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Posted: 10 years ago
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It really saddens me that so many forum member keep saying Mihika was stupid. She is also at fault for inviting Ashok and when she knew what kind of person she is, etc.
The man DRUGGED HER !! Right there, Nothing more needs to happen, IT IS RAPE !!

But ppl say well she brought it no her self and we have no sympathy - shame on them.

This is the type of argument they use saying if a girl was roaming big city 2 am; she should expect trouble !! I mean really, sure Mihika acted stupid - so that means if someone druggs her - no sympathy for her as she was playing with danger.

It sickens me when I read such comments 🤢hence stayed away from forum for few days.

Also saying if she attempts suicide, that's just drama for attention 😲 I mean really people?
Do people even know what suicide is? Being sexually assaulted increases suicide risk so high as they are experiencing psychic pain !!!
If so many women think like this then forget our society as whole 🤢
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Well said!
When it comes to sex only a women's 'yes' means 'yes'. Not her flirting with man or wearing sexy clothes. Nothing! Mihika definitely did not deserve that. This show is becoming worse. At first Ishita who was going to be gang raped said whatever happened happened for good and also forgave Raman who was going to rape her in drunk state🤢. They ruined even the leads way back. Also Shagun accepting Ashok's 'seduce' excuse is cheap message that they are sending to viewers about infidelity. Many married women forgive their husband when they sleep with other women thinking they got seduced in indian society. Lowest of lowest..
First time I thought Ekta made a different show after Tere Liye but this show has now become worst.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Did Raman molested Ihita? in what episode did that happened? otherwise what do you mean her husband molested her? someone plese reply
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: jay_bpm

It really saddens me that so many forum member keep saying Mihika was stupid. She is also at fault for inviting Ashok and when she knew what kind of person she is, etc.

The man DRUGGED HER !! Right there, Nothing more needs to happen, IT IS RAPE !!

But ppl say well she brought it no her self and we have no sympathy - shame on them.

This is the type of argument they use saying if a girl was roaming big city 2 am; she should expect trouble !! I mean really, sure Mihika acted stupid - so that means if someone druggs her - no sympathy for her as she was playing with danger.

It sickens me when I read such comments 🤢hence stayed away from forum for few days.

Also saying if she attempts suicide, that's just drama for attention 😲 I mean really people?
Do people even know what suicide is? Being sexually assaulted increases suicide risk so high as they are experiencing psychic pain !!!
If so many women think like this then forget our society as whole 🤢




Why don't you blame the CVs who are writing this creepy nonsense? I never psycho analyzed any of these story lines or the characters coz its quite simply not worth it... As far as I am concerned, this creepy track is written by creeps for their pervert viewers to enjoy.

The whole track is absolute nonsense...no need to psycho analyze the characters or their actions.. However, if you want to psycho analyze, please psycho analyze the writers who are writing this nonsense... They deserve to be psycho analyzed.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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guys, the thing is we need to differentiate between Mihika, a fictional character and the CVs. n to be honest its not MIHIKA who is wrong-the CVs are, by showing her as stupid n very naive.

Mistakes by CV
MISTAKE no1. no girl would ever seduce a man, if she was in love with someone else n on bottom of all being from a good family. even ishu was molested by param-did she seduce him, to make him speak up.

MISTAKE no2. u want to show us a strong independent girl...n end up showing how weak and easily manipulated a woman can become.

MISTAKE no3. in times when india is already having soo many rape cases-you came up with such a crap???? do u want to encourage more rape cases???

honestly, the CVs portrayed Mihika like shogun, who slept with ashok, though she was having a man.

NOTE FOR CVs, PR or any YHM related people:
its a shame to try entertaining ur audience with such irresponsible, senseless and respect less scenes and stories. n to be honest, i feel insulted as a woman to c how a girl is used in such an ill way-JUST TO GET HIGHER TRPs??? i am sure many of the CVs including Sonali r women, so how can u write such a cheap story line? if u r clever enough and if u have a dignified way to write, then people will stick to the show, with or without a high voltage drama. it just shows how much talent u have!

sry to all my YHMian, I love Ishra, i love YHM, BUT i hate when women r shown without respect!

Edited by kuhu_d - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: .Sad.But.True.

Well said!When it comes to sex only a women's 'yes' means 'yes'. Not her flirting with man or wearing sexy clothes.



Umm...not reallly... if you know a guy is an ass, womanizer, and has been constantly trying to get in your pants..and then you wear thr sexiest dress for him, invite him to a ultra romantic room, talk to him and flirt with him in the sexiest of manners...yeh, that pretty much wud be assumed as inviting him to get in bed with you..

Granted, the case here is markedly different, ashok already knowing her plan and drugging her,which makes this whole thing a rape..

However, the critical point here is: girls need to get a brain. Yeh no girl deserves rape, and yes a guy should always ask for consent at every stage..However that doesn't mean girls should stop using their brains and use no caution, rather go looking for trouble. You don't just do what mihika did, and then be all shocked when the plan backfires. It's absolutely digging her own grave. What else can anyone expect from a jerk like ashok? I would be extra cautious to be ANYWHERE ALONE with such a guy, let alone be in thag situation which mihika put herself in - that's literally throwing a red flag to a bull.
Edited by Sid4TeamCanada - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Sid4TeamCanada



Umm...not reallly... if you know a guy is an ass, womanizer, and has been constantly trying to get in your pants..and then you wear thr sexiest dress for him, invite him to a ultra romantic room, talk to him and flirt with him in the sexiest of manners...yeh, that pretty much wud be assumed as inviting him to get in bed with you..

