Ishita's perspective....bravo CVs! *NOTE on Pg 11*

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Posted: 10 years ago
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A much needed episode! Some very pointed words! You go girl/CVs!



If yesterday's episode was about Raman...today it's about Ishita...

And the scene between Ishita and her Mom..WORD! .every single word is directed at the folks who call her names for her selflessness ...Nothing to add there. Kudos to the CVs for answering those questions...Ofcourse will that make a difference? I highly doubt. Here's a quote I feel that applies to sometimes people's perception of Ishita.

"There's nothing wrong with enjoying looking at the surface of the ocean itself, except that when you finally see what goes on underwater,you realize that you've been missing the whole point of the ocean. Staying on the surface all the time is like going to the circus and staring at the outside of the tent."
Dave Barry

Thankfully Raman is not one of those. Enough said.


Now to the other parts of the episode..


"I no longer believed in the idea of soul mates, or love at first sight. But I was beginning to believe that a very few times in your life, if you were lucky, you might meet someone who was exactly right for you. Not because he was perfect, or because you were, but because your combined flaws were arranged in a way that allowed two separate beings to hinge together."
Lisa Kleypas


I dont know much about Tamilian traditions neither do I expect perfection from a daily soap about the correctness of a tradition...of all the kinds of creative liberties the CVs take...these kind I have no objections about. Because it delivered.

A husband's way of saying to his wife...you're my soulmate...of all the little things he complains about her everyday..he wants to share those very things with her..for eternity and beyond. Yes they have not said "I love you" but he let her know he's asking from her God to give her as his soul-mate for next 7 births.


I just loved the scene as every shot of them oozed of the feelings these two share..their expressions testament to their mutual love. Also loved the little legpulling by the siblings and look of happiness on both sets of parents and their daughter seeing them so much in love.



"We're all a little weird.
And life is a little weird.
And when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with ours,
we join up with them and fall into mutually satisfying weirdness"
and call it love"true love."
Robert Fulghum

I always love how Raman always teases her and she gives back...even during Pooja their banter continued...A little collection of those moments.


Tujhse Naaraaz Nahiin Zindagi
Hairaan Hoon Main
O Hairaan Huun Main
Tere Masum Sawaalon Se Pareshaan Hoon Main
O Pareshaan Hoon Main


Oh again the fear of losing her Ishima and Papa looms in the mind of the little girl who has for once started feeling secure in the embrace of her parents...this time her doubt roots from her brother's dismissal of Ishima's role in their 'family'..For once I felt like slapping Adi on his face...for calling his little sister stupid.😔

Look at the difference in the upbringing...the older one was only thinking about himself and what his heart yearns and being abusive to his sister for not thinking like him. The younger one, though upset, still thought of his well being...asking him to calm down so that he doesn't get sick again.
Another poignant scene was the scene between Shagun and her Mom...Apple truly doesn't fall far from the apple tree. Poornimaji, Shagun and Adi share a common strain of narcissism.

Sorry I have rambled a lot. Thing is that for a moments person like me...I get a bit disorientated when multiple scenes of that touch my heart happen in one episode. I enjoy it as a viewer but my thoughts get all over the place.


A B.E.A.U.T.I.F.U.L episode.

And the acting? KP, DT , RD never disappoint...and today the supporting cast was perfect too..sans Gautam...his lack of expressions is hurting a critical character...I feel bad criticizing a child...but Adi is a complex character...and actor's lack of expressions make it harder to relate to anything about him.

Note:
  • Camera work between the phere🤢










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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wasn't it just beautiful? Finally looks like this track is moving in the right direction.🄳 Instead of the viewers taking turns blaming Raman and Ishu as they have been lately looks like the CVs are finally bringing the focus back to ISHRA and their evolving relationship.

Positive thoughts seem to be paying off- no need to try as hard to be positive anymore...But I still hope the track won't drag too long!šŸ˜†

Will comment once you put up your thoughts and quotes and collage because I know you are going to knock it out of the park with such brilliant material onscreen! šŸ˜‰

---EDIT---

Oh G, I knew you'd be brilliant with your work but your surpassed my expectations.šŸ‘šŸ‘šŸ‘

Happy Pongal BTW, it was a real treat for me to see this episode today.

The beginning... for the entire family to watch couple that so reluctantly circled the agni during their wedding make the rounds so lost in love for the reason of staying in love and ties together forever. What growth... Ishu in her red and gold saree and Raman in his veshti- so much like wedding wear, I choose to believe that it's not a coincidence. This time they made the rounds in unison, not hesitating, lost in each other and in the depths of their commitment and love - it was a true treat for the the viewers. And the things that they talked of while they circled... the mundane, ordinary things that commenced such wars at the beginning of their union.

