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Posted: 10 years ago
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Last year around this time Ishita Iyer had come to a wrong conclusion when she had assumed Shagun was a better parent than Raman and that set the path to first Ruhi losing the secure environment of her home to land up in her biological mom's home who had deserted her at the age of 6 months. Yes, it led to good things of Ruhi getting both her Papa and Ishima in her life eventually.

Today Ishita is again shown to be at that point where she's feeling Adi needs secure environment... And going by the OLVs she's going to do stuff based her own assumption that it would make Adi feel secure.

Kostin for the CVs. We learn from our past mistakes. Right?

Shagun had manipulated Ishita into thinking Raman and his family snatched had snatched away Ruhi from her and she was the victim. That was then.. When she didn't know either of the sides. But this one year.. She has been open to all of Shagun's hadkate... So I can understand her feeling empathy for Adi.. But how come she, an intelligent smart woman especially one associated with medical profession didn't think that security comes from providing a stable environment.. Which Adi now has.. And NOT from giving the delusion of false hope to a pre-teen boy that his parents are still together? If she's not trying to do that.. Then why would she give Adi's DIVORCED parents an anniversary cake cutting and the family earrings back?! It's not overnight that Adi discovered the fact that his parents are divorced...AND his father is remarried for heaven's sake. So what's the point??!! Adi is not a 5 year old who doesn't know what divorce and remarriage mean. So what's the logic behind Ishita's decision?

Ishita's selflessness is a positive trait that I always liked about her. Yes she takes impulsive decisions.. Which often had landed her in trouble. But she's also one who's smart. She's the one who fooled Shagun into thinking she's not marrying Raman though she was getting married to him. How could she fall into this spin of a tale ? And what about Raman.. And his feelings associated with this situation ? Yes Adi is vulnerable but then Raman is the dad and he unequivocally told her the night Adi found them intimate in the hallway that it's about time Adi accepted his and Ishita's marital status. Did Ishita forget those words?

Please Cvs Mihika has been butchered to doing a tease in public. And now Ishita is changed into this one dimensional gullible woman who gets manipulated by Shagun over and over again. Not done.

About time our hero steps in and give her back one of her signature lectures about how charity begins at home.. Home being him, and their daughter Ruhi too. A daughter who tied only recently their hands together; would not it shock her to see her Papa and Shagun mama celebrating anniversary together and kissing Adi Bhaiya like they are normal parents? And remember Ruhi is much younger and more vulnerable too.

But that's logic. Apparently it's gone for a toss in YHM of late.

Sorry for the rant.. Needed to get it off my chest
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Reading LUs, I feel... get sharam married for godsake, let ishita take care of ruhi and save us from this torture.

ishita is pathetic but where is Raman... how can he allow shagun to do this again to him. CVs are making him a fool.

ishita's actions can be explained only if she is a woman who believes in polygamy... If that is so, all her actions till date is justified.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I have not watched the episode and dnt feel lyk watching either..they r over doing everything in this adi ke liye drama..for ruhi it seemed so natural cz she was actualy affected in her parents separation, adi was in much more secure and comfortable environment even with shagun. I agree he did not get father's love and family but atleast her mother was with him and ashok was also not that bad he took care of his comfort atleast..but for ruhi she did not get her parent's love at all until ishita came in her life so going out of the way and doing things for ruhi was still justifiable she was and is much younger..thats wat i was mentioning in my earlier post the other day..ruhi cant b so normal in all this drama..her pov is totally neglected.. And for all other drama nothing seems logical and natural and pratical neither ishita nor raman.. sigh!! May YHM's soul RIP!! 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I think we need to be patient.
The track has just begun...I think the CVs are going to take the drama to an extreme before they would show Ishita realizing the ploy behind the mother and son duo...
Viewers have to bear the crap unfortunately...
Am sure the track will be one for Adi's redemption...and Ishita will emerge winner...

But what all before that...seriously its become so boring...

