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Posted: 10 years ago
#11

Originally posted by: pg17

I am normally a silent member on this forum but today I have had enough. Farewell YHM!

Thank you karan and divyanka for bestowing us with beautiful moments, but my conscious does not allow me to watch this show any further more.

I HATED how the Cvs treated Param's track. Ishita was held responsible and was told she brought it on herself.

When her husband molested her, they backpeddled realising for the sake of TRPs they were ruining the show. How conveniently both have developped amnesia.

When Ishita got molested at the bachelor party, she said its good it happened at least everyone got to know what a creep Param was. Idiotic woman, were you gangraped that night you would not have felt the same.

Now this Mihika Ashok track. She was drugged and Ashok had non-consensual sex with her. ITS CALLED RAPE! AND NO ONE DESERVES THIS. TRUST ME ON THAT!

What sickens me most is not the show or the regressive storyline, its a fiction show at the end of the day, but the reaction we are getting on this forum, which comprises of mostly women. It makes us wonder in what kind of society our daughters, sisters and mothers are growing up.

How in the world can anyone say Mihika deserved what she got, say that she dug her own grave, good for her, teach her well, great now she can marry Ashok. SHE WAS RAPED!

I WILL NOT remain passive and silently tolerate or promote such sick mentality. I can sense what is forthcoming, Mihika forced to marry her RAPIST THERE IS NOTHING ROMANTIC ABOUT THIS AND ITS NOT OKAY!



I completely agree with you! That's what I have been trying to explain over the past few days but I am shocked at many people's mentality and the responses I was receiving!
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Posted: 10 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: SushantVasudha



Excuse me? Did you really just say that Ishita deserved what happened to her at the bachelor party? How, in any way, shape or form, was that her fault?
Regardless of your point, Ishita and Mihika did not 'deserve' what happened to them. If the men weren't so disgusting and actually had respect for women, these kinds of things wouldn't happen; I love how there are any posts or comments saying that Ashok is disgusting and wrong for what he did- wow! It is always the woman who is blamed

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Posted: 10 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore

No woman deserves to be raped. But does life depend on what you "deserve"? NO, rather it depends on your action. Mihika had asked for this humiliation by her dumbness.

nobody asks for humiliation no matter how dumb they are
rape is never deserved
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Posted: 10 years ago
#14

What surprise more to me is every day new post is made on this topic. Seriously ppl love to discuss this topic.

I have not come across any post nor comment saying MIHIKA DESERVES THIS. In fact ppl are saying we can't sympathises with her because of her dumbness . YOU mean to say that if ppl sympathises with her then that person is saying she don't deserve this. IS sympathy and deserve is having the same meaning? You are so called silent member but didn't take time to blame forum members? Right because its forum member who is writing this ugly script. Now we all are like CV of YHM thinks only negative for the ppl. There are many ppl in this forum who said they can't sympathises with mihika character, but still gone out of way to tweet to the actors , writers and starplus saying stop showing female in a demeaning way. PPl are trying we all are trying in some or other way. There are many ppl like me who has stopped watching this show because we don't want to be part of trp game anymore , indirectly telling them PLEASE STOP THIS NONSENSE.


So instead of appreciating forum member what surprises me everyday ppl are creating posts discussing deserving and not deserving issue. It is forcefully putting word in someone mouth.PPl are saying sarcastically and try to understand whole comment rather than searching word deserving and sympathy.There are many forum ppl who uses sarcastic tone to express their anger towards this issue. If you don't know ppl still have the guts to pass the direct comments of the forum members.

YOU have a right to create post and express your views - its your birth right but you don't have any right to comment on forum members in rude way.Learn to blame the right ppl- CV of the YHM and not forum members.

As far as this matter is concerned what is my thinking on that please read my comment on this post if you are interested because i can't repeat myself every time


https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ye-hai-mohabbatein/4232867/i-am-in-shock?pn=3


P>S> Sorry for being rude. HOpefully next time you will make some positive post where we share same views...

