These people just don't appreciate her goodness yar? Isliye i become all the more irritated when she tries to be so mahaan. Faayda kya hai? If cv's want Raman to love Ishita, he will do it despite all her faults and jab ladana hoga, they'll make him to that jab Ishita ne kuch kiya nahi hoga. No point. No logic. Just nothing. :|

This show has become heartbreakingly disappointing. :|

Adi, there was one thing i that i hated u. Now, i want to kill u. My blood boils seeing u on screen. Just get lost somewhere, please? I might not be this polite the next time i write anything about u. :/
I would never accept him in Raman and Ishita's life. He needs to stay with his mom only.

Toshi Ji, i've never been so disappointed with u than i am seeing the precap. You are a hypocrite. No kind of apology to Ishita now, will make me trust u, im sorry. You crossed all the lines with the precap. :/


@gravity, one favour from u please. Please give ur reviews for the epi tomorrow positively. Lol. It's ur review which will help me decide whether to watch the epi tomorrow or no. Today was the worst decision i made in ages. And im not even kidding. :|

R.I.P for YHM

Note: no bashing plz...

You know for the first time in forever, I felt pity for Raman. The way he was saying what can I do.. that's true actually! The dude suffers from cognitive disorder! Poor soul! So much on his tiny shoulder when he doesn't understand or know what's happening.. #NotFair!

What has happened to this show? I haven't watched an episode in over a week.. They've made Raman bipolar, or what? One day he's all mooning over Ishita, praising her to the skies, and the next minute he's screaming like some fishwife! And they've got him conveniently forgetting how Adi sent Ishita to jail by faking abuse.. How can he not see how the devil spawn is manipulating him? And what happened to not letting Adi grow up feeling like he can get away with anything? How is his current behaviour being tolerated? Too bloody much! Won't bother watching until this puke-fest is over..

Tu Hi To Jannat Meri
Tu Hi Mera Junnon
Tu Hi To Mannat Meri
Tu Hi Rooh Ka Sukun
Tu Hi Ankhiyon Ki Thandak
Tu Hi Dil Ki Hai Dastak
Aur Kuch Na Janu Mein
Bas Itna Hi Jaanu

Tujhe Mein Rab Dikhta Hai
Yaara Mein Kya Karu
Tujhe Mein Rab Dikhta Hai
Yaara Mein Kya Karu

Lovely post again 😛 This track is testing my patience so much😕 Bhalla family are creating history in wrong parenting.. Especially by thoshi no wonder romi is characterless..keep going Raman and thoshi adi is already in that list...🥱 Bhalla family is in the process of producing criminals for the well being of the society👏 A big social service by the Bhalla family really proud of them🤢 😡

Thank u for the analysis... Could not see the epi , cable probs,...guess it was pissing off... Cud guess it by reading ur post... I watch at 11;come back to share my views...