Why so much Mani hate?-DT NT Pg17 - Page 14

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Originally posted by: pomegranate

Back after a mini break...

It looks like both parties retaliated by reporting one another. so maybe everyone should let it go and not drag it further

I love your post! Absolutely perfect! You couldn't have spelled it out any better! Bang on post.

Also, this is something I posted on another post
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TRUE, Raman is bound to feel jealous insecure and dejected. But still that does not give him the right to do anything and everything under the sun.
He is surely not at fault because that is his demeanour, he shouts and gets angry at people he cares for, he has a different way of showcasing his love and Ishita understands all that, however when she is on the hospital bed,How can one expect her to get into fights and stand for him and all that because in her mind, everything is normal, Mani is a friend and Raman is her husband. She trusts him completely and she expects the same from him, beyond a fun jealousy moment, such deep thoughts that she is not happy with Raman and Mani is better and all that doesn't even cross her mind. I understand that once she did compare the two in her thoughts, that I would say was a terrible fault of the CVs. What I can gauge from the current scenario is Raman realisation which is absolutely essential, not because he's been lacking in his care or love, not even because she has felt bereft of the love and care. However, it's time they took a next step and I'm loving the way Cvs are portraying that bit. What I absolutely hate is when they involve mani lusting over Ishita, that is pathetic. But mani being her best friend and knowing everything about her is but natural. Raman is no way at fault, so many husbands don't know about their wive's illness, that's justifiable. However, it's time he learned all that. This is just a way for him to take an initiative to know her better, it doesn't mean he was wrong or had been wrong. In the entire scenario, not once did I see Raman in the bad light and honestly speaking I don't think even the Cvs intended to show that. It's realisation, the way Ishita realised she should have handled the Pammi matter better. I agree that was too small a matter! But what the Cvs are trying to show that it's not necessary for the male protagonist to always be so righteous and awesome. He's a flawed character and he has more than one reason to be one. His defence mechanism is to shout at people and we all know that, and I don't even say that he should act indifferent towards her when she's in the hospital. I'm kind of sure, Ishita loves his rudeness as well. Give them some time, the moment she learns about what's going on in his mind, she'll come around and clarify. It's ISHRA after all, we've been super crazy for them, there's a reason for them to have such a sizzling chemistry and writers would never ever want to mess that.
Also, about Mani I think it's absolutely okay for Ishita to be bestfriends with him, what's wrong in that? As long as neither of them showcase lusting for each other. I really don't think she has crossed any boundaries as of now, she never hid the fact from her husband that she's meeting him or never lied to him. Well that star struck behaviour is in inherent trait of hyperness which she possesses, honestly I've been there so I know that. There is absolutely no wrong in two people of opposite sex being friends. Raman is acting like this because of his past, he's insecure and rightly said he has every right to be that,he's endured too much. That's what the writers are playing on ; her oblivion and his insecurity which will eventually commingle and give us a beautiful heartfelt conversation when things get clearer.

Loved ur post 👏 👏
Unbiased post 👏

Totally agree with u... 👏

Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

This was expected.

Anyways, the best thing to do is watch the actual episode and go with the flow.

Let's not stress ourselves over this.

guys mani a caring humble man shown and a good frnd of ishita is chown by cvc this character is basically induced to make raman jeleous😆 and every body praising mani will make raman more possessive towards ishita hence he will realise his feelings for her

Originally posted by: pomegranate

I'm taking everything with a pinch of salt and just going with the flow. get so worked up and angry about a hindi serial is not worth it. even now, I watch the show with passive interest, which is great because I am not as emotionally invested in it.

Originally posted by: .ProperPatola.

@Bold- Ditto here...This is the best thing to do. This is the second Indian show I am following. learnt my lesson from the last one!

@Bold; Second it. This is my first indian show thus seeing certain type of behaviors does shock me. But yes, it's always the best to go with the flow.

Originally posted by: ForbbidenLove

@Bold; Second it. This is my first indian show thus seeing certain type of behaviors does shock me. But yes, it's always the best to go with the flow.

Originally posted by: .ProperPatola.

I can understand...You will get used to it sooner or later...Just from this little experience, I have got to know about the fandom of Indian Tele...The reactions are too extreme often...be it be on any end of the spectrum.

The writers know their job...pushing them always fabricates the show...So just go with the flow as you said or one can move on...its easier when one isn't emotionally invested in the show.

AGREED. & Yes, just let the CVs do their job. Instead of always jumping at their throat.. At least let the ACTUAL episode air first...lol
And we also need to accept different POVs. Even the 5 fingers are not the same, everybody needs to just chill at times.