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Posted: 10 years ago
#51
I got off the treadmill because people who wanted to actually work out were waiting 🤣, anywho even though it's like 18 degrees and 2 inches of snow I am gonna go for a run outside to take out my frustration because clearly the treadmill isn't cutting it today. 😆
I know I haven't watched couple of episodes so i don't know much about the storyline but is it weird that I am looking forward to their separation? Like I mentioned yesterday in your thread I see endless possibilities of really poignant emotional scenes between Raman-Ishita-Ruhi if separation happens. I want the Bhallas to realize that even after having Adi back in the house their house will remain a house and won't be a home till their Raman puttar is happy and puttar's happiness lies with the missus and their togetherness. Raman and Ishita are the glue that hold the Bhalla and Iyer family together, if these two are not together then their families are broken as well. It will be fun to see the realization dawn upon every character especially Ishita and Raman. Both need to realize each other's importance, and puttar needs a little clarity which shall come with due time and a little distance.

Chalo I am gonna go bhag outside in the cold, it shall be a fun run lol

Edit: relationship with treadmill everyday 🤣, you are too much G! I matlab to say that you are crazy! 😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
#52
Lovely collages Gan.. Im yet to watch the episode b'coz I want to watch alone peacefully with no disturbance..reading the written update and ur collage it looks like an awesome episode.. Looks like we are headed in the right direction..but I just happen to see the new olv ..I think I love it not b'coz Ishita deserves this but more b'coz Raman has to make a decision at some point of time & he needs to realize his sons evil intentions, realize how much It hurts Ishita & how lat but not the least how much it affects Ruhi..that probably will not happen if we don't have these frictions btw them..the current arrangement can't be a permanent solution..so hopefully all these lead to a separation that will make Raman see the real picture...and I think lot of them might b thinking how can he yell at her...but I don't think he is yet to see the evil intentions of his son & once he does that he will definitely take the right decision
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Posted: 10 years ago
#53
Gan magical post as usual.. Lovely..

Chant to myself: Dont drool.. Its Unladylike.. Dont Drool.. Its Unladylike.. Dont drool Its Unladylike.. Aww.. heck.. to hell with that.. anyways.. who said I was a lady!!


Mannat kyon?
suna hai murugan se kucch bhi maango tho wo de dete hain.. socha tumhe hee maangloon..
mai tho hoon hi aapki
tho woh iss janam ki setting hai na.. maine socha agle saath janam ka bhi setting kar leta hoon..



I mean what more could a wife ask for? What can be a better confession of love?

Bas yeh saath rahe.. hamesha..

Shagun's mom = Shagun = Adi.. totally selfish characters... like someone said.. they just want to land on their feet and ready to lick any feet to ensure that!

Adi actor is so monotonous.. and such a bad actor.. and has a bad character to portray too... Gautam shouldnt bank on acting as his profession.. seriously he is very lacking in skills..
And Ruhi.. such a beautiful actress.. she brings in so many emotions on her cute little face .. she makes me cry with her and laugh with her.. Amazing bundle of talent and joy.. 👏

Ruhi-Ishita.. beautiful scene.. and a beautiful explanation by Ishima to her little gal.. ki hum hamesha saath rahenge.. I hope the CVs remember that and not get any selective amnesia.

Ishita-amma scene.. she answered most of viewers' complaint in just one scene. And I totally get that.. I was feeling her pain in the past couple of episodes when she was the outsider watching in on the family scene.. and its evident that she would put up with anything to bring joy to Raman's world.. a totally selfless character.. and we get that..

The only time I thought it went overboard was the New Year party ...when gifts given by hubby was given away. and anniversary was celebrated of a divorced couple.Now that was stretching too much and the CVs got a bit carried away with the goodness dose. Baaki sab manzoor.

kehte hai agar kisi cheez ko dil se chaaho toh poori kaynath tumhein usse milane ki koshish mein lag jaati hai.. and my maang as usaul is.. CVs keep Ishra intact. nothing illogical .. nothing overboard.. and end Shagun -Adi Kaand.. ASAP.. Pretty please?

PS: I forgot to add that.. Divz looked B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L and Raman H.A.N.D.S.O.M.E. Totally good-looking pair they are.





