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I am seeing a lot of posts these days where Ishita is blamed for not expressing her feelings to Raman and is called a egoistic.I cannot understand how can anyone in her position confess her love to a person like Raman who is extremely rude and selfish.Yes, at times she is irritating with her mahaan act but that doesn't mean you have every right to insult awomenforherlooks at every step and still expect her to understand Raman's co called love.
Let's forget it is KP who is playing Raman...as many might get little biased when it comes to their favorite actor. Will you confess if your husband did the following
1 . Fake confession ,using you at every step to make his ex wife jealous
2. Doesn't even hesitate to shout at you or insult you in front of other.Whatever may be the reason you can't insult your spouse in front of others...p.s I am not referring to a situation when shebrought Shagun home.
3. Making fun of your physical characteristics, dressing sense and cooking skills.A person loses her confidence when she is made to feel like a trash .
4. Can make you go through hell for his precious firstborn and his lovely ex wife.Accident track where he didn't care a bit about Ishita's feelings when he declared "family picnic" ,he didn't even feel guilty when he was caught with his ex wife outside the hotel.
5.Can create a scene in public by coming home drunk.Nothing can be more embrassing for a wife when she has to deal with a drunkard who is ever ready to create a scene infront of your parents and neighbors
It has always been his majboori,his pain, his son ,his ex wife ...has he ever tried to understand how others might feel ...Did he ever try to understand how Ishita would feel when even today she is blamed for something which is not her fault... ? He is a bitter man who can make others life bitter for his majboori... Be it his daughter or her Ishima
What does Raman really like in her ?He has problem with everything she does.
I am surprised that Ishita is blamed for not accepting Raman the way he is,...she is in love with same Raman who is arrogant ,rude and selfish .He can be caring at times but next moment he says something so mean that any person will feel terrible and will negate his caring acts.She has accepted his past and everyday has to deal with his past either in the form of his ex wife or his brat first born.What more proof we need ?
Why is it a such a big deal if she expects him to little sensitive and understanding ..she is not comparing him with Mani but is just expecting what he expects from her .She had been insulted enough by his lovely ex wife and his idiotic friends at every party she has attended but still never rejects his invitation when he wants her to attend his parties...you don't have to be in love with a person to be considerate.
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