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Agree with Sid4TeamCanada. Mihika asked for it...she did all to encourage Ashok to have sex with her...in fact to argue from the other extreme point of view, what proof do we have that she was averse to the idea of having sex with Ashok.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: pg17


I agree that Mihika should never have kept those nasty advances Ashok made on her from Mihir. She was wrong to do that and doubly so to handle him alone.

But what I am trying to voice out here is that people especially women should never say Mihika deserved what she got. You have no sympathy for her. Well fine! But think about this...

In today's world, if one of your own, your own blood and flesh was raped I doubt you people would feel the same, or perhaps you would? Think. If for instance one of your daughter or sister were to go out wearing a short skirt for a movie with her girl friends or at a party and a guy spiked her drink and she got raped, what would you say? She brought it on herself right, she deserved it, she got it due to her dumbness. Why did she have to wear such clothes, why did she go out, why did she accept the drink. How dare she!!! How dare she breathe and live in a world where creeps exist and rule. A women deserves respect, a women deserves to live however way she wants and live fearlessly. Is it too much to ask?

I am a lawyer and Ive seen several rape victims especially teens, trust me you dont ever want to see anyone of your own go through that. When you look at them, its as if the light has gone.

I feel strongly that Param got away unpunished, that Ishita never confronted Raman on his assault or the guys molesting her at the bachelor party incident not being punished.

But perhaps it is just me who feels this way.

If people like Param go unpunished despite his rape attempt on Ishita, well ofcourse creeps like Ashok or his brother will think hey he got away with it, we can also do it and nothing will happen to us.



Hey! Nice meeting another one of my "clan"..:))

Now, to the issue...No, Mihika or any other woman, for that matter did not deserve this...But women expressing themselves freely by wearing short skirts, going dancing, drinking, etc. is totally different from taking on dangerous missions trying to expose creeps lke Ashok...

Heck, if my daughter or sister or anybody's girl child for that matter, happened to wear a short skirt or halter top or watever and go hang out with her friends in the club, and some guys make a pass at her and her friends, because they are wearing stilettos and sexy outfits, I'd thrash them black and blue! That's no reason to try and grope a woman and misbehave with her, coz she is having a good time on her own terms.

Had Mihika been doin tht, I'd have gladly pompomed her cause and stood up for her..i still do...on ethical grounds coz I will not accept what Ashok did with her ..drugging her and then well...

But somewhere..in the thick of it all..knowingly or unknowingly Mihika did contribute to this whole mess...She was nt expressing her individuality and pride in her femininity...no, she was actually trying to hatch a smart-ass plan tat will have the trio of creeps to fall down, beaten...to expose Ashok, knowing he is a supreme lech, a sick guy who will manipulate anything and everything moving to get what he wants...what's the wisdom in undertaking such a mission???

From today's episode, it has been proved that Ashok didnt actually rape her (I kind of thought so), but still, wht he did was wrong...now that technically, Mihika's modesty hasnt been outraged in the manner we all thought it had, the consequences still lie...the whole family is in shambles now...three families..Bhallas, Iyer and yes, even that vamp Shagun's "family" with Adi and Ashok...

the repercussions are unthinkable...how cud she not have a back up plan? Why not involve ur fiance, in the first place? Is Shagun now more imp than Mihir???


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Posted: 10 years ago
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[QUOTE=pg17] I am normally a silent member on this forum but today I have had enough. Farewell YHM!

Thank you karan and divyanka for bestowing us with beautiful moments, but my conscious does not allow me to watch this show any further more.

I HATED how the Cvs treated Param's track. Ishita was held responsible and was told she brought it on herself.

When her husband molested her, they backpeddled realising for the sake of TRPs they were ruining the show. How conveniently both have developped amnesia.

When Ishita got molested at the bachelor party, she said its good it happened at least everyone got to know what a creep Param was. Idiotic woman, were you gangraped that night you would not have felt the same.

Now this Mihika Ashok track. She was drugged and Ashok had non-consensual sex with her. ITS CALLED RAPE! AND NO ONE DESERVES THIS. TRUST ME ON THAT!

What sickens me most is not the show or the regressive storyline, its a fiction show at the end of the day, but the reaction we are getting on this forum, which comprises of mostly women. It makes us wonder in what kind of society our daughters, sisters and mothers are growing up.

How in the world can anyone say Mihika deserved what she got, say that she dug her own grave, good for her, teach her well, great now she can marry Ashok. SHE WAS RAPED!

I WILL NOT remain passive and silently tolerate or promote such sick mentality. I can sense what is forthcoming, Mihika forced to marry her RAPIST THERE IS NOTHING ROMANTIC ABOUT THIS AND ITS NOT OKAY!
[/QUOTE]i totally agree...i think they dont know about judiciary system 😡
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Its become a perv parade past few weeks..ishita has beem molested thrice now if we count the drunken raman incident ( i do), sarika-param, ashok harassing mihika multiple times and now this..are the women in this show only existing so tht they get molested? And not once has any legal action been taken..param is roaming around without a care in the world "on bail". I wonder what bail means in ekta land..ashok's ass cud have been sued off for sexual harassment at work place and the drug incident can get him dumped in jail too...but no..we will have the ladies either behaving like wimpy cry-babies or amateur detectives instead..i cnt believe i started watching the show after ishita had complained abt param to the family with no fear...look at how she hs become now..

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