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Posted: 10 years ago
#54
Hey Gan ! What lovely collection of pics and all summed together. I am going to be drooling at them till someone knocks in to me saying real life duties are awaiting for you eagerly ...
The episode esp the first few minutes awww .. When he asked for her hand and their cute banter started during the pooja and went all the way till they completed the pheres ☺️ ❤️. Something I loved cos it was just for them and not for third person. Well Ruhi is not a third person, she is their soul but this was just for the two of them. Both looked picture perfect. One could ask them how do you guys look so perfect.







Way too cute and adorable ❤️

Vows repeated, pheres taken and as mentioned before let's see how much all of these hold truth ... Scared but trying to be optimistic.
Hahaha 😆 ... Bhallas did not give a damn about Adi's sudden change in behavior all they are bothered is providing the chiraag a happy happy environment. To talk about PP and Shagun , yuck is the only word I have in store for them 🤢🤬.
Ishru !!! How much they capture out hearts. Such a heart rending scene. The sweet little is again made to stand at cross roads. She felt terrible when her friends ridiculed her for having 2 mothers and 2 fathers. Now she has 2 mothers and 1 father all under one roof . The only difference is that her biological mother has still not felt even a tiny pinch for Ruhi. Adi 😡did spit venom on her but that was so self centered and confused her saying she has no mother really cos Ruhi does not accept Shagun as her mother and Adi does not with Ishitha. I felt way too much for Ruhi 😭😭...How much will the kid has to endure ??
Whatever Ishitha spoke was like a nail in the coffin. She explained her character all over again to her mother who could not understand her and to forum wasis. They just gave us the old Ishitha yesterday. Whatever she did and even in the future it will be for raman and Adi. There is no ounce for Shagun left in Ishitha's heart. Her next step is steep and she is going to sleep but someday she will be up.
All these latest OLVs suggest an impending storm so let's braise ourselves and face it. They can't keep beating around it. Close to a month already.. Errr 😕

P.S: Back soon to edit
Edited by arunabhi - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#55

Originally posted by: RomComFan

Wasn't it just beautiful? Finally looks like this track is moving in the right direction.🥳 Instead of the viewers taking turns blaming Raman and Ishu as they have been lately looks like the CVs are finally bringing the focus back to ISHRA and their evolving relationship.

Positive thoughts seem to be paying off- no need to try as hard to be positive anymore...But I still hope the track won't drag too long!😆

Will comment once you put up your thoughts and quotes and collage because I know you are going to knock it out of the park with such brilliant material onscreen! 😉

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Oh G, I knew you'd be brilliant with your work but your surpassed my expectations.👏👏👏

Happy Pongal BTW, it was a real treat for me to see this episode today.

The beginning... for the entire family to watch couple that so reluctantly circled the agni during their wedding make the rounds so lost in love for the reason of staying in love and ties together forever. What growth... Ishu in her red and gold saree and Raman in his veshti- so much like wedding wear, I choose to believe that it's not a coincidence. This time they made the rounds in unison, not hesitating, lost in each other and in the depths of their commitment and love - it was a true treat the the viewers. And the things that they talked of while they circled... the mundane, ordinary things that commenced such wars at the beginning of their union.

The CVs have given us the second engagement, a renewal of the promises and now a redo of their wedding. How beautiful... and how much I adored seeing the statue of Lord Murugan there- after all of Ishu's constant appeals to him, should he not be the one that brings them together like this?

And was it a coincidence that Adhi, who was missing at their first wedding, was present at this 're do'? I don't believe so. He was present yet still an outsider- due to his poisoned mind. Which was again reiterated as the family viewed the pictures- ISHRARU were the singular unit basking in the joy of their love and security and Adhi stood again, by choice and misconceptions- an outsider, trying to fix himself and his mother into slot that's too small for the two of them.

I don't even want to say anything about Ru (how much do love this child? UGH! She owns my heart!!!!) and Ishu's discussion except that it pointed out two things for me. One it made me recall the ISHRARU conversation when Ishu convinced Ru to attend Shagun's wedding- the 2 moms and 2 dads bit. At that time Raman disputed the 2 dad's argument... perhaps this is the hint that it is time for Ramn to address the 2 moms part of the statement. And secondly, this conversation brought home the point that at the end of the day- this will come down to Raman. He has to make a heartbreaking choice , but it's his to make. Ishu can do all she can and so can Shagun but in the end It's about Raman and his reality. And when it comes time I know RKB is going to break our hearts with both his pain and his joy.

