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mayu1982

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Posted: 10 years ago

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@ Zener: Haah hahaa If i behaved like ishita in real life then two things will be sure- my kids will be totally spoil and I will land in court for divorce.

Ishita is very good as samaj seva .. not as mother nor as wife.. Sad but fact.. 😕

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I will not voice out my opinion but I will just state facts to the fans of Ishita. See, confession is around the corner but some viewers are saying Ishita does NOT love Raman. Here these "some viewers' are not just a few but many. That makes you think what prompted so many viewers to think like that. Obviously there is a SEVERE DAMAGE done in Ishita's character portrayal that makes so many viewers to think like this way.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

Simple. Ishita does not love Raman. She loves the shadow of Raman who behaves as per her likings.She loves him only if he behaves the way she wants. But Raman loves her the way she is.

Ishita or rather Raman's love for Ishita has changed him for the better. That does not mean she does not love him. She does admonish him if he does anything wrong and Raman does the same too...

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Posted: 10 years ago

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@ Bold: This is ridiculous. My few aunts are having such problem in real life but they never asked for sympathy nor we treat them with "oohhh bechari".. Enough of this" I can conceive" drama . Yes ishita bring ruhi closer to raman because somewhere she wants to have a prefect family for ruhi as well. What if raman doesn;t take any initiative for this ?Raman has feeling for ruhi, ishita just helped him to express it. But that doesn't mean Ruhi is first ishita daughter and then raman's. That is bit unfair. Both parents will feel same pain if they loose their kid.

PS. no hard feeling for u dear.. I respect your views that is we are having different pov on this issue... Btw KP se kya mila love or chappal heeeh

Arey no problem! We are all entitled to our opinions! But I still feel like Ruhi is a raw nerve for Ishita. Remember Ruhi is her savior, I am not saying Raman feels any less pain, its just that she is just on focus because of her problem, her whole life all she wanted was a kid, period, now imagine getting what you wanted your whole like taken away, well you will become crazy upset, and thats what happened. Now if you look at todays episode she told Ruhi that your dad is a strong man, he will never let anything happen to you. See she knows how Raman feels, its just a reaction to a situation. And I don't care what anyone says (to the others) both Raman and Ishita are IN LOVE with each other. They both love each other, and it has been super evident in their actions. I am waiting for after confession to see how they will behave, now that my friend should be awesome. CVS better give us some awesome tracks, otherwise they will feel sorry for themselves. 😆

At the end of the day guys, Raman, Ishita, and Ruhi are one! We love them all! hehe

PS: If the focus is on Ishita, its to please the trp aunties guys, Trp aunties love all the female lead rohna and dhona! And YHM wants to be (or is it already?) NUMERO UNO (#1)! 😆 BTW honestly Raman also cries a LOT! I have never seen a male lead cry this much on a show(from the shows I have seen) Its quiet unique! I like it! A senti man is adorable! 😆

PS: I didn't get chappal or pyar from KP, so KP also didn't get chappal or pyar from me! 😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

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I think somewhere we are getting it wrong in my opinion...

I dont think Ishita is more hit if the custody changes...everyone in the family will be hit equally...Raman will be as devastated as her...

no doubt about it...

Ishita's insecurities are higher here...just because she is not Ruhi's biological mother...

Whether Ruhi stays with Bhallas or Shagun...Raman remains her father...Bhallas remain her grandparents nothing can change that...

But with Ishita its different...hence its natural that her fears are more than the others.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Lekz
I think somewhere we are getting it wrong in my opinion...
I dont think Ishita is more hit if the custody changes...everyone in the family will be hit equally...Raman will be as devastated as her...
no doubt about it...

Ishita's insecurities are higher here...just because she is not Ruhi's biological mother...

Whether Ruhi stays with Bhallas or Shagun...Raman remains her father...Bhallas remain her grandparents nothing can change that...
But with Ishita its different...hence its natural that her fears are more than the others.

VERY IMPORTANT POINT BROUGHT UP! Well done! I totally forgot about this, very true. Ruhi is not Ishita's biological child and that has always made her super insecure. She would fear more than others, not I said fear more than others, not be more devastated than others.

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Vsoujanya

@ Bold: This is ridiculous. My few aunts are having such problem in real life but they never asked for sympathy nor we treat them with "oohhh bechari".. Enough of this" I can conceive" drama . Yes ishita bring ruhi closer to raman because somewhere she wants to have a prefect family for ruhi as well. What if raman doesn;t take any initiative for this ?Raman has feeling for ruhi, ishita just helped him to express it. But that doesn't mean Ruhi is first ishita daughter and then raman's. That is bit unfair. Both parents will feel same pain if they loose their kid.

