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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Eyes-Wide-Shut

G, Loved the quote! What an apt fit for the episode and your collage!

What a heart breaking but a necessary episode. We saw an aspect of marriage that is ugly, messy and very unflattering but is part of reality. There was a glimpse of possessiveness, ownership, rights and relationship boundaries in Ishra's relationship.

Raman started spewing words of possessiveness and ownership as soon as he saw his Ishita with someone else. All of a sudden Ishita become meri biwi, and he became a husband up all night looking for HIS wife, funny how he didn't even realize when Ruhi's Ishima became HIS wife. The wife he thinks he owns because now she has became an object, that is threatened to be whisked away by a stranger. Ishita now has became a thing' he wants to own, an exclusive thing he wants to himself, and a thing he wants to love. Puttar needs to realize love isn't a commodity he can own, he needs to feel it and express it.

Ishita, obviously is in love with her husband but is so hurt that her ego takes precedence over the calm and composed wife. With disgust in her eyes, she refuses to even look at his eyes, she sees him speak words but nothing registers because she is so preoccupied by the hurt.

Last night, a lot of talking was done at each other instead of talking to each other; as soon as these unfortunate lovers start talking TO each other the misunderstandings will vanish.

"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." - George Bernard Shaw

Let's hope they talk to each other today!


Nice one doc. esp the quote from GBS..👍🏼 Perfect.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: EkPaheli




He once said to Ishita - pehle pyaar ke maayne sabke liye alag hote hai - to me it always said - his first love, his true love in fact the only love of his life is Ishita - she is the love of his life and no one can take that mantle from her.

Raman Bhalla truly fell in love when he met her - a man fell in love with a woman, this was not a boy' fantasy but a man' reality.

Now that he knows what is at stake he cant afford to lose her. He cant lose what brought him back to lfe with her and will move heaven and earth to not lose his love - if this isnt Junoon I dont know waht is.


Totally agree Aani. She is his first and only love. That's why he just cant let her go. How will he breathe otherwise?

Superbly written!👏
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Nice one Hima. If only they talked about themselves!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: swathibalan

G- Lovely title - makes a lot of sense and needless to say an awesome edit.👏

Love is not possessive. It does not claim ownership of another's heart.
Love is a liberator; so that another's heart is set free to love back -Stephen McDonough


Two people in love. Unable to express, misunderstood.

She thought he is unable to get over his first love.
She is right. What she didn't understand is that she is his first and only love.

He thought she found love.
He was right. But he did not understand that it was he whom she loved.

He wanted to be her Man, her husband, her only one.He was unable to see her holding hands with someone else.
Unable to see her smile because of someone else. Unable to accept someone else as her go-to man.

He just couldn't let her go like he did in the past. He was besotted then.But is in love now.
He had learnt to live, learnt to smile, learnt to be at peace because of her.
He had learnt to love.
How could he just let his love walk away.
But in his angst, he forgot that Love was all about giving. Not owning.
Both stood there telling what the other did, but not understanding why they did it.
They remained misunderstood. All they have to do is open up.
The day they talk about themselves to the other, their love will be complete.



Wonderful Swaths!👏

"
She thought he is unable to get over his first love.
She is right. What she didn't understand is that she is his first and only love.

He thought she found love.
He was right. But he did not understand that it was he whom she loved."

Yes ...they need to first realize that the feelings they have for each other is much deeper than what they had for their previous relationships. Once they get that, express that to each other, past will not be a problem for them and these kinds of MU will not occur.

lovely dear!

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