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Posted: 10 years ago
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I totally agree with what you have said regarding Ishita and how she is also letting Adi have false hopes. However, I feel that Raman is playing an almost equal part (maybe not 50-50 but close enough). I understand that Adi needs to be secure but it doesn't mean that Raman also goes along with whatever Ishita is doing. We haven't really seen the whole scene, so I maybe wrong but from the OLV, it seems even Raman went along with cutting the cake and giving the earrings back to Shagun. He knows how Ishita is and that she would always put others before her, but he didn't stand up in his point either. He could simply refuse to do it or explain to Adi that he will always be his father but he is married to Ishita now. Adi is not a 3 year old and if Ruhi can be mature enough to understand this situation, then why can't Adi (who is twice as old)? I really want to see Ishita realizing what she is doing is wrong or at least that she is affected by all this. Also Raman, I want him to either tell Ishita that she is wrong or at least realizing that he shouldn't go along with this too.
Another thing --It's Khandani earrings, if they give it to Adi, it's different but no need to give it to Shagun to make Adi happy.. she is not family.


I really feel sorry for Ruhi in all this. The poor girl has been through so much already and now she has to go through this pretend family moments for her Adi bhaiya. Come on, she is the younger one. She needs a stable environment too. Not one where her father behaves all normal with his ex and then with his current wife. No one ever thought how this would all impact her. It's always been about Adi. Time and again, she had felt unwanted by her parents and now these incidents add onto the list. If Ishita ever decides to leave the Bhalla family for Adi's happiness, I really want Ruhi to question her & Raman, whether her happiness doesn't matter.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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good post.in the race for trp this is bound to happen gan...🥱
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Posted: 10 years ago
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nothing makes sense and so i stopped watching and hoping for the track to change since I still like ISHRA and DIVAN.
I have been following this story by Nisha..
http://www.india-forums.com/forum_posts.asp?TID=4265449

Just thought will let you know since you are one of the folks I admire for the collages and positive write up.. kya kar diya CV's ne :-(
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Gandhari...excellent post.This is something which is hovering in my mind,since when this illogical and the way of dealing a insecured kid has started .

I agree Adi is a insecured kid ...but really a kid of 12yrs does not know what Divorce means.This kid goes all the way in calling the police and complaining about being tortured by Ishita by burning his hand.He goes further to say how she snatched away everything from his mom ,Shagun...but he can't understand the equation of Raman and Shagun.How foolish that can be!!! And no one makes an attempt to make the child sit and understand that.Ruhi, a 6 yr old kid is clear about the relationship of Raman-Ishita and Ashok-Shagun...but Adi can't.How funny is that!!! And what about that FB that Ishita had...GOD!!The counsellor tells Raman to act before Adi to be normal parents together...SERIOUSLY???Making the child more and more confused.I don't know what's going on CV's mind.What ever Adi told to Ishita...it was indeed heart-wrenching for Ishita.But couldn't Ishita convey Adi's thought to Raman?May be together they would have worked out with a better solution...instead coming up with the foolish idea of celebrating divorced couple's anniversary.Adi...is also Raman's son and when they decided to fight together to solve Adi's problem then Raman has the right to know every bit of it.Why can't Ishita figure out ...that it was a moment between her and Raman,when he gave her the earing...now how did Adi come to know about it?The venom that the child is spewing out...who is instilling it in his mind?She is that dumb, that she can't even figure that?Sometimes...I feel where should I bang my head seeing all this foolishness.
I want Raman to put his foot down and say to Ishita not to cater to all of Adi's whims and fancies.I want to take the charge in his hand and make the child realize and accept the truth.May be I'm asking too much.
Edited by divine_16 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Hi,

I read ur post and Gravity's post. I'm so not watching this ep. Taking a break from YHM. I won't be able to bear all this crap.

I saw DT's interview on the current track. I was shocked. I'd rather not comment for I do not want to start any kind of war. But her answers finally gave me the push I needed to take a break from this show.

I love coming on IF. I'll still be going through ur threads. Do let me know when I can re-enter YHM's zone 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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For the first time I gave the episode a miss on purpose. But as an ardent fan I again ended up flipping the channels to put on star plus. I managed to watch adi crying in front of ishita. Then came the precap... adi ki koi photo nai hai family ke saath. That was it. It seems as if m watching the end result of the track. Raman n shagun in one frame with Adi. This is not acceptable as fans. I have got hooked on to the show so much such that even after all this crap I end up watching it. I end up watching it just for karan patel n ishra.
For how long do they plan to carry on with all this? What is in the minds of the creatives? What is the end result of this track? I really want to the answers now.

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