PS. no hard feeling for u dear.. I respect your views that is we are having different pov on this issue... Btw KP se kya mila love or chappal heeeh

Arey no problem! We are all entitled to our opinions! But I still feel like Ruhi is a raw nerve for Ishita. Remember Ruhi is her savior, I am not saying Raman feels any less pain, its just that she is just on focus because of her problem, her whole life all she wanted was a kid, period, now imagine getting what you wanted your whole like taken away, well you will become crazy upset, and thats what happened. Now if you look at todays episode she told Ruhi that your dad is a strong man, he will never let anything happen to you. See she knows how Raman feels, its just a reaction to a situation. And I don't care what anyone says (to the others) both Raman and Ishita are IN LOVE with each other. They both love each other, and it has been super evident in their actions. I am waiting for after confession to see how they will behave, now that my friend should be awesome. CVS better give us some awesome tracks, otherwise they will feel sorry for themselves. 😆

At the end of the day guys, Raman, Ishita, and Ruhi are one! We love them all! hehe

PS: If the focus is on Ishita, its to please the trp aunties guys, Trp aunties love all the female lead rohna and dhona! And YHM wants to be (or is it already?) NUMERO UNO (#1)! 😆 BTW honestly Raman also cries a LOT! I have never seen a male lead cry this much on a show(from the shows I have seen) Its quiet unique! I like it! A senti man is adorable! 😆

PS: I didn't get chappal or pyar from KP, so KP also didn't get chappal or pyar from me! 😆

Ruhi = life line for everyone. Period.So it is matter of debate for whom she is more important and who will feel more pain if they loose ruhi

Again I would like to mention IShita reaction atleast from my motherly instinct views is not at all motherly reaction. A mother with fear to loose her kid will create havoc and not give any jhataka to ur hubby.. She will go directly to mihika and said you didn't want to share things because u thought that would create problems in my marriage but now my life is going aways because u hide things from me. I have to suffer because of your stupidity. That is motherly reaction. A mother can't leave any relations when it comes to protection or saving her kid.

So end of the day they showed mostly on the basis ishita's perspective view and glorified her pain only.So from personal experience i can tell you father are most sensitive towards girl kid.Oh !! they will show most irrational reaction if they know their lovely daughter is going away from him.My Hubby is more sensitive towards our kid than me.. If am like this then u can imagine what will be my hubby reaction. He would personally gave poison bottle to mihika saying go !!!

But superficial mother like ishita will show such type of reaction- Already in above post me and few ppl gave some examples of it - Like to give one more examples- For ishita ruhi is lifeline then ishita would have been first perosn to know that ruhi is disturbed by shagun wedding and not by through some mani shani would have told her. During mani track she not only ignore family but her so called life line Ruhi as well. Ye kaise lifeline hai jo time time par change hoti hai...

Sorry can't relate ishtia as mother nor as wife.. Real life se dorr dorr tak koi relation nahi.. SO far ishra love story seems good and hopefully they will confess and after that drama will continue...

PS- Am repeating no hard feeling for u dear.. koi nahi hota hai... not necessary two ppl will think alike on same matter ..U know me na humari aur bhi baate militi hai..😉😆

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: mayu1982

Ruhi = life line for everyone. Period.So it is matter of debate for whom she is more important and who will feel more pain if they loose ruhi

Again I would like to mention IShita reaction atleast from my motherly instinct views is not at all motherly reaction. A mother with fear to loose her kid will create havoc and not give any jhataka to ur hubby.. She will go directly to mihika and said you didn't want to share things because u thought that would create problems in my marriage but now my life is going aways because u hide things from me. I have to suffer because of your stupidity. That is motherly reaction. A mother can't leave any relations when it comes to protection or saving her kid.

So end of the day they showed mostly on the basis ishita's perspective view and glorified her pain only.So from personal experience i can tell you father are most sensitive towards girl kid.Oh !! they will show most irrational reaction if they know their lovely daughter is going away from him.My Hubby is more sensitive towards our kid than me.. If am like this then u can imagine what will be my hubby reaction. He would personally gave poison bottle to mihika saying go !!!

But superficial mother like ishita will show such type of reaction- Already in above post me and few ppl gave some examples of it - Like to give one more examples- For ishita ruhi is lifeline then ishita would have been first perosn to know that ruhi is disturbed by shagun wedding and not by through some mani shani would have told her. During mani track she not only ignore family but her so called life line Ruhi as well. Ye kaise lifeline hai jo time time par change hoti hai...

Sorry can't relate ishtia as mother nor as wife.. Real life se dorr dorr tak koi relation nahi.. SO far ishra love story seems good and hopefully they will confess and after that drama will continue...

PS- Am repeating no hard feeling for u dear.. koi nahi hota hai... not necessary two ppl will think alike on same matter ..U know me na humari aur bhi baate militi hai..😉😆

Actually, Ishita's reaction was knee-jerk and as a mother myself, I sympathize with it. She shouted at Raman when he explained that he fought at Ruhi's school - he did not go on to state the reason behind his fight. Nowhere does he say Mihika's name. She asked him a befitting question hence - Why the heck can't you control your anger?! Why would she blame Mihika when her name wasn't even in the little conversation.🤔

Not to mention that Ishita is Ruhi's adoptive parent - not biological. Raman and his family have all sorts of rights on him whether either side wins the custody, Ishita doesn't.