Also interesting to me was the interplay of the mother child relationships that were shown between Raman's children, their mother's and grandmothers- the values (seriously po*nima said 'you need a rich man...'🤢 and I really do not understand Shagun's dismisal of Raman's free will) and love (Madhu broke my heart along with her daughter and grandaughter today- remided me so much of the beginning hwen she worried about Ishu's future and Ishu... is there a way to hug someone's heart?) and the things that they find security and comfort in are so drastically different.

Ishita's speech was ...more then heartbreaking. Her psychological state is just so much more. I am in awe of the performance and the nuanced understanding of this amazing woman that the CVs are presenting to us. Because one of the things that stood out to me about the whole speech is that she still feels incredibly lucky to have his love, still feels underserving of it in a way. That is how damaged she is. She loves and loves but to be loved by her love- that's too much, that's a reality that cannot be. 🥺

It's not like she fell in love , realized he loved her and all those insecurities about love disappeared while the ones about being a step mom came to the forefront. Because in reality it's never that easy to sweep away those nagging thoughts of unworthiness and awe- and the CVs have drafted this character with such compassion and understanding that it all just comes together in this one beautiful speech.

I can't even describe my awe for such a beautifully detailed understanding of the psychology of such a woman , I am simply amazed.

So let me add one more to the CV appreciation GIFs



It's going to be a bumpy ride and undoubtedly there will be more pain before the rise but I am so glad to have stuck it out- it's all going to be worth it... but again, 26 episodes should be enough for this to come to an end right? *pout*




Awesome post Anu!👏 Loved every bit of what you wrote especially the part about Ishita's character...

The CVs are delving into a difficult track pretty bravely...I have been really impressed by the episodes past few days. With Shagun back tomorrow ...let the games begin ...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dmug

Oh missed today's episode due to work pressure and late sitting at office 😕 it seems worth watching!! Luking forward to ur update then will catch the episode at 11. May be i will be able to enjoy it more after ur insights!!


What a beautiful episode and grt quotes gan!! Especially first one about ishita!! I always felt that ishita is trapped in this situation. She has no power to take the decision on adi or on shagun!! And i m glad today she voiced out her discomfort. Its very difficult for her to ask raman to choose between her or adi cz she knows raman wont be able to do that so she is probably waiting for the things to take their due course as the time passes!! They both kno that current arrangement is not the permanent solution to their problem but both r somewhere deferring their decision may be cz adi has recently started to warm up and they both want to give him some time to strengthen his bond with family and especially raman!! So that he can divert adi's mind towards accepting ishita as his wife!! It was always a track regarding a choice raman will make at the end!! If they would have started with this track before realisation of their love for each other then the choice would have been easier but now since both love each other its complex and ruhi is there too which makes it even more complex to handle so i feel this is the perfect time for this track to unfold!! nice! esp the underlined part

And my heart went out to ruhi!! I cant c her in pain!! Finally her insecurities are also addressed which was again much needed!! I felt she is the most intelligent person to voice out that her papa will have to make a choice at the end he cant stay with 2 2 mamas very true!! I hope she asks this question to raman as well as her papa is more answerable to her than her ishima!! There is also a clear contrast the way both ishita and shagun are handling this situation on one side shagun is misguiding adi that raman will choose her and they will be happy family once again and on other hand ishita is telling ruhi that they both love her but not giving clear answer as she herself does not know what destiny holds for her!! I also feel ishita's tolerance level has reached a point and its gonna b poured out in front of raman in near future i m waiting for that day to come!! Hope for the best!! they say sometimes questions from children are hardest to answer as they are brutally honest...what Ruhi asked was a very normal question from a confused little girl ...especially one who has craved parents' love for the first 6 years of her life...and only recently gotten the feel of normalcy.Adi's words must have shaken her again to fear losing her family of Papa-Ishiima-Ru.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful magical quotes and collages G. Truly gorgeous.
The one with Ruhi is so hear trending, and the ones with Puttar and biwi...sigh...Kaash sach mein itne romantic aadmi hote duniya mein.

