Rajma idli daily rantings edited - Page 17

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sorry i shudnt laugh

but am laughing at this moment

why re 😆

and yeah am still alive in wa

Originally posted by: bscorp13

yes that's another thing I don't understand..when one has to bring param or shagun or adi home...and to IshRa's bedroom. Or hold shanis hand and ask him to come up for coffee...or force mihir to accept his sister ...etc etc..its the strong emancipated woman ishita...

but when it comes to asking shagun to mind her limits...stop playing games with adi n ruhi...Or even telling raman the reality of his sons intentions...we suddenly see bechaari a blank are ishita..who only wants good for everyone...

why not now sit adi down n explain shagun n Raman's relation..not in a spiteful way but like a 13 yr old would understand...or tell raman wwhat she thinks is in adis mind..same way she lectured him about his son's psychological probs and the need for counseling..

raman has been the only one visibly pissed n uncomfy with this stupid arrangement with shagun at bhallas place...one day ishita out if the blue claims she is also uncomfortable and suddenly raman is to blame for not taking action? Really?...didn't he tell ishita not to think too much about the counselors words and make adi more delusional...couldn't she have taken that opportunity to act instead of now ssuddenly backing out and putting raman in a spot to choose between his child and the woman he loves...weird really.

Exactly

I wonder at ppl different perspective for different situations

Ishita is wrong

As she is encouraging it

She should have told Raman that adi does not like me and is playing dangerous game with me

Make alternative arrangements

Originally posted by: mnr123

Although Ishita is wrong n stupid to play along with Adi's superficial happiness etc.

Raman being sensible one shud have kept Shagun seperate for his dimaag ki shanti which he didnt - so entire blame cant b put on Ishita noth r at fault acc to me.

May be ishita is scare that adi truth will shatter raman 🤔

Megha

Yes I agree with that too

In short track is still not in order

Originally posted by: MERARAI

From one angle it could be said Raman is being put to the final test. Yes, he loves his son. will he still choose Ishita over his son if the choice was before him?

Sure they found Shagun drunk and lying on a pile of garbage. So they brought her home and Ishita tended to her for humanitarian reasons🤔. But was there a need to keep them living in the same house when Mihir her brother was living in town?

If Raman is uber-rich these days couldn't he afford to give his ex and beta a place of their own? He could take care of Adi's expenses too. Let Shagun figure out her own life, after all she was the one who said Raman was incapable of giving her what she needs when she left him for Ashok. He's married now and he's no longer obligated to fund her fancy lifestyle.

Why is Raman's need to be with his son under the same roof (they have been estranged for over 6 years now) so important? He's taking the easy way out bec' Ishita's decision (to bring them to the Bhalla house) gives him what he has yearned for all these years. But what about the predicament he's putting Ishita in expecting her to play host to his manipulative ex-wife? He knows Shagun's manipulative nature and the hell she put him through when he abandoned him with Ruhi, yet he's putting up with her goody-two-shoes avatar at the moment of thanking Ishita at the drop of a hat for everything? Is he so blinded by love for his bigada hua beta that he's blind to or prefers to overlook Shagun's behavior?

Raman actions when he has to make a choice between pleasing bigada beta's whims and dreams of happy family with Shagun and him and his new family with Ishita and Ruhi will say a lot about the man Raman Kumar Bhalla is and his commitment to living up to his promises to his new family. Will he sacrifice his happy marriage with Ishita to please a beta who is still a puppet in his mother's hands? Ruhi may be the one to give him a wake up call if he hasn't figured it out yet.

I am actually wondering why raman is not having foresight of if adi will feel family with him, will adi leave his mother ? right now he is enjoying what he is getting from adi ofc because of Ishita s greatness.

he is given assurance by her behavior and words that she is secure 🥱 i am waiting for the day when she shows her insecurities to him .

earlier he was not liking his mahanta but now he is worshiping her for not so good reasons/actions 🥱
we had asked writers if raman is expected to change then why ishita cannot reduce her social service and mahanta. we got reverse, writers are hell bent to justify her mahanta and social service by making him worshiping her

but I really don't think he is blinded by adi. otherwise he would not have supported shravu without knowing what happened in their case . he defo is not trusting adi more than shravu. IT was ishita who ordered him and again he started to sing her bhajans


ruhi will not say anything , she has become chamchi of some one , ruhi the kid girl who was crazy for her father is lost in singing bhajan of some one and now if if some one cries, ruhi thinks its her father behind her tears 🥱

PS: lecture and justification was done by ishita and that s why i raised this question. i would have raised same for raman too .

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

May be ishita is scare that adi truth will shatter raman 🤔

or she knows that adi will react in a destructive way. even if ishita tries tto explain anything to, he will just spew hatred at her so maybe that is why she does not want to rock the boat.

Originally posted by: mnr123

Coz she will say he beat u n he beat me then but now he has changed he is not like that - as Adi can see now that Raman is lovey dovey with Ishita etc. It doesnt take much to build lies n manipulate a kid.

The kid doesnt know that if he burns his hand or takes wrong medication he might die or have serious medical complications in life - how will he understand Shagun's manipulations?

Technically Adi is not a gullible kid if his age is considered, he is studying in seven standards. A 12 year old boy is more matured than that, specially the kids who belong to broken families get matured much earlier.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

May be ishita is scare that adi truth will shatter raman 🤔

wow... I stepped out & came.. I'm seeing lambi lambi lectures down here 🤔

hi V bhai... hope u had a good day