The CVs have given us the second engagement, a renewal of the promises and now a redo of their wedding. How beautiful... and how much I adored seeing the statue of Lord Murugan there- after all of Ishu's constant appeals to him, should he not be the one that brings them together like this?

And was it a coincidence that Adhi, who was missing at their first wedding, was present at this 're do'? I don't believe so. He was present yet still an outsider- due to his poisoned mind. Which was again reiterated as the family viewed the pictures- ISHRARU were the singular unit basking in the joy of their love and security and Adhi stood again, by choice and misconceptions- an outsider, trying to fix himself and his mother into slot that's too small for the two of them.

I don't even want to say anything about Ru (how much do love this child? UGH! She owns my heart!!!!) and Ishu's discussion except that it pointed out two things for me. One it made me recall the ISHRARU conversation when Ishu convinced Ru to attend Shagun's wedding- the 2 moms and 2 dads bit. At that time Raman disputed the 2 dad's argument... perhaps this is the hint that it is time for Ramn to address the 2 moms part of the statement. And secondly, this conversation brought home the point that at the end of the day- this will come down to Raman. He has to make a heartbreaking choice , but it's his to make. Ishu can do all she can and so can Shagun but in the end It's about Raman and his reality. And when it comes time I know RKB is going to break our hearts with both his pain and his joy.

Also interesting to me was the interplay of the mother child relationships that were shown between Raman's children, their mother's and grandmothers- the values (seriously po*nima said 'you need a rich man...'🤢 and I really do not understand Shagun's dismissal of Raman's free will) and love (Madhu broke my heart along with her daughter and grandaughter today- reminded me so much of the beginning when she worried about Ishu's future and Ishu... is there a way to hug someone's heart?) and the things that they find security and comfort in are so drastically different.

Ishita's speech was ...more then heartbreaking. Her psychological state is just so much more. I am in awe of the performance and the nuanced understanding of this amazing woman that the CVs are presenting to us. Because one of the things that stood out to me about the whole speech is that she still feels incredibly lucky to have his love, still feels underserving of it in a way. That is how damaged she is. She loves and loves but to be loved by her love- that's too much, that's a reality that cannot be. 🄺

It's not like she fell in love , realized he loved her and all those insecurities about love disappeared while the ones about being a step mom came to the forefront. Because in reality it's never that easy to sweep away those nagging thoughts of unworthiness and awe- and the CVs have drafted this character with such compassion and understanding that it all just comes together in this one beautiful speech.

I can't even describe my awe for such a beautifully detailed understanding of the psychology of such a woman , I am simply amazed.

So let me add one more to the CV appreciation GIFs



It's going to be a bumpy ride and undoubtedly there will be more pain before the rise but I am so glad to have stuck it out- it's all going to be worth it... but again, 26 episodes should be enough for this to come to an end right? *pout*


Edited by RomComFan - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The conversation between ishita n her mother was heartfelt. It was indeed much needed. There is no other person infront whom ishita could vent out her feelings because no one can see her pain as much as her mother. Toshiji is too engrossed with her grandson to understand affect of shagun's presence on ishita's life. Raman understands this still he can't do anything because he too loves adi deeply.
This outburst was much needed. Each n every word she said was right. Each n every feeling she exhibited was so heartening to see. She expressed her concern for raman, Raman's love for adi, adi's misbehaviour, family's long lost happiness coming back bcoz of adi, shagun's presence n its affect on her family.
Like I said she couldn't have asked adI to leave his mother in that dustbin, she still cant ask raman or anyone else to let adi go bcoz he has got shagun with him.

Edited by nb.neha - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This episode was dedicated to the viewers, a good fitting reply to people who were criticising Ishu and her decisions, her mahanta,calling her JM. Good of CVs, I totally loved it.
Wating for ur collages and quotes Gan dear.


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Posted: 10 years ago
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Waiting for college and update Gan... i loved how ishita poured her Heart in front of her mother... finally ishta's perspective...it was needed i loved ishu Ruhi scen as always felt bad seeing Ruhi with those sad expressions on her face Awww she loves her ishimaa sooo much... loved how ishu console Ruhi there hug and ishita saing to Ruhi that her ishimaa and papa loves her a lot and they will never get separated(touch wood)... ishita rocked the Epi... and that ishra pooja scen awww puttar lifting Biwi and those romantic talk during pheras

No words for shagun's mom.. unbelievable telling her that she should find rich man soon... Raman can provide her all luxurious now.. what crap 🤢

Hopefully this shagun track ends soon with positive note 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Oh missed today's episode due to work pressure and late sitting at office šŸ˜• it seems worth watching!! Luking forward to ur update then will catch the episode at 11. May be i will be able to enjoy it more after ur insights!!