And thank thank thank thank thank you for keeping photos of the jealous Chirag ( henceforth referred to by me as the "Green Lantern") at the unavoidable minimum. Mwahs to you for that 😃
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: rajkona

Lovely collages! Haven't seen episode but the collages already give an idea of it. You've once again nailed the best parts of the scenes.👍🏼

But can I ask you for your opinion? Don't you think somewhere in her soliloquy she should also address her actions about the divorced couples anniversary and the khandaani earrings?



Remember the episode after the new year party when Raman scolde her she accepted it was a mistake ...

http://www.dailymotion.com/video/x2el13a_ishra-scene-raman-scolds-madrassan-for-ruining-new-year_tv

So she didn't have to justify as she accepted she did wrong giving Adi false hope about his parents.
About the khandani earrings...I havent heard anyone, not even RKB mention about that earring being given to Shagun...even Toshijee was Ok about it. So if they are fine...why does she need to reason to her Amma about it?😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Beautiful collages once again Gan!👏 Took your advice and caught up with yesterday's epi too... and Im surprised to say I kinda liked it, though I could not relate to any of the Raman-adi scenes, especially with that song in the bg😆
Coming to today's episode, How cute were Puttar and wifey while taking the parikramas... loved their banter before and during. As for Shagun and her Mom... 🤢 is the only reaction I have. Like Mother-Like daughter-like son I'd say. Shagun, shagun, shagun *Facepalm* How delusional can one get??? Loved the moment that smirk went off her face👏. The very fact that she has absolutely no clue about the actual depth of their relationship is going to be her downfall. And I'm going to wait for that moment she gets her due... and I'm hoping puttar and the missus both do that honor.

Loved Ishita's explanation, a fitting reply to most of the insane stuff she has done in the past few weeks. I say most because it still does not explain the anniversary fiasco that she did, but well, I guess the CV's also know that was a major blunder on both Ishita as well as their part. Loved little Ruhi today...such maturity at such a young age. Took away my heart with her innocent questions. Looking at the new OLV's I guess it's now Raman's turn to make a few mistakes of his own... Call me sadistic... but I actually would not mind a tiny separation at this point. Puttar and wifey pining for each other would be a treat, and so would watching delusional queen's attempts to take Ishita's place at bhallas and failing miserably at it.😈..coz face it... that family is now incomplete without Ishita, and it's time they also realize it.

I guess there is going to be a lot of drama before this track finally concludes, hopefully the way we want it to. I put my bets on Ruhi😊

Sorry, Rant got too long today. Thanks for giving a space to vent out.🤗
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Posted: 10 years ago
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That was a real nice post G again ...
Beautiful episode progress was great
1.Raman first time show Adi how important is Ishita in his life. He was busy in cherishimg the moment that he missed the frown on his son's face.
2.as well as no one is bothering that he is bothering that he is bullying Ruhi in front of everyone (snatching the phone bothe time rudly) and no one dared to say anything to him as everyone wants the browny points from him.
3. Very special one for me Ruhi's insecurities surfaced and she reached to her mom for the answers which she ignored as down the line she herself is scared to look for the answers here as she very well know that could be Adi and Shagun ... She is scared to reach to that point where he has to take the decision, so taking the whole blame on herself.
4. Amma Ishita conversation was needed for both as well as us . Any mother could be in the same state as she is and Ishita just told her that why she is doing all this and she is not blind to see that Adi n Shagun are big problem for her but can't do much as she loves her husband a lot and she knows genuinely that kid Adi need help. So she is accepting everything. But Amma is watchful, defensive for Ishita and when the time will come definetly she will stood tall along with the daughter.

The whole mood is spoiled by the OLV we got in two days ... Today was the worst one as people are expecting a lot from Ishita and doesn't want to listen to her too. After today's OLV this is sure that Ishita will remember Ruhi's words and her fear as she is heading towards the final decision from Raman and after watching Raman's desperation today towards Adi and blame towards Ishita , I guess she found her answer. And maybe she also will take a steady way towards the separation as she has to make Ruhi ready for the worst but yeah she will go in shell soon . And we can see a emotional or physical separation soon very soon. As she will definetly bring back Adi and maybe he has put a condition about Lohri function for coming in the house and the spoilers came there. If spoilers for Lohri are true that means Ishita made use her mind for separation.

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