I am in shock - Page 3

Meghz

Gosh!!! Some people (women specially) come up with instant "feminist approach" for everything !!! CVs have made a mockery of women and their dignity. Not for this instance only, they've been doing so for some time. Forum members are absolutely right in their way to make fun out of this crap.

Completely agree with you...To my mind its not about Ishita, Mihika or the writers...

What I find strange is that if Ashok molested Mihika, y would the family let her marry him. Who does that?

Originally posted by: swati62

What I find strange is that if Ashok molested Mihika, y would the family let her marry him. Who does that?

Ishita brought her molester back in her home and tied rakhi to him. She attended her molester's wedding functions happily and religiously. Who does that? Don't believe these mad Iyer sisters, they can do anything. But still some people won't question their motives because they are women!!! 😆

I have stopped watching this show... Because I too like @mayu said do not want to give respect to a shitty show by contributing to its TRP!

Originally posted by: columbia

I am not watching this track

No one in my building I live in who have been watching YHM from the beginning are watching this track

I don't know where they get the trp from??

Forums don't shock me anymore even the most smartest women find ways to justify and claim they will continue watching

Is TV making some of us think rape is deserved or are women who think rape is deserved watching TV ??????

I have stopped watching this creepy show as I cannot condone this nonsense anymore. I find very extremely disturbing if the TRPs are up.. That means there are perverts in our society who enjoys these creepy assaults scenes on women. These pervs must be extremely happy that the criminals get to walk free after after every assault.. Extremely disturbing.. The creepy writers are writing this nonsense for a bunch of perverts who enjoy this nonsense.. I am shocked.. I find every so called fan who continue to watch this show creepy! We live in a degenerate society...very sad indeed..

Originally posted by: Loveforlife

I have stopped watching this show... Because I too like @mayu said do not want to give respect to a shitty show by contributing to its TRP!

I like the lead actors they are getting payed fat cheques.. They can go take a hike for all I care! ( yeah throw chappal at me 😆) Their presence does NOT justify the horrendous things they are showing!

NO one deserves to be raped... ( the people who said it maybe said she deserved to be raped said it out of sarcasm, absolutely not done though I agree)

the CV's have absolutely lost their mind! What sort of messages are they giving out? Act stupid like Mihika? Ashok is a bas**** and deserves maximum punishment! We all know and understand... But are the CV's getting this?... All the men Param, Suraj, Ashok, Romi, Raman have been given little or no punishment for the acts they have done!

And the women are acting like Tyag ki Devi's forgiving and encouraging them! What are they showing???

I understand show need 'negative content' for stories to proceed but so something that is not a horrible crime! In YHM every man has committed a crime that deserves years of punishment!

It has become a serial of Criminals... And I do not want to be a part of it even as a viewer!!

Many post before mine have put forth what a joke YHM has become... Couldn't agree more!

Well said. Finally a sane post.. Hollywood movies with these kid of creepy content are usually given a rating "R".. If they show rape in movies, the rating changes to NC 17.. But our degenerate, despicable Indian society shows this creepy content on prime time television! Women are assaulted and raped continuously & the criminals walk free seem to be the general theme on many Indian TV shows.

These creepy TV show writers and producers are a reflection of our current society.. The people who watch and enjoy these scenes are perverts.. Looks like our society is full of creeps and closet perverts.. If not, the creepy writers will not dare to write this nonsense...

I have boycotted the show for its irresponsible content.. But many pervertss continue to support this creepy show...

All I can say to these irresponsible people is - if you are not disturbed by the assault and rape scenes show in YHM, you are a creep and a pervert..

Originally posted by: mayu1982

@megha , Nisha- I agree with you

@Columbia- Sorry for late reply i was bit busy.. I think we have discussed this thing even earlier that whatever drama they want to show , they are free to show, but should not compromise on social message. that is my pov.Special mention to SMJ- Even that episode they clearly shows that entertainment industry has the power to influence people's mind and attitude so they need to be cautious since one single wrong social message can be very dangerous to the society.Now coming to the show:

So far cv has shown 4 molestation case:

1) Param case -

Punishment- param was freed within few days and never went to court for that case.

IShita in fact brought him back to bhalla house and did rakhi ceremony.

Social message- Bring your molester back to your house to show his true colors to ppl who are not ready to accept him as molester. Even if needed tie him rakhi.. Clear cut mockery of sister-bother relationship.( Not my pov but it is cv who has shown this so far)

2) Raman- IShita Assault case :

Punishment- no punishment.No clarification between ishita and raman. No dialogue between raman and ishita as if nothing happened.

Social message- Please forget assault episode if assaulter is your husband

( Not my pov but it is cv who has shown this so far)

3) IShita molested at bachelor party-

Punishment-Only one person get some thrashing by mani and raman. No one does anything after that. If anyone remembers something pls guide me.

Social message - Molestation is good if one of your family member got their brain cell back(

Not my words- its ishita who said accha hua atleast simmi ko pata toh chala- pls don't bash me - hate this dialogue and treatment of female.)

Myth which cv supported here - Clothes and rape have strong connection. Because when ishita went to meet param in the middle of the night nothing happens to her. but in the party she went to all deck up and everyone knows what happened after that.

4) Mihika case- in this case victim herself is entertaining the molester that is reason ppl like me is finding it hard to sympathise with her.Failed to understand the reason why mihika can't tell this to raman, ishita and mihir about ashok. Was ashok having cordial realtionship with bhalla or iyer family.

PUnishment- on going track

Social message- on going track

Myth- Victim is aware of molester intentions...Whereas in real case victim are not at all aware of molester intentions.

Now coming to again deserving and not deserving - Question itself is very stupid( sorry for saying this) No woman wants to be molested or rape. No human being deserves such type of punishment.

In mihika - the way mihika was not showing any kind of resistance to ashok closeness , in fact she thought if she caught red-handed with ashok then shagun will understand ashok creepy nature..( that is what is shown so far in mihika 'case - not my words but cv has shown this). IF you go to molester, entertain him, then chances are very high that you will be molested .

I think ppl in forum are talking about chances.

P.S. - Sorry for long essay.Please don't bash me for social message. This is not my thinking at all. In fact am repeating myself am against of this whole issue so i have stopped watching YHM .

Bang on! I am quite disturbed by this show at the moment.. extremely disturbed, that I have stopped watching all Indian shows.

As far as I am concerned, the producers and writers of this show are creeps and the people who continue to watch and enjoy these creepy scenes are perverts..

And I will not apologize for my language..coz I am that upset... All the creeps owe me an apology for disturbing my peace by airing objectionable content on prime time television with no warning! I am very disturbed I live in this despicable society!