Is it healing past wounds or reliving it?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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The Mani track as expected has taken a serious turn. Some of us are enjoying it and some us aren't. Some people have related this track as a healing for Raman from his past. Raman needs to know Ishita is NOT Shagun ( Raman knows it best than anyone imo) and he needs to guard down his insecurities & accepts his feelingstowards Ishita. But is not this track HIGHLY insensitive for Raman? This man has to go through again the same pain and bitterness of his ugliest past to realize all these. It could've been done using other alternative track without inflicting unbearable pain to Raman. As I read a post earlier, It sums it up perfectly--- One doesn't need to face the wrath of death all over again in the quest of getting rid of fear of death. (credit goes to ReahSh).

Now let's think about Ishita. What are her wounds from past and present? Her biggest nightmares/insecurities are her inability to conceive and her believe that Raman still loves Shagun. What should CVs do to heal her wound? Let's think, CVs bring a track where Ishita by mistake thinks Raman expects a baby from her and at the same time a close female friend of Raman pops up. She unintentionally gives hint to Ishita that she can provide the happiness to Raman which she can't, a child. Ishita gets devastated and later pour out all her nightmare to Raman. Raman then tells her that only her love matters most. Isn't it too much for asking to heal the past wound? Let's consider another track, where Raman unknowingly gets touchy touchy with Shagun and that causes heartbreak for Ishita. At the end, Raman clarifies her doubt saying he only loves Ishita. Wouldn't these two tracks be juvenile, insensitive and at the same time very punishing for Ishita just to diminish her insecurities and heal the past wounds? Of course it will be, just like that the way Mani track is shaping it will be highly insensitive and punishing for Raman.

P.S. This is very funny and at the same time very thought provoking. I couldn't help but share it (credit goes to Asclepius)...Even Ruhi should get a realization track to get over her past! She should also know ishima is NOT Shagun...she keeps saying na ishima aap mujhe chod ke toh nahi jaaoge!
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ankitasen thumbnail
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Completely Agree. That's why I'm not liking this track. So much crap in the name of healing past wounds. I liked the last part, even Ruhi needs a realization track to heal her past wound and to know that Ishita is NOT Shagun.🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago
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when a wound is treated by the doc they apply medicine to the wound
and after that the pain increases bcoz the medicine starts healing the wound...so do u think doc shouldnt apply the medicine bcoz it pains while getting cured no right...the same way this track is healing process for raman past wounds and bfore it gets totally cured it pain more but it doesnt means that raman shouldnt face his life and escape from them...raman may show that he is string but he is very insecured about his relationship so to overcome his insecurities he need to go ghrough the same pain once he went through in his past so that he wil come to know that if once u were beyrayed it doesnt mean u ll b betrayed everytime...and yeah ramn knows that ishu is not shagun bit whay he dont know is ishu will never thimk to betray him...she ll never leave him not even for love bcoz she loves him and thats enough for her thats wat she mentioned in her monoloue tonight...and thats the reason cvs brought this track...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra

when a wound is treated by the doc they apply medicine to the wound
and after that the pain increases bcoz the medicine starts healing the wound...so do u think doc shouldnt apply the medicine bcoz it pains while getting cured no right...the same way this track is healing process for raman past wounds and bfore it gets totally cured it pain more but it doesnt means that raman shouldnt face his life and escape from them...raman may show that he is string but he is very insecured about his relationship so to overcome his insecurities he need to go ghrough the same pain once he went through in his past so that he wil come to know that if once u were beyrayed it doesnt mean u ll b betrayed everytime...and yeah ramn knows that ishu is not shagun bit whay he dont know is ishu will never thimk to betray him...she ll never leave him not even for love bcoz she loves him and thats enough for her thats wat she mentioned in her monoloue tonight...and thats the reason cvs brought this track...


Then what about Ishita's wounds and insecurites? Do you agree with the topic maker to show such kinda tracks for Ishita?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: ankitasen


Then what about Ishita's wounds and insecurites? Do you agree with the topic maker to show such kinda tracks for Ishita?



ishita first insecurity is her not able to concieve which was healed long back on the night whenishita delivered pooja baby but she was stopped for doing ritual as she is banj that night ruhi said that ishita is not banj as she is her daighter so dont call her banj...that night het wound was healed by ruhi..bcoz earleir when she was called banj she never rtorted back but afyer that night she gave back to all them who called her banj saying euhi is my daughter ...

