my views on sarika track! abortion vs abandoning

Hello friends!
This is my first post on india forum! Generally I reply to the to posts but todays on location videos forced me make a post!
Whatever im writing here is just based on what I've seen in reality n my opinion regarding it.. U may agree or diagree...
Im a pediatrician working in a government hospital.. May be as a pediatrician im more concerned abt the unborn child than anyone else in this situation!


Its very disappionting but ppl like romi do exist!

So now coming to on loc video sarika is pregnant! Here I think not only romi but even sarika is at fault... Becoz what I felt seeing video is sarika was not forced..

Its not first time all this happening to her so she should hv been more cautious this tym... Committing same mistake twice is unpardonable.. N it applies to both sarika n romi
Then wen even romi's own brother told her that he is not a good guy stay away from him n raman also made sure that she gets a better job so she should ve understood that it's not good to keep relationship with such guy where his own brother doesn't believe him
So after giving so many warnings if she got into relationship with romi means its a big mistake on her part..

Now somewhere I feel marrige is not a solution to such problems..
Even if ppl like romi r forced into marriage wen they r not ready to take responsibility then these things can happen
First the husband torture wife n kids to such extent that they themself leave him ...n sarika doesn't look like strong person who can take a stand for herself n fight for her rights..

Or romi changing after gettting married which actually happens only in fictional stories not in real

Then about aborting the child..
Which I think is the only option ppl like sarika hv becoz from starting we have seen she is not strong enough even wen ishita said she will support her she ditched her gave statement against ishita..
So tomorrow even romi can blackmail her then obviously she will be scared n wont fight for her rights

What happens is.. now sarika is feeling that she can take care of child alone n suvive in society..as the days go on the will see real face of society wen even her own relatives will not come forward to help her..but by that tym it will be late only option she will be left with to deliver the child

Im giving an example of such situation

I had seen 2 such newborns last month in hospital where im working..
The lady came she delivered n being govt hospital we have to admit even if they dont hv enough identity proof in emergency cases...

Then as we all know patient load is very high in govt hospitals so security is not that good n lady escaped leaving the baby in hospital..

So being in pediatrics dept we had admitted the baby...
From the first day itself the struggle started
first for milk
then where to keep that baby we cant keep a healthy baby in hospital so long as there is high risk of infections if the baby is left in between sick babies

Then a healthy baby occupying a bed where we could hv admitted sick baby ...

So we had to request many orphanages to take the abandoned baby ...then they said not enough vacancies n funds

Then finally 2 wks later we shifted that baby to orphanage..

So I feel no baby deserves such treatment.. From first day of life..
Sometimes it's better to abort instead of giving birth n abandoning the child..
Which just makes child life more miserable.both physically n mentally

If a person is strong enough to fight against society for her rights n take responsibility of child then well n good then only she should go ahead n give birth to baby but in actual very less percentage ppl have that courage...

Anyways I lost all hopes from yhm but still I hope cvs to handle this track properly n even if they show sarika fighting for her rights then I want sarika to take the fight single handedly becoz tomorrow she alone has to raise the child!

Ps : just my opinion based on my experience

Thank u all !

Yes this is really very serious track. CV is actually playing with fire if not handled with care this serial is nowhere near to reality for sure. Because you are telling us struggle during birth, but I have witness struggle after they reach orphanage. Few of my sister colleagues are orphan, both of them became very good friend of my sister and this way both of them used to visit our home. THus we are able to understand their situation more clearly.

So I feel no baby deserves such treatment.. From first day of life..
Sometimes it's better to abort instead of giving birth n abandoning the child..
Which just makes child life more miserable.both physically n mentally

If a person is strong enough to fight against society for her rights n take responsibility of child then well n good then only she should go ahead n give birth to baby but in actual very less percentage ppl have that courage...

Anyways I lost all hopes from yhm but still I hope cvs to handle this track properly n even if they show sarika fighting for her rights then I want sarika to take the fight single handedly becoz tomorrow she alone has to raise the child!

Nice post!

Originally posted by: mayu1982

Yes this is really very serious track. CV is actually playing with fire if not handled with care this serial is nowhere near to reality for sure. Because you are telling us struggle during birth, but I have witness struggle after they reach orphanage. Few of my sister colleagues are orphan, both of them became very good friend of my sister and this way both of them used to visit our home. THus we are able to understand their situation more clearly.

Shockingly Indian society is very backward( I am including myself as well in this) because child whose parents are not known, that child not only struggles but face the hard facts of the society. Like our both didi( which I used the called them ) they are highly qualified and one of them are international air-hostess that means she was and is beautiful. She didn't get domestic air-hostess job because they said your family background is zero and even in her interview they only asked her about personal questions- At what age she is came to know that she is orphan? Is her parents are alive? Is she is ill- legal child and all that . Just imagine our big domestic airlines are asking such type of questions to applicants.

Most of the girls she was staying with are highly educated. But jo rishte aate the woh handicap logo ke and that ppl were proudly saying this like aise ladikyon ke liye toh aise hi rishte aayege...

And there are much more facts which I am unable to write it down? But our indian society is very cruel that it comes to child like this ( not comfortable to use that awful word) but yes

How many of us are ready to marry orphan girl?

This is very complicated issue - No words for Romi because the more I will write the less it will be . But yes for Sarika she needs to take correct step for her baby and for herself because she and her baby is the one who is going to face the world and not Romi. Romi and her family( excluding Raman and IShita) will simply blame Sarika and lived their LIFE without any problem.

Thanks for reply!
Exactly reality is very different from what we see in stories! as u said its never ending struggle..Where the child has not commited any mistake.. But still has to go through all difficulties in life..
1st struggle for survival then
For education ,if that person has all qualifications even then not taken for job that easily...
Then marriage
And struggle goes on till the end! Thats very saddening...

Originally posted by: Lata_ishra

So I feel no baby deserves such treatment.. From first day of life..
Sometimes it's better to abort instead of giving birth n abandoning the child..
Which just makes child life more miserable.both physically n mentally

If a person is strong enough to fight against society for her rights n take responsibility of child then well n good then only she should go ahead n give birth to baby but in actual very less percentage ppl have that courage...

Anyways I lost all hopes from yhm but still I hope cvs to handle this track properly n even if they show sarika fighting for her rights then I want sarika to take the fight single handedly becoz tomorrow she alone has to raise the child!

<font size="2">I totally agree with this...no child desreves this type of treatment...its really sad that ppl are so insensitive that they dont care about their own flesh...Sarika and romi both are atfault..</font>

But i really want cvs to show that a woman can take stand for helf if she can be patience then she even can fight for her right...

thanks for reply
Even I want her to see sarika taking a,stand for herself.. I want her fight single handedly.. Becoz she will not get help at every stage of her life
She n her child have to face this alone!!

Originally posted by: o0manju0o

Nice post!

But i don't think that this track will go to that extent

Actually i don't want🤔

Thanks for patient reading n reply 😊
Don't worry track will not go to such an extent

I accept Raman's one point.

"Think well before you commit"

I've no faith in sarika marriage. but abortion depends on sarika mentality. she doesn't want to abort then she must have guts to take care. abandoning will be worst act. abortion will be better than abandoned. so it's better to think about her mentality and will power

Romi-Sarika ws never my concern...

but ur post ws so good dear...well written...n i felt bad readin those real life stories...!!

Originally posted by: suseesuez

I accept Raman's one point.

"Think well before you commit"

I've no faith in sarika marriage. but abortion depends on sarika mentality. she doesn't want to abort then she must have guts to take care. abandoning will be worst act. abortion will be better than abandoned. so it's better to think about her mentality and will power