Ishita doubted Trisha, so how is Raman not justified?

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: mayu1982

😆😆😆 Good point he should have ask her? But dear u r forgetting that MANISHA episode? WOh manisha ne sab gadbad kar diya tha... BTW that manisha idea was by MANI.. and ishita agreed and changes his name.. IS my intentions are right I will never ever change my friend name on my mobile no matter what my husband thinks about me? If ishita refused to do that only thing I would have supported her more.. That is reason am telling ishita and mani's way is absolutely wrong in solving ri-ri matter. Ishita is very suspicious AND INTERFERING nature as compared to Raman from day 1 in serial. THAt is reason for all the fight b/w raman and ishita before marriage. She has doubt whether raman is not caring towards ruhi , which was a fact..

I guess no one in my view trying to say to raman is right in assault episode only thing if ppl are also considering is the reason for who turning this HUMAN being into MONSter...

Honestly dear type of reality check raman faced can lead to murder in real life. AND in that way according to law he was punished for murder..

Manisha thing was a bad thing. But, you can't say that her intention was wrong. And, Ishita's interfering and suspicion...yeah, she is always like this.
About Raman's right in assault episode, I saw a poll and almost equal voted went for whether he was justified or not! That shows mentality of people. Ishita is the reason for him to turn into a monster...no, not only she, but also his thought process. His past..why does he always get his past into present? He says he is over Shagun, now why is he contradicting himself? Fault to hain...but dono ka hi and equally...

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mayu1982

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Manisha thing was a bad thing. But, you can't say that her intention was wrong. And, Ishita's interfering and suspicion...yeah, she is always like this.
About Raman's right in assault episode, I saw a poll and almost equal voted went for whether he was justified or not! That shows mentality of people. Ishita is the reason for him to turn into a monster...no, not only she, but also his thought process. His past..why does he always get his past into present? He says he is over Shagun, now why is he contradicting himself? Fault to hain...but dono ka hi and equally...

Manisha thing was wrong but not her intentions- Agree so what was need to change the name i don't understand her. COnfused.

Raman's assault poll - don't know why ppl voted yes option. But my point for that poll was not call raman rapist call him abuser which itself is offence and punishable thing. For me rapist is person who has done rape with other person and culprit is called rapist. SO am against for the term only and not and will never suppot raman because agar koi mere saath aisa karega then galat hai same thing apply for other woman..ONly thing which I don't agree with you is for me Ishita is reason for him to turn into monster. Her hiding things have only increase the misunderstanding. ..

ANyway every character is contradicting to themselves so fault hai dono ki hao.. that is what I saying tooo.. Simple...

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brainychild92

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: Aisha15

She cannot tell her husband's family about his behavior but she can tell her friend? Wouldn't his family be able to reprimand him more for his behavior towards her more than her friend? I don't get the logic. And where is her self respect in this position? Her husband's image in front of his family is more important?

And please, I have NEVER once said that because Raman is her husband he can force himself on her. No woman should ever be treated like that, ever, by anyone. I don't understand why if you dont support Ishita, you are automatically considered to support domestic violence. My argument was if she can question other people's behaviors, why can't her actions be questioned?

i already clarified this before. mani already knew raman was upset with ishita so why would he ask? Yes, his image in front of his family is important. they look up to him. now telling them what he did makes them question his responsibility. His father has already been upset with him so much as well as with Romi. Also they're so upset. Another thing is that (from what i've been told) you never go into your in-laws' bedroom-- some culture thing that I, coming from the states, will never understand... w/e. Self-respect more than feminism in the sense that he asked her after he tried to force her... he shattered his respect in her and shook her self-respect too. I wouldn't be answering any questions if God forbid I was in her position either.

ishita can be wrong. her biggest mistake was changing mani's name. another mistake was taking mani to find raman as everyone was wide awake and romi was even willing to look. here's what I don't get.. I don't see how her hug or statement of "i love you mani" was wrong. Raman didn't hear the whole thing where she clarifies herself as a joke so no i don't take that wrong.

I like your argument. Here is my only answer... who's stopping her from being questioned? But that right is Raman's. Why didn't he?! Why'd he wait till now? More importantly, how is he so sober after a few hours of drinking so heavily!!! I mean shouldn't he have a hang over?! He was completely out of it!

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Aisha15

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Posted: 10 years ago

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i already clarified this before. mani already knew raman was upset with ishita so why would he ask? Yes, his image in front of his family is important.<font color="#0000ff"> they look up to him. now telling them what he did makes them question his responsibility. His father has already been upset with him so much as well as with Romi. Also they're so upset.</font> Another thing is that (from what i've been told) you never go into your in-laws' bedroom-- some culture thing that I, coming from the states, will never understand... w/e. <font color="#ff0000">Self-respect more than feminism in the sense that he asked her after he tried to force her... he shattered his respect in her and shook her self-respect too. I wouldn't be answering any questions if God forbid I was in her position either.</font>

ishita can be wrong. her biggest mistake was changing mani's name. another mistake was taking mani to find raman as everyone was wide awake and romi was even willing to look. here's what I don't get.. I don't see how her hug or statement of "i love you mani" was wrong. Raman didn't hear the whole thing where she clarifies herself as a joke so no i don't take that wrong.

I like your argument. Here is my only answer... who's stopping her from being questioned? But that right is Raman's. Why didn't he?! Why'd he wait till now? More importantly, how is he so sober after a few hours of drinking so heavily!!! I mean shouldn't he have a hang over?! He was completely out of it!

Yo, I'm from the states too and this whole crap fest makes no sense to me whatsoever. If I was in Ishita's place I would have told Raman straight up that I did this shit for you. My bad you misunderstood and I'm sorry my stupid little antics clouded your vision and you were hurting. Although the alcohol might have played a role there too. But if you ever dare to misbehave with me again, I will leave your ass with my daughter in toe. Baat khatam. BYE!

I just don't understand why Ishita refused to tell the truth. Telling the truth in my opinion is not equivalent to justifying yourself or undergoing the agni pariksha.

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Drishti Maurya

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: bscorp13

Yup..but that's exactly the feeling I had when I saw that scene. ..Ishita too is far to self absorbed to give anything to her marriage and relationship. ..she thinks she is a do gooder and perfect and is happy as long as raman also keeps staying in awe of that...how nice she is. .how much she has done for him and his family...
even though she told mani she didn't want credit...but that's exactly what hurt her. .raman not giving credit for her ehsaan..her sindoor scene fb..was also not about a giving love...but a one where he thanks her for her ehsaan ...it is a getting love too...she is selfless for the world...but self absorbed when it comes to her husband...
shagun wanted power , money...and people to praise her beauty...Ishita obsesses over righteousness...and wants people to adore her for her care giving acts...dunno where raman features in all this.
what a butchering of a ishita iyer/ishita bhalla that I once adored...

Oh that one word had changed the entire scene!!! She is thinking him saying the word "Ehsaan"???? Means when she helped him out with this Asia Business Head thing she herself thot that she was doing a Ehsaan, not to help out her hubby thinking about his happiness or even as her duty! If that was the case then that help wasnt needed at all. Raman cud've helped him himself better. All he needed was her by his side, he wud've braved the world with it. But nah, she gave him everything other than her sath!!

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