What a beautiful episode and grt quotes gan!! Especially first one about ishita!! I always felt that ishita is trapped in this situation. She has no power to take the decision on adi or on shagun!! And i m glad today she voiced out her discomfort. Its very difficult for her to ask raman to choose between her or adi cz she knows raman wont be able to do that so she is probably waiting for the things to take their due course as the time passes!! They both kno that current arrangement is not the permanent solution to their problem but both r somewhere deferring their decision may be cz adi has recently started to warm up and they both want to give him some time to strengthen his bond with family and especially raman!! So that he can divert adi's mind towards accepting ishita as his wife!! It was always a track regarding a choice raman will make at the end!! If they would have started with this track before realisation of their love for each other then the choice would have been easier but now since both love each other its complex and ruhi is there too which makes it even more complex to handle so i feel this is the perfect time for this track to unfold!!
And my heart went out to ruhi!! I cant c her in pain!! Finally her insecurities are also addressed which was again much needed!! I felt she is the most intelligent person to voice out that her papa will have to make a choice at the end he cant stay with 2 2 mamas very true!! I hope she asks this question to raman as well as her papa is more answerable to her than her ishima!! There is also a clear contrast the way both ishita and shagun are handling this situation on one side shagun is misguiding adi that raman will choose her and they will be happy family once again and on other hand ishita is telling ruhi that they both love her but not giving clear answer as she herself does not know what destiny holds for her!! I also feel ishita's tolerance level has reached a point and its gonna b poured out in front of raman in near future i m waiting for that day to come!! Hope for the best!!
Edited by Dmug - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I m so content today. Will come back later from lappy. Cant.type.from.tab.to.save.myself.also 😳

unres...beautiful episode n beautiful quote...specially the first one... word...šŸ‘

u covered it all... thank you. i just feel want to continue feeling content... dont wanna say anything today...

just wanted to say...


Kuch to log kahenge...
logo ka kaam hain kehena...
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kahin beet na jai raina...
Edited by shalz_123 - 10 years ago
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awesome!!! waiting for ur completed post Gandhari
today there are lot of reasons to be happy😊

yet to watch the episode,... wont give it a miss😳
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Posted: 10 years ago
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LOVED TODAY'S EPISODE...MANNAT SCENE WAS ROMANTIC..ISHRA R SO MUCH IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER...PERFECT SOULMATES...ISHRU SCENE WAS VERY EMOTIONAL..AMMA AND ISHU SCENE WAS 4 VIEWERS...AMMA WAS SO MUCH CONCERNED ABT HER DAUGHTER. ..MY HEART WENT OUT 4 ISH...SHE IS VERY INNOCENT...HOPE THIS TRACK ENDS SOON.

WAITING 4 UR COLLAGE AND UR VIEWS GAN...
PLZ ONE PIC OF PUTTER IN VESTI...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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The first few minutes😳-can't get enough of itā¤ļø
Every thing from Raman reaching out to Ishita, teasing her to not be touchy-feely,his blushing😳, Romi wanting to help with the parikramas-lol, family cheering him, and finally the praikramas-it was like the CVs read all our minds😊

I especially liked their super awww chit chat during the parikramas-it added so much more to the scene-as opposed to just having an eye lock!! Puttar is sooo much in loweee, it's not funnyšŸ˜‰-but he hasn't lost his sense of humor-I super likey!!
The nudge that Ishita gives him & he laughs, he smile reached his eyes-can we frame it plzzz😳

I thought DT looked ethereal today-sooo pretty, total takkar to the puttar in veshti:)

Shagun-crazy mom-crazier son scene: I have only one thing to say-how did Mihir turn out to be such a saint?? This family of his is psychoness personified-can we plz lock up all the 3 of them-neither is good for the Bhallas & the society in general😔

The crux of the episode: hallelujah CVs-you finally heard the voice of reason-a much needed' bhashan' from Ishita-finally we got to hear her perspective-& surprisingly I found myself noddingšŸ¤”
I see where she's coming from & I see how she's caught up in a bad web(I can't thank the CVs enough for making her human-plz plz plz stick to this portrayal). But I have only one question for her: has she asked Raman how he'd like to play this?
On second thoughts she probably knows and understands him better than he himself & knows he'd be torn between her & the son. Hence she isn't involving him or sharing her insecurities & pain with
him-but something just doesnt feel right-guess it can happen only in shows: no one can be as selfless and good natured as Ishita & as self centered & bitchy like Shagun who has negative self respect & self worth.

Puttar now the hopes are pinned on you-plz wear your realistic garb and get everyone out of this mess

Btw is there really a mannat Pooja & parikrama in Tamilians? Mainu ki-even if not, am all up for such poetic liberties😳

Waiting for your collages & thoughts Gan😊
Edited by geno0309 - 10 years ago

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