her second insecurity is that she will b rajected and not been loved bcoz of her firat insecurity...as the first one is healed this track and accident track is the same healing jer seconnd insecurity...in accident track she saw love im raman eyes but she thoight it was for shagun but at tha end she was wrong bit she dint question herself that was that love for me bcoz she was noy healed properly...again in eveng she was talking to her sis and was aboit to tell that she loves raman...shayd mein unse py...shayad it means she is not sure abt that..thats y she keeps on yelling that raman loves shagun..but this mu will clear the insecurities which both r carrying bcoz of their past...raman i mentioned in the prev comment and ishita will come to know that raman was shattered by thinking that she loves mani will leave him and go to mani bciz she dont love him and this will bring a light that not only she but even raman is in love with her...

and last they will get to know that both of them are in love with each other and bu this they will overcome their insecurity...and start a new life by taking their relationship to next level...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Wonderful post. Be it Ishita or be it Raman, this kind of tack is simply ridiculous to heal their past wounds or whatever. In reality if this happens it will end up with a divorce. Since it is reel, so any thing can be justified.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: Lata_ishra



ishita first insecurity is her not able to concieve which was healed long back on the night whenishita delivered pooja baby but she was stopped for doing ritual as she is banj that night ruhi said that ishita is not banj as she is her daighter so dont call her banj...that night het wound was healed by ruhi..bcoz earleir when she was called banj she never rtorted back but afyer that night she gave back to all them who called her banj saying euhi is my daughter ...
Well, this part is not healed for sure. Even after IshRa confession, this will haunt Ishita as she'll be sad thinking she won't be able to bear Raman's child in her womb...Ishita was clearly hurt and wounded when Raman & Shagun talked about Adi and Raman saying he won't be able to be a father again. Ishita's wound was pretty evident there. Recently, Ishita told Raman just after Ruhi-Shagun pregnancy complication track that she would never be able to give him the happiness that Shagun provided, his children. Her wound was pretty evident in her eyes. That's why when Raman told her they would make new memories together, she was reluctant thinking she couldn't bear his child. Raman then smartly turn the matter to make her comfortable, he said " humare memories thode alaag honge, jaise tumhare pasta"... Ishita's wounds of inability to conceive is still present, it will amplify only once IshRa confess and ONLY Raman can heal that wound.

her second insecurity is that she will b rajected and not been loved bcoz of her firat insecurity...as the first one is healed this track and accident track is the same healing jer seconnd insecurity...in accident track she saw love im raman eyes but she thoight it was for shagun but at tha end she was wrong bit she dint question herself that was that love for me bcoz she was noy healed properly...again in eveng she was talking to her sis and was aboit to tell that she loves raman...shayd mein unse py...shayad it means she is not sure abt that..thats y she keeps on yelling that raman loves shagun..but this mu will clear the insecurities which both r carrying bcoz of their past...raman i mentioned in the prev comment and ishita will come to know that raman was shattered by thinking that she loves mani will leave him and go to mani bciz she dont love him and this will bring a light that not only she but even raman is in love with her...
She keeps on switching her views on Raman. One day she says "aaj ap mere Raman ho gaye ho, shagun ki nahi" , next day she thinks Raman might have feelings for her. And suddenly the very next day, without happening anything she opines Raman still loves Shagun. It's like a yo-yo,her insecurities is still there and it keeps popping up from time to time.

and last they will get to know that both of them are in love with each other and bu this they will overcome their insecurity...and start a new life by taking their relationship to next level...
But Ishita's wounds are healed or not isn't my point. For the sake of argument (if you're still not convinced), let's think Ishita's wounds are still there. Will you support such kind of tracks as the topic maker mention just to heal her wounds?

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Yeah ,Ruhi needs a realization track to heal her wounds. 😆 Poor Ruhi is always in fear if her Ishima leaves her like Shagun mamma. So why not?
On a serious note, this sort of incident always backfires. A man cheated on past is now facing the same situation can be mighty vulnerable. It may affect him so badly that he may lose faith on relationship. Just like Raman lost his faith on relationship after Shagun left him. A man who is facing the same music again would never believe in relationship again. Even Ishita's persuasion won't work if this track is dragged for too long.

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Posted: 10 years ago
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Loved ur post!!
Exactly raman need not go through the same pain to realise his own feelings n ishita value in his life!

As u said if same logic is used to make ishita realise that raman is not subbu then?!
So ppl will realise it sooner or later.. There is no need of third person in this n create same kinda situations!
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Completely agree with you. While watching today's episode the only thing i could think of was that the whole situation is so harsh on Raman, so much so that they have made Ishita look very insensitive. I hope this track will end soon.

It is not doing any justice to both Raman and Ishita.

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