Both Raman and Ishita are behaving like utter idiots, neither is exempt from fault! When Shagun was first brought in with Adi, it was fine. Ok she was in a garbage dump, so no one can blame Ishita or Raman for giving her a bed and roof for the night, but the next morning? Why the hell does she need to stay there? Ishita was completely out of her mind to think that Shagun and she could co-exist together peacefully. Even her mother knew this was a bad idea, but did she listen to Mrs. Iyer? No. She gave one of her famous mahaanta lectures. Ishita's unrealistic goodness is so damn infuriating. EVERYONE in the family was ready to throw Shagun out the next morning, including Raman, but Ishita was the one who made her stay. Like really, woman? Do you expect Raman to say "I love you" with his ex-wife in the house? Do you think that psychotic ex-wife will let you life in peace? 😵 The only right decision Ishita took in this whole track was to get professional help for Adi, but she should have gone along with Raman. She is his wife, the psychologist needs to know that she is just as invested in Adi's future as his dad.
As for Raman, where has his spine gone? He has the power to kick Shagun out of the house. he knows Shagun's personality. He knows she is not trustworthy, and yet he's keeping her there for Adi's sake? Has he forgotten that Shagun tried to take Ruhi away from them under the grounds of "unstable home"? If Raman had any spine, he'd gain custody of Adi simply by reopening the custody case and showing easy proofs to the judge that Shagun is an unfit mother. He'd gain Adi's custody in an eyeblink. Then Shagun would not have to live there, and he'd be Adi's legal guardian. There is NO reason for Shagun to live with the Bhallas. It's so stupid.
I don't support anyone who supports either Raman or Ishita in this matter. Both of them are behaving like fools and there's no reason to defend their characters. People who are saying Ishita is doing right, I would like to ask them one question. Would you do the same thing in her position? Ishita is in love with Raman at this point. Maybe in the past, her actions can be forgotten with the excuse that she truly did not love Raman, but now she loves Raman and she knows he loves her too. A woman in love is possessive. She would let no ex-wife withing a yard of her husband. This is natural behavior. Why can't Ishita for once throw her annoying goodness out the window and fight for what belongs to her? Raman is hers. Shagun left him with eyes open and has NO right over him, so grow a spine Ishita and show that woman her place! Ashok, vile man as he is, said the right thing. Shagun belongs in the garbage. She has no love for anyone, not even her own son. The way she manipulates him for her own interests is sickening and revolting. She is the worst kind of woman and does not deserve any pity whatsoever. If Adi is away from her, he may revolt for a while but he'll eventually realize that the Bhallas are a much more stable family than Shagun's ever been.
As for Raman, I'm glad that he's being nice to Ishita now, but that doesn't mean he has to agree with her at every point. He is his own man and in marriage, disagreements are normal. Just as Ishita explained to him why counseling is important to Adi, he should explain to her why Shagun's presence in the household is detrimental to everyone, and if Ishita respects him at all she'd understand this.
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