Then the whole shouting at Raman that her daughter will go away - it was selfish and important. Raman rightly tells her that she has stop going hyper and that Ruhi is his kid too. It was a conversation mature couples would have. I found her selfishness good actually.😆

And Raman and Ruhi have a strong bond - Ishita not glorifying it in her shouts doesn't make her blind to the fact the Raman loves or cares for Ruhi. In yesterday's episode she rightly tells Ruhi that her father won't let her go anywhere. That is her notion after she's thought over the matter. And she doesn't hold anyone responsible - to what extent is it true for a real mother - I've never been in the same exact position so I can't tell. Being a hysterical mother whose kid is being taken away from her does not a bad mother or wife make. People have got to comparing that reaction with her entire demeanor.

As for the entire Mani track - I didn't understand any character - including Raman's behavior definable. It was simply needed to enforce the trust issues these two have. Ishita's trust when the Shagun fiasco during the Adi accident happened, and Raman's trust here. Simply to highlight that Ishita and Raman are not Shagun and Subbu respectively.

As a wife I don't relate with her - I had a love marriage with a half-Indian, half-Canadian guy, I can't think of finding love after marriage and because of a kid. But yeah, she is possessive when it comes to Raman, which I can relate to. I hate all my husband's ex-girlfriends - would probably have their Voodoo dolls in my sock drawer if I believed in it😆

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mayu1982

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Ishita - Loves for Raman

1) Yes Ishita is in love with raman- So when sanjana told her about their relationship she doesn't think twice and concluded they were having affair and raman hides this fact from her and she was hurt by it so instead of talking this with thing personally with raman said or create drama infront of everyone... Yes ishita is in love with raman

2) MAni- ishita solving ri-ri case talking all the time, roaming, even raman watched her saying ILU to mani personally, hug and will leave my kid and comes to u- heard by raman. But,when raman asked for explaination it is like giving character certificate to raman.Its only ishita right to ask for character certificate. Yes ishita is in love with raman.

3) Raman brought western dress for ishita - she gave to shagun tai because of mihika or to shagun as gift.So what when social works comes ishita gives more priority to social service.. Yes ishita is in love with raman

4) Raman wants to spend time with her before Murgli party even ishita is aware of that fact. But when other relation comes , my first priority goes for other relation than hubby. Yes ishita is in love with raman

5) Ishita don;t mind bring ex-wife to home in drunken state in their bedroom... Yes ishita is in love with Raman..

Yes now understand very clearly why ppl think ishita is in love with raman😉

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Lekz
I think somewhere we are getting it wrong in my opinion...
I dont think Ishita is more hit if the custody changes...everyone in the family will be hit equally...Raman will be as devastated as her...
no doubt about it...

Ishita's insecurities are higher here...just because she is not Ruhi's biological mother...

Whether Ruhi stays with Bhallas or Shagun...Raman remains her father...Bhallas remain her grandparents nothing can change that...
But with Ishita its different...hence its natural that her fears are more than the others.

Very well said. Infact my heart goes out for Ishita as she will always have to live with this insecure feeling regarding ruhi and Raman. And on top of it she fell in love with Raman still thinking that he always love Shagun ( it changed now) and he has weakness for Adi. Her love for Raman will multiply her fear of losing them many times. She will always feel inferior to Shagun because of the kids she has with Raman.If Adi's life is in concern then some tough decisions may have to be taken. It is a very tough situation to be in.
Mani is the only person who understood Ishita's situation. He knows that Ishita loves Raman and he also knows shagun has to settle down for Ishita to be happy. That is why he instigated Ashok knowing that he was going to ditch Shagun. It would have worked if Mihika did not interfere.
I did not understand why people bashed Mani so much. He behaved like any good friend. Ishita is the one who did Mani jap and involved him in her family matters. First he got bad impression on Raman. And then Ishita was always seeking his help. He behaved like any other friend who would help a friend in need. It is completely Ishita's fault in Mani's track.
But later he realized Raman is good and Ishita loves him. That is when he voices out his concerns to Raman saying I felt bad for Ishu that she married a divorcee with kids. That is again a very normal and sensible thought that any good friend gets.
I did not feel Ishita's reaction is unnatural in yesterday's episode regarding Ruhi's custody reopening. She lashed out on Raman out of her fear and insecurity.
And I cannot praise DT enough for her action in emotional scenes.Especailly the way she cries is unbelievable. I feel KP and DT usually compete with each other performance wise.
But when she cries she just leaves KP way behind. I have never seen any other actress doing this.
I just loved Appa and Raman's scene. Made me very emotional. I could feel his pain for Ishu who went through a lot of insults and rejections before marriage and he is the one who helplessly witnessed his daughter's pain. Ishita was not willing to marry Raman even for Ruhi in the beginning. But he forced her into it. He was scared that she would break if she loses Ruhi.

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