Edited by mayu1982 - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: -Priya-

nobody asks for humiliation no matter how dumb they are

rape is never deserved


Since you butted in, I think you didn't get what I meant. Let me make it straight, let's assume you go in the middle of a busy road full of traffic and you desperately hope that you won't get thrashed out since you don't "deserve" it. Will it work? Mihika knew what she was doing, she took the risk of getting raped as she clearly knew what he's capable of. This man had tried to molest her many times at the workplace, this man is a known adulterer yet she invited Ashok to seduce so that she can expose him. What the efff?! If she says it out loud that I don't "deserve" it, will it help her cause? Rather than feeling pity for Mihika, we should criticize CVs and the portrayal of this character, this is downward cheap.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#16
I have stopped watching this creepy show.. My main problem is with women being assaulted left, right and center by strangers and creeps like Param and Ashok with no consequences...

In America, this kind of subject would have gotten a rating "R".. So this is no longer a family show. However in India, these kind of disgusting, creepy scenes are shown during prime time television.. What does this say about our society, our culture?

These creepy writers are a reflection of the pathetic society we live in...Every fan who is tolerating this nonsense and continuing to watch the despicable show is also a reflection of our degenerate society..

DO people really enjoy these creepy scenes? Is that why the producers continue to show these scenes again and again? I am shocked and disturbed just thinking about this.. What does it say about our society ? Do the viewers including women really enjoy these creepy scenes? Do we live in a society full of perverts and creeps?

If TRPs are going up, all I can say is we have become a despicable, degenerate society with no moral values...very sad indeed.


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Posted: 10 years ago
#17

Originally posted by: mayu1982

What surprise more to me is every day new post is made on this topic. Seriously ppl love to discuss this topic.

I have not come across any post nor comment saying MIHIKA DESERVES THIS. In fact ppl are saying we can't sympathises with her because of her dumbness . YOU mean to say that if ppl sympathises with her then that person is saying she don't deserve this. IS sympathy and deserve is having the same meaning? You are so called silent member but didn't take time to blame forum members? Right because its forum member who is writing this ugly script. Now we all are like CV of YHM thinks only negative for the ppl. There are many ppl in this forum who said they can't sympathises with mihika character, but still gone out of way to tweet to the actors , writers and starplus saying stop showing female in a demeaning way. PPl are trying we all are trying in some or other way. There are many ppl like me who has stopped watching this show because we don't want to be part of trp game anymore , indirectly telling them PLEASE STOP THIS NONSENSE.


So instead of appreciating forum member what surprises me everyday ppl are creating posts discussing deserving and not deserving issue. It is forcefully putting word in someone mouth.


YOU have a right to create post and express your views - its your birth right but you don't have any right to comment on forum members in rude way.Learn to blame the right ppl- CV of the YHM and not forum members.

As far as this matter is concerned what is my thinking on that please read my comment on this post if you are interested because i can't repeat myself every time


https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/ye-hai-mohabbatein/4232867/i-am-in-shock?pn=3


P>S> Sorry for being rude. HOpefully next time you will make some positive post where we share same views...


Exactly. Some people love to live in a utopian world where if anyone says I don't "deserve" this will ensure his/her safety. It's the ACTION of a person that determines what will happen to her. Mihika certainly didn't deserve to be raped but she took the risk of being raped. Some people want to ignore that but idealistic views don't work in practical field.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#18
I agree with you. I stopped watching the show already. I am going to miss Karan and Divyanka. Even they cannot save this show now.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Are we not jumping the gun here. Its still not been proven that Ashok raped Mihika. He has said that he has not and Mihika has kept quiet. Cvs still have to reveal who is speaking the truth.
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Posted: 10 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: begumparaa

Are we not jumping the gun here. Its still not been proven that Ashok raped Mihika. He has said that he has not and Mihika has kept quiet. Cvs still have to reveal who is speaking the truth.



What happens next is irrelevant.. He had no right to drug her..The whole thing is disgusting and despicable and creepy. .. There is no 'technicality' here.. She was assaulted against her wishes.. This show must be banned for good.

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