At the end of the day Raman is ALL ALONE - Page 19

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni


Ishita got criticized for even trivial things.
I'm sorry, Trivial things?! Bringing a rapist ( who wanted to rape her as well) into your home is a trivial thing? Terming your hubby a home wrecker ( she concluded Raman wrecked Arora khandan due to Sanjana) is trivial thing? Accusing her hubby had a secret affair infront of everyone is a trivial thing? Willing making her hubby jealous and that too knowing his ugly past but didn't want face the consequence of making him jealous is a trivial thing?

BTW, did I say that those 60% fans are only Raman fan? This post is an example of biasedness. But, Ishita biased fans too are here. And, I said in another post one page back that who was biased before, who was not, doesn't count here in this specific post. This post is showing the amount of biased fans...some unbiased fans also are thinking this post from one view. So, for now, can't I say that there are many biased fans at this moment? See, it's about POV. You interpreted my line that, I wrote with another conditional meaning.


BTW, you said, Ishita dint get 1/10th of what got, but think with cool mind. Ishita dint even do at least 3/10th of wrong deeds Raman did. Raman also dint get what he should have got from all members. Cos, some actions of him was unjustifiable from all views.
In last few months Raman's got no red mark on his report card while Ishita got lots of it, Hence members are reacting in this way...

And, one more thing. Some liked the post based on good writing, not based on assumption. I am sorry, if I hurt them and if they got wrong meaning from my previous post.

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: PoojaSushIta

🤣 abhi tak on hai yeh topic...😆


🤣 Raman ka fan ne wah wah kiya aur aab Ishita ki fan ne TM ko puri dho dala...lekin koi counter argument nahi de raha topic ke against🤣
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ankitasen


🤣 Raman ka fan ne wah wah kiya aur aab Ishita ki fan ne TM ko puri dho dala...lekin koi counter argument nahi de raha topic ke against🤣



Dear, counter argument has been given. But, most Raman supporters here (for this post), dint agree a bit to those valid points. So, it's useless to shout to them.
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Posted: 10 years ago
Saying that Raman is and will always be alone is an insult to ishra's love for each other.. agreeing to this statement means there is only Ra no Ish in IshRa. Amusing to see so many IshRa fans liking this statement

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: ankitasen


🤣 Raman ka fan ne wah wah kiya aur aab Ishita ki fan ne TM ko puri dho dala...lekin koi counter argument nahi de raha topic ke against🤣

Sorry to butt in...but the fact is, if anyone doesn't understand the nuances of marriage and relationships esp.in case of marriage like Ishra has..then no counter argument would be enough .
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Posted: 10 years ago
The thing is both care for each other now that from that stage they need to move forward

Coming to raman he wants to take a step forward he has given many hints

He learned hw to tie sari this shows that he considers her as his wife or else He could hv told mihikha to help ishita

Then wen bed broke he could hv slept anywhere on floor but he came slept near ishita

Then he told her yaadon ka kya hai phir ban jaayengi tumhari meri

Then he planned picnic he wanted to take only ishita not even ruhi!

Putting up a nameplate!

Then kkhh moment!
N many more

There not a single thing planned by ishita just for raman..toh kisi ko pata kaise chale..

But from ishita side she just cares for him like she cares for everyone..she never showed that raman holds a special place in her life n she wants to move forward with him..

She got one bracelet usme bhi raman got upset seeing mani..u need not be genius to understand why raman got upset

Wen raman got her necklace n subramaniyam just delivered it she got upset saying raman didn't select it.. without knowing exact matter... toh raman ka mani pe gussa hona banta hai..

Then wen he got dress for her ishita's first question to ruhi was apki kisine help ki select karne mei.. Toh raman getting angry seeing mani n ishita is justified


I feel raman takes relationship more seriously than ishita! Woh ruhi aur samaj seva se hi khush hai!
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Asclepius

The thing is both care for each other now that from that stage they need to move forward

Coming to raman he wants to take a step forward he has given many hints

He learned hw to tie sari this shows that he considers her as his wife or else He could hv told mihikha to help ishita

Then wen bed broke he could hv slept anywhere on floor but he came slept near ishita

Then he told her yaadon ka kya hai phir ban jaayengi tumhari meri

Then he planned picnic he wanted to take only ishita not even ruhi!

Putting up a nameplate!

Then kkhh moment!
N many more

There not a single thing planned by ishita just for raman..toh kisi ko pata kaise chale..

But from ishita side she just cares for him like she cares for everyone..she never showed that raman holds a special place in her life n she wants to move forward with him..

She got one bracelet usme bhi raman got upset seeing mani..u need not be genius to understand why raman got upset

Wen raman got her necklace n subramaniyam just delivered it she got upset saying raman didn't select it.. without knowing exact matter... toh raman ka mani pe gussa hona banta hai..

Then wen he got dress for her ishita's first question to ruhi was apki kisine help ki select karne mei.. Toh raman getting angry seeing mani n ishita is justified


I feel raman takes relationship more seriously than ishita! Woh ruhi aur samaj seva se hi khush hai!


Exactly that I wrote on my main post. Raman is or never was Ishita's priority. Neither their marriage is Ishita's priority. She didn't even give a single hint to Raman that she wants to move on with him. Incase of Raman the case is opposite. I never said Raman is Perfect or Ishita is flawed. In fact both of them are flawed. My main concern was how they do things for each other ONLY, not as a byproduct and how they work on their marriage. Some members called it biased and unnecessarily made it a Raman flaws Vs Ishita flaws...!!!
Edited by DiyaRathore - 10 years ago
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: DiyaRathore


Exactly that I wrote on my main post. Raman is or never was Ishita's priority. Neither their marriage is Ishita's priority. She didn't even give a single hint to Raman that she wants to move on with him. Incase of Raman the case is opposite. I never said Raman is Perfect or Ishita is flawed. In fact both of them are flawed. My main concern was how they do things for each other ONLY, not as a byproduct and how they work on their marriage. Some members called it biased and unnecessarily made it a Raman flaws Vs Ishita flaws...!!!



sooo true!!

Raman has done MANY things for Ishita only. A couple of times he has even planned to take her out alone, but Ishita being the dumbass she is, gets Ruhi and all d family members along with her.
And if people say Ishita stands up for Raman blah blah...she does it for EVERYBODY dude. She did it for amma, for Adi, for Ruhi, for Simmi, for Simmi & Parmeet Co. (happiness and simmi ki khushi and all), for Mihika, for Pammi's daughter who she didnt even know, for SHAGUN, now for Sarika, so yeah...Raman naturally comes under the ambit of her social service by default.

Can someone tell me what she did ESPECIALLY and ONLY for Raman??
She is so caught up in her bhalai and Ruhi, she doesnt realize there is a marriage to work on as well. And that Raman has dropped so many hints of moving on with her. But nahin, she will discuss Shagun's tanhai and dukh all the way now...and spoil her own chances of happiness.

Which man wouldnt get angry if his wife is only interesting in doing good for everybody (including his ex), but not interested enough to appreciate or understand his gestures? They live in a JOINT family, where interaction and time spent with each other anyway reduces by half. Baki aadha waqt bhi woh aise hi barbaad kar deti hai.
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Posted: 10 years ago
@diyarathod
Agree with u..
Ppl hv just taken it to someother level...
U ve given an analysis of what has been shown in the show.. Its not something u added on ur own!
It's wrong on writers part if they don't show ishita taking relationship seriously n then put heavy dialogues for her...Wen fault lies in that character also...we can't assume what they hv not shown in the show

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