Originally posted by: mnr123
Firstly Thanks to CV's for including the Ishita Raman scene n also Ishita saying ki she likes her Ravan kumar😆Nahi toh aaj uski pakka bashing hoti😛
Aaj ka epi maine suna hai awesome hai, i havent watched yet (might watch it only for KP's acting).
Mani's interference Ishra story mein kyu dikhaya jaa raha hai abhi tak samajh mein nahi aa raha hai at least mujhe. Ok spoilers say he will be catalyst he will be catalyst, but so far he is no way trying to bring them closer. Reverse psychology sometimes takes worse turns in life too. Woh toh Raman itna mature hai ki he is not narrow minded to think that Ishita is not having an affair with Mani. (I know I will be nicely bashed for saying this)
If It was Raman n all the time doing Shagun or any other lady Jaap - Shagun is perfect yeh woh and was shown as spending a quality time with that lady -> giggling n laughing and reminiscing his old days with her (Say someone like Sona character he mentioned before) I seriously wud not have liked that too. I m quite liberal minded when it comes to a friendship between a Boy and Girl I don't say a platonic relationship can't exist. But Cv's tried to portray that Ishita is completely ignoring Raman (apparently the person whom she is falling with which they had shown before) and spending more time with Mani while she shud be knowing Raman more n spending more time with him that is how love grows not because of some external catalyst forces.
Do Raman n Ishita need a counselor (Mani) to fall in love with each other? If this is what Cv's r trying to portray then I am sorry can't buy this logic. It was about Ishra journey and Ishra only have to realize each other. Currently the story is steering only towards Raman's realization that how bad a husband he was to Ishita.
If Raman was shown as sitting and chit chatting with Mihir (his best friend) on the bench about some non important issues, leaving an ailing Ishita who is having bad stomach ache n needs medication n Ishita had sent him to get medicine n she asks him to come back n if he wud still have chosen to sit with his best friend - then i wud have still said Raman's behavior is insensitive.
Just had to get all that out of my system ^^^^
Coming back to today's episode - From the looks of it, RKB gave it nicely back to Mani about his interference in Ishra life.👏Thank god Cv's didn't reduce him to a furniture like yesterday where he clearly had no clue about Ishita's medical history (whereas in reality which was already shown in the episodes he knew about her blood group, her allergies and also her medical condition but maybe he was too panicked to say anything in front of the doctor)
So for me that was a nice touch and also I didn't like the fact that again Mani got RUhi without the consent of either of her parents to the hospital. He clearly crossed the lines there.
There have been times when I have just loved Ruhi Ishita scenes and times when i have cried seeing them too. But today Ishita's refusal to eat after having glucose for sake of Vrat (I still don't get it y was she grumpy with Raman - did he say something insensitive to her while he was trying to feed or during Puja - please enlighten me on this) N Mani getting Ruhi n teaching RKB this is how it is done was completely un called for.
Mani's delusions- Y did Mani choose not to discuss it with Iyers about what Ashok said or what he has seen about Raman? Y did he think of taking matters in his hands without doing thorough investigation of RKB. Does he think that Iyers r so naive that they fell for RKB n gave away their daughter to a monster? What Mani did was not just an insult to RKB but also to Iyers as well.
What Mani will do if Raman still does not change his behavior (which by the way he clearly said that don't come in between my life). SO for his delusions what is going to do ? Reform Raman by his lectures? -Ishita has been trying to do that n yet Raman has not yet reformed or ask his Best friend to divorce this insensitive husband?
Both Raman n ishita have glaring flaws - unfortunately sometimes u need to put up with the flaws to be with a person in the relationship. Is Ishita going to stop meddling in other people's life (which clearly showed her insensitive side towards her husband, her inlaws n to some extent even her own family) - the answer is no. So Y shud RKB be the one to stop his taunting and insensitive remarks (Although I hate it personally, but m saying yes he is flawed let him remain one).
Ishra story is about how two individuals help each other overcome their flaws n accept each other. Love can not make u a perfect human being it will only make ur life filled with happiness.
