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Posted: 10 years ago
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"This man has to go through again the same pain and bitterness of his ugliest past to realize all these." THE REASON FOR MY DISLIKE TO MANI TRACK. I don't hate any other male characters like this...! neither param nor ashok! Hate mani only!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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This is well put if somebody has had a near to death experience n has a fear of death, so u need to replay the same near to death experience again so that this person gets out of his fear or heals his past 😆
In that case should Ishita be again n again Taunted n rejected for being unable to bear a child so that her Past wounds r Healed?

Cvs - only Raman needs a realization (I am not saying he doesn't, he does) Ishita is perfect the way she is ? Has she completely worked as a wife in this relationship? Doesn't she too need a realization?

How can ishita be sure that this jealousy of Raman's might not take a serious bad turn n he might start doubting n questioning her character? Y take such chances in a marriage that is already not so perfect? 😕
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: DhwaniNair

"This man has to go through again the same pain and bitterness of his ugliest past to realize all these." THE REASON FOR MY DISLIKE TO MANI TRACK. I don't hate any other male characters like this...! neither param nor ashok! Hate mani only!


Param, Ashok, Shagun are negatives but their impact on IshRa is always positive, specially Param is plain negative but he's the best cupid for IshRa. Mani may be a positive character but his impact on IshRa is only negative so far. At the end of the day it's the impact that matters most. I'm missing Param for that matter...😉😆
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Posted: 10 years ago
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You said it all, Ankita, Nothing is there to say more.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Pooja_Chavan

Wonderful post. Be it Ishita or be it Raman, this kind of tack is simply ridiculous to heal their past wounds or whatever. In reality if this happens it will end up with a divorce. Since it is reel, so any thing can be justified.


@Bold; Exactly. I have a relative whose husband was divorced before and he misunderstood her closeness with her colleague. It almost cost her marriage, she very nearly avoided divorce. Since then she learned her husband was her priority, not any XYZ.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I guess CVs have gone overboard to heal Raman's past wounds, I don't think he has any at the moment. If his wife, lshita, lies in future like that he will feel the same way he' feeling now. So shall we say then his healing was incomplete? It's the natural reaction of each married man irrespective of his past history of getting cheated from his partner. When a spouse lies or hides truth, the other partner always behaves like that.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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I was going to make a post on this but you have summed it really well 👏
I agree...this track is almost painting Raman as the villain..and I am sure it will end with Ishita hurt and questioning him on trust and all that and we will be throwing rotten tomatoes at Raman for hurting Ishita and being insensitive. But if you really see things from Raman's point of view it kind of makes sense. When one lies, everything changes. In the accident track too everything was fine till Ishita saw Shagun's message on Raman's phone and realized that he lied to her about Shagun's phone call. Otherwise so many times Ishita has seen Raman with Shagun and she trusts him. But the moment he started lying and hiding, things started looking devious. And I dont blame her, anyone would think that way. When Raman lied we threw rotten tomatoes at him and now when Ishita is lying we will again throw rotten tomatoes at him only 😆. By the way can someone please enlighten why is it so necessary that Raman does not know that Ashok has instigated Sarika to file a sexual harrassment case against Romi? Its surely not the first time Ashok has resorted to such tricks and Raman does not give up his position every time Ashok resorts to such tricks. I never understood Raman's majboori in the accident track and I dont understand Ishita's lying and hiding from Raman now. Wouldnt he be better prepared to deal with what comes his way if he knows? Or are Mani and Ishita planning to give up their work and trail him and his problems 24/7? Raman is a successful and shrewd businessman and Ishita an independent and successful dentist. Can the CVs not let it remain that way? Why do they need rescuing?

This track may give a closure to Raman's insecurities ( I am still not sure how..😕) but Ishita's insecurities are not dealt with. Its not as if Ishita is secure in the relationship and is just waiting for confession. I thought both are finding it difficult to confess. Now suddenly all spotlight is on Raman and how and when will he confess. So if next time Adi is in trouble or Shagun is in trouble and Raman has to help them then what? Ishita is never truly comfortable with Shagun around if things dont go her way. For me the confession is not complete if her insecurities are not dealt with too.

Oh and to answer your question..no I dont want Ishita to go through the kind of pain of her not being able to conceive or for that matter Shagun or some other girl being thrown at her face to relieve her of her fears. Their fears and insecurities are not their faults that they need to be punished for.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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well yes you are rte with raman,,,,,but ruhi???? she is a small kid...she could change only after her dad changes,,,,,, after all ruh is carbon copy of him
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Ishita has NO insecurities, she picks, pokes and scrapes on Raman's
Thats her day job...sorry... but thats the truth... after watching Mani and her rescue the alcoholic pati. Poor abala naari Ishita I guess... what a monster Raman must be...
This week we will get another "Ishita character certificate" from the great Mani himself "Tumne apni DEVI jaise patni par shaq kiya? Tum uske laayak hi nahi ho Raman"

Hope Mani follows through on his taunt and takes Ishita with him...
I am sorry but have NO sympathy or pity for Ishita today...


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