Rajma idli daily rantings - Page 21

Originally posted by: mnr123

Shanee Asking this to people who don't like him 😳

Originally posted by: always_a_TV_fan

Thank you Sia, Megha n Oishi 😳

Originally posted by: kt25

@Lucky - I really liked your analysis. For Raman, to come out of his scarred past and act differently in this marriage he needs to communicate. When he had so many doubts in his mind about Shagun he never voiced any of those doubts or suspicions to her. He decided to bury it deep and pretend that nothing of that sort is every going to happen. Even in this marriage, he was this close to waking her up and questioning her which I think he should have done. If he thought that it was not the right time to talk to her he could have asked her in the morning as to what is going on with her and Mani and why is she lying and hiding things from him. For that to happen, they both have to communicate and CVs don't want that simply because lack of communication accounts for a bigger drama. His image and self esteem was so low when he was with Shagun to put himself in a corner but now he is a well respected established CEO and why wouldn't they make him act differently? For once, I wanted him not to grovel in pain/grief and self pity and take charge of the situation and ask Ishita directly if she is in this marriage just for Ruhi only or for both him and Ruhi.

Originally posted by: kt25

@Lucky - I really liked your analysis. For Raman, to come out of his scarred past and act differently in this marriage he needs to communicate. When he had so many doubts in his mind about Shagun he never voiced any of those doubts or suspicions to her. He decided to bury it deep and pretend that nothing of that sort is every going to happen. Even in this marriage, he was this close to waking her up and questioning her which I think he should have done. If he thought that it was not the right time to talk to her he could have asked her in the morning as to what is going on with her and Mani and why is she lying and hiding things from him. For that to happen, they both have to communicate and CVs don't want that simply because lack of communication accounts for a bigger drama. His image and self esteem was so low when he was with Shagun to put himself in a corner but now he is a well respected established CEO and why wouldn't they make him act differently? For once, I wanted him not to grovel in pain/grief and self pity and take charge of the situation and ask Ishita directly if she is in this marriage just for Ruhi only or for both him and Ruhi.

Originally posted by: ThruMyEyez-Nita

There is only so many times a man's heart can be broken and to have him RE-LIVE the pain that he went through withShagunwithIshita'sstupidity is just unbearable to watch. Karan did a fabulous job today of portraying the insecure, hurt Raman KumarBhalla, who does not want to doubt his wife but can't help himself from going down that path becauseall the signs point to the fact that she is.

As a viewer who has been following this show from the start, I doubt that I will ever be relate toIshitaanymore. On one hand, she talks about trust and literally guilt-tripped the guy, but on the other, she hides things from him at her convenience and her justification will always be her moral righteousness of doing the right thing and it doesn't matter how she does it and who she hurts in the process. Raman has every right to know that Ashok is behind theSarikasexual-harassment case, because beyond his career, it is his brother's life that is entangled in it as well. And involving Mani into such a serious personal matter is not something I can agree with, no matter how good the intentions are. Beyond that, she realizes that Raman does not like Mani calling/texting her, and yet she rubs it in his face the first chance she gets knowingly/unknowingly. She fails to understand Raman at every level at this point and gets angry at him and claims that HE doesn't understand or appreciate HER. And what bothers me the most-her lack of realization because I am pretty sure at the end of this, it will turn out to be another "you hurt me by doubting me, how could you even think that I could cheat on you,etc,etc" crap coming fromIshitaand Raman will again be made to feel guilty and apologize for something he really isn't at fault for.

I am going to stop here because I go on and on about how I'm hating how this is turning out. Foronce,Ireally want someone to showIshitathe mirror and point out that everything that has gone wrong with her relationship with Raman at this point, is her own doing.

Originally posted by: ...EhSaas...

Megha

My reply to ur past track post

The way ishita is behaving it doenst look like as her past. She is close to bala more than mani but still she knew her limit.

May be ishiya sar ke bal girl thi past me Jiska impact mani ki entry se yaad aaya ho usko

Originally posted by: bscorp13

LD. ...good post...agree some..and kinda not agree to some parts.

I think Raman's reaction is natural..and not a sign of weakness. ..his character has grown and coped too..and thats why the implicit trust despite a Lotta red signals till date. Today he was given proof and he still chose to stick to his belief that his ishita could not be wrong.

but then the breakdown is expected...for shagun was a shock allright. ..but ishita is someone he has grown to love. ..after setting aside all his fears..because of his faith in her.

yes his character was also butchered with a lot of mockery..but now his breakdown wouldn't be his weakness of having been hurt once..BUT a loSS of faith.

But the crux is yes. ..a re look at the relationship was needed...but then was the third wheel and that too a track in this manner was needed for that awakening? Like you said...highly debatable

Originally posted by: mnr123

The problem is even if they ask each other some valid questions - either of them is not in the mood to answer it the way they really feel about it.

Like when ishita asked him - wud u give 2nd chance in Love - he says nope love makes u weak n I don't want to be weak 😆 Completely misunderstanding her question coz she said Mani asked, she shut have said i want to know.

Raman askes her Humara Rishta kya hai after Pammi aunty was coaxing her for Mani's rishta n she was going all NO No i will not let this happen etc. She didn't listen to what Raman was asking. 😆

Yeh log aise hi haste gaate mISUNDERSTANDINGS KARTE rahenge 😳