my views on sarika track! abortion vs abandoning - Page 2

Originally posted by: suseesuez

I accept Raman's one point.

"Think well before you commit"

I've no faith in sarika marriage. but abortion depends on sarika mentality. she doesn't want to abort then she must have guts to take care. abandoning will be worst act. abortion will be better than abandoned. so it's better to think about her mentality and will power

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Well said think before u commit!
Yes she didn think before getting into relationship with romi but atleast now I want her to think before she decides

That's why I want her to fight alone..
Today she will feel raman n ishita r with her.. But its sarika n her child who have to go through all this n she can't expect someone to come n support her at every stage of life..

Till now sarika is potrayed as abala nari so for her abortion only good option becoz such p initially put a brave face but later abandon the child!

Wonderful post. It's better not to get involved with this spineless man in the name of forced marriage.

Very well written post Anu. It's sad that these things do happen and that's why I don't like the concept of getting Romika married or Shagun, Ashok for thatt matter.
What's the point of marrying a guy who does not want you but has to because he got you pregg? But abortion thing is a problem too. I guess it depends on the mind set of a women.
Anyway, I don't really care about this drama, I would have if I had known that YHM will get a social message across this time too, but there is no hope of that right now.

better to give baby to who needs it than to put on orphanage😭

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

Romi-Sarika ws never my concern...

but ur post ws so good dear...well written...n i felt bad readin those real life stories...!!

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Sry I made u read such a serious post !
I hope I didn't ruin ur day with such a sad post

Originally posted by: RheaSh

Wonderful post. It's better not to get involved with this spineless man in the name of forced marriage.

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Exactly even I don't want romi sarika forced marriage it's like doing one more mistake to hide the old one... I dont think Romi gonna realise his mistake.. So better atleast now she stays away from him. ..

Originally posted by: Asclepius

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Sry I made u read such a serious post !
I hope I didn't ruin ur day with such a sad post

i came here for u only dear...so y should u be sorry...!! plz dnt 😃

Originally posted by: Oishi_S

Very well written post Anu. It's sad that these things do happen and that's why I don't like the concept of getting Romika married or Shagun, Ashok for thatt matter.
What's the point of marrying a guy who does not want you but has to because he got you pregg? But abortion thing is a problem too. I guess it depends on the mind set of a women.
Anyway, I don't really care about this drama, I would have if I had known that YHM will get a social message across this time too, but there is no hope of that right now.

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Yea romi just a spineless guy n he will never realise his mistakes..
N agree with u abortion depends on mind set of the lady if she is brave enough then only she should go ahead...
Seriously no hopes from yhm.. They cant show a love story properly then we should not keep any expectations from them regarding this track!

Originally posted by: Nikki_Titli

i came here for u only dear...so y should u be sorry...!! plz dnt 😃

Hey thats so sweet of u! Thanks 😊

well said..am a psychiatrist in a govt hospital so i know exactly what ur talking abt..people dnt change easily..its only fictional shows which have "bad" guys turning "good" due to "lurve"..dsnt have in real life..even if the parents in such a situation are forced to marry, there is no guarantee tht the child tomorrow will have a good life..maybe the birth certificate legally has the names of parents, but in reality the child will be watching a constant strife between its caregivers..this has a very severe impact on the child..the worse situation is wen the mother delivers and as u said, leaves the baby to be brought up as an orphan..the child is ruined in every manner right from its birth..to bring a child into the world and then abandon it is worse than abortion in my mind..and having a child out of wedlock, though commendable, requires a lot of emotional and financial stability which atleast sarika has not been shown yet to have..am very glad u brought this topic up..let us have a dose of reality in the show instead of only fluff..