Originally posted by: brainychild92
What kind of abuse? Emotional Abuse? I don't remember any intimidation or manipulation... it was annoying no doubt, and i would not want to be in his position but it cannot be called abuse... Also, she CONFRONTED HIM why couldn't he confront her.. no he had to wait to get drunk ! he got mad at her because she went to get his brother with mani "instead of getting her husband".. how else was she supposed to go? Mihir? O wait, didn't he just recently leave after arranging everything at home? Even Bala is at home with kids. Even then, she would've had to explain to them why she couldn't take Raman and i'm pretty sure she wanted to hide that..'t all she had left was Mani, as he already knew Raman was upset so he wouldn't have questioned her... Yes, so everyone should be thankful to Mani as she was not in the shape to drive after what Raman pulled off and everything that happened at home. He was the only one who could take her safely..Yeah I know, I went a little off topic; I'm just upset that everyone is mad at Ishita for having a guy-friend.. Remind me why a girl and guy can't be friends... or maybe i'm too modern for this...
Forget Raman in that case. She definitely inflicted mental pain on Mihir in that case by interrogating him over and over until he broke down and admitted Shagun is his sister. If I'm not mistaken she didn't even apologize to him for that. Before "confronting him," she threw a fit and instantly doubted on the basis of a stranger that Raman did have a relationship with this girl and didn't tell her. Secondly, I believe Mihir said he will stay with the Iyers, but let's say he didn't. Her husband obviously wasn't in a state to help but her father-in-law, Romi's father wouldn't have helped her? He didn't have the right to know?
Nobody is angry at Ishita for having a male friend. I do too and I'm sure the majority of us do too. My problem is with her not owning up to her mistakes and hiding behind the pretext of feminism and modernity. Feminism and modernity stress equality. She in several cases has accused others of being immoral when they were not. They still had to prove their case, so why can't she.
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