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--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

#151

Originally posted by: Bruce_L
meghs

no child can ever feel secured

its takes nano second to make them feel insecured

today ishu explained her

if adi or shagun tell her again something like today

no assurance she will not react to it

its about driving insecurity away from ru's mind which am expecting rkb to do it as ishu seems to be in her own virtual world

not about giving explainations to ru everytime ie wht ishu is doing

Ya I agree with u - Ishita does not protest against Adi/ Shagun it shows her weakness if Ruhi sees it.

Even if Ishita doesnt want to give explanations to Ru its ok but through her actions she needs to put up a fight against Adi/ Shagun when they r wrong- that will make Ruhi secure and also teach her that u need to fight against Evil even if they r ur own blood n not put up with them.

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Posted: 10 years ago

#152

For adi reformation bala raman and shagun are preferable not ishita

Shagun has more impact on adi compare to others but for adi reformation we need shagun reformation

Bala is good guide either it's ishita or adi

Raman has come out from blind love of adi. In last week there was small scene but I really like it. When family was having breakfast and adi was going to put his plate toshiji said ley me do it but raman stop it and said it's better he is doing by himself. Raman and bala will guide adi in rational way

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--Megha--

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#153

Originally posted by: StunningS

Yes.She was wrong. I have said it before too.
But she did realize her mistakes and now she is trying to correct it by maintaining a self-distance from Adi. I don't think Ishita is thinking Raman will leave her, not until now. But the insecurity will be there and it's natural. She is trying to fake it that she is not insecured but she too feels it.

She can be wrong in her selflessness, no doubt. But her intention is always right. It's not easy to be a wife of a man whose ex-wife's only motto is to harm current wife. It's not easy to be a wife of a man whose son is a criminal and hos only motto is to defame, harm and hurt his step mother.

Ya its not easy to be a wife of man who has such horrid past but if the MAN himself is supporting his current wife so y is she giving away her happiness to make a kid happy which is superficial happiness not a real one?

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Posted: 10 years ago

#154

Can anyone please tell me why a 12 years old boy can't question his mom why she left his dad? Shagun clearly said many times to him that she doesn't love Raman, why can't Adi ask his mom why then she wants to be with Raman again? Adi is not a six year old kid like Ruhi, a 12 year old boy knows and understands almost everything about relationships.

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Dharanija

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Voyager

Posted: 10 years ago

#155

From her lecture it was quite clear that she is aware of adi intentions!

Then what's the point in hiding it from raman?!
What if adi again commits some blunder?!

Miracle ka wait karegi ishita shayad 😆

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pomegranate

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Sparkler

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Posted: 10 years ago

#156

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
It is interesting some ppl are saying Raman is wrong

And ishita isn't

but ibfeel Ishita isn't using her wife rights

What she said today look good on surface level

And are kitabi baatein

She should have firmly told bhalla family to make alternative arrangements for airhead and adi

Not force things to Raman throat

Ishita is stupid, nave and dumb. she reminds me of a one of those idealistic people who always believes in miracles. This is the way her character has been crafted and for my own sanity, I have given up on ranting about her.

It is not raman's fault but I think he is the only one who can answer ruhi's question, eventually he and ishita needs to come up with a long term plan.

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--Megha--

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#157

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
It is interesting some ppl are saying Raman is wrong

And ishita isn't

but ibfeel Ishita isn't using her wife rights

What she said today look good on surface level

And are kitabi baatein

She should have firmly told bhalla family to make alternative arrangements for airhead and adi

Not force things to Raman throat

Although Ishita is wrong n stupid to play along with Adi's superficial happiness etc.

Raman being sensible one shud have kept Shagun seperate for his dimaag ki shanti which he didnt - so entire blame cant b put on Ishita noth r at fault acc to me.

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bscorp13

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Posted: 10 years ago

#158

Originally posted by: --mancityfan--
It is interesting some ppl are saying Raman is wrong

And ishita isn't

but ibfeel Ishita isn't using her wife rights

What she said today look good on surface level

And are kitabi baatein

She should have firmly told bhalla family to make alternative arrangements for airhead and adi

Not force things to Raman throat

yes that's another thing I don't understand..when one has to bring param or shagun or adi home...and to IshRa's bedroom. Or hold shanis hand and ask him to come up for coffee...or force mihir to accept his sister ...etc etc..its the strong emancipated woman ishita...

but when it comes to asking shagun to mind her limits...stop playing games with adi n ruhi...Or even telling raman the reality of his sons intentions...we suddenly see bechaari a blank are ishita..who only wants good for everyone...

why not now sit adi down n explain shagun n Raman's relation..not in a spiteful way but like a 13 yr old would understand...or tell raman wwhat she thinks is in adis mind..same way she lectured him about his son's psychological probs and the need for counseling..

raman has been the only one visibly pissed n uncomfy with this stupid arrangement with shagun at bhallas place...one day ishita out if the blue claims she is also uncomfortable and suddenly raman is to blame for not taking action? Really?...didn't he tell ishita not to think too much about the counselors words and make adi more delusional...couldn't she have taken that opportunity to act instead of now ssuddenly backing out and putting raman in a spot to choose between his child and the woman he loves...weird really.

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--Megha--

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Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#159

Originally posted by: StunningS
Can anyone please tell me why a 12 years old boy can't question his mom why she left his dad? Shagun clearly said many times to him that she doesn't love Raman, why can't Adi ask his mom why then she wants to be with Raman again? Adi is not a six year old kid like Ruhi, a 12 year old boy knows and understands almost everything about relationships.

Coz she will say he beat u n he beat me then but now he has changed he is not like that - as Adi can see now that Raman is lovey dovey with Ishita etc. It doesnt take much to build lies n manipulate a kid.

The kid doesnt know that if he burns his hand or takes wrong medication he might die or have serious medical complications in life - how will he understand Shagun's manipulations?

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--Megha--

@--Megha--

Sparkler

Posted: 10 years ago

#160

Originally posted by: Asclepius
From her lecture it was quite clear that she is aware of adi intentions!

Then what's the point in hiding it from raman?!
What if adi again commits some blunder?!

Miracle ka wait karegi ishita shayad 😆

Exactly how can Ishita wait for another blunder from Adi if she knows her intention?

N raman doesnt know his sons displeasure is something beyond me. 😕

If he has taken wrong medication tomorrow he might do a bigger thing than this to blame Ishita then what will Raman do? Weird track.