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Originally posted by: GanBarunFan
Raji welcome to the thread!đ¤And love your perspective.. It makes a lot of sense. And don't ever hesitate to put across different opinion as in this thread we're pretty ok with everyone's takes so long as personal bashing is not there.I loved the part where you said she's doing all these to build Adi and Raman's relationship. But blindly giving in to a 12 yr old's blizzare wish that his divorced parents cut cake.. How does that build raman and adi's relationship? The way I perceive it.. Correct me if I'm wrong.. It gives him a false hope this might get his parents together. Even if we ignore that part. What happens if Adi demands tomorrow( as you know that's Shagun's ultimate goal) that his biological parents get together for making him happy and give him a sense of security.. Will ishita give in to that too.. More than the cake or earring the thought that is driving the actions from Ishita and Raman giving in to that .. Is where precisely my objection lies. Ishita has always been shown to be a parent who always said you teach them right from wrong and not give kids Everythung they demand. A 12 yr old demanding his divorced parents cutting a cake in a party .. Is wrong. Period. They needed to let him understand that. Maybe raman needed to sit him down and talk to him about it. Bonding that is based on truth is a solid bonding rather than one based on delusion/ false hope. That's my feeling about this .Believe me I'm more invested in this serial than I usually am about a TV show... As the story has a lot of promise and deals with some really complicated but true to current times issues.. Kids from broken family, extra marital affairs, infertility , adopting parent vs biological parent.. Et al.. So for me to get a thinking like they are showing feels demented... Yhm creatives can do way better.. Hence the protest.Please chime in whenever you can... Loved your positive insight into this
Thanks Gan!! thanks for the reply too..đ I do believe giving false hopes to a confused kid is wrong. But who will tie the bell in the cats neck? who is the right person to approach this with Adi? Raman? Ishita? Dada and Dadi/ who will Adi believe at this point?? Is he ready to see or accept the truth? this is a mess in reality - I am really curious to see how this will be handled. I just the read the live updates - so Ishita doing this as Adi's parents.. atleast that sort of cools down the effect. I totally agree with what you are saying and i really don't have a clear answer to the questions you posed - like Adi wanting to have his parents get back together.. also not sure how Ishita will handle this.. also what about Ruhi.. but somewhere i am thinking that RKB has to rise and handle this..
I know I am not answering to your questions.. but waiting for the story to unfold.. Yes, they could have handled it better and also, Ishita is really interpreting the counselor word verbatim? why she was also not a part of that conv is my biggest question too.. Adi need to understand that he can fit in his father side of the family - someone has to explain that to him.. may be in due time? he needs to see the good side of the people to understand them and mellow down.
anyways, i will stop my ramblings.. because i really don't have answers to any of your questions..i don't even have a clue how adi will realise what shagun is..
raji
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