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Ok heres a take for Mancity i.e Vyas's challenge that he posted in his Rajma Daily Rantings to make a positive review out of Monday 29th September's episode. đ and also a take on Ishita.
I guess people were too upset on the spoilers that we got recently, Ashok mihika marriage and SHagun trying to get closer to RKB n hence we were not able to enjoy the episode telecasted yesterday.
My POV was that yesterday's episode was nice and laid down the future tracks nicely.
I agree to the point that CV's have made Ishita as a mystery on the show. We seldom get to hear what exactly is going on in her brain đ It is really difficult to deduce and also feel for the character, say the way we feel for RKB. Because what exactly RKB feels is shown to viewers properly.
I was super pissed at her for meddling her ways in Simmi's(meeting Param alone), Shagun's n then Sanjana's business. She erred big time in not sharing things related to the above incidents with her family and taking decisions alone on their behalf and working the solution out.
But I went back to how her character was since the beginning of the YHM. This is what I have deduced.This is what I have written in RI post too.
I think she was always Meddlesome, egoistic, Mahaan, selfish and an hypocrite right from the beginning.
She was Mahaan in roaming on Delhi streets in night time to treat patients. She was Mahaan in marrying a man she hates for the Kid she loves.
I saw her being meddlesome when she went to defame Raman after her parents were jailed while he was being interviewed for CEO of the year award. It was none of her business to go in front of the whole world and give lecture to RKB showing that he is not a good father. Just because he insulted her n her family in front of people it does not give her any right to do so. Just because he was wrong, doesn't mean that her wrong is Right.
She sided with SHagun without knowing the whole truth about Shagun when the nari mukti morcha came at Raman's doorstep n she gave Ruhi away to SHagun like a toy, without even realizing the whole affair. She just thought she is doing good to Ruhi, without realizing she is hurting rKB, Ruhi, all Bhalla family in doing so.
Did she ever apologized for these mistakes? NO.
But we(viewers) accepted it coz RKB was the insensitive careless jerk towards Ruhi since the beginning only during DNA track we saw him accepting her even if she was not his daughter n his love for her.
She was always expecting too much from her Husband, when Prateek said that if she can't say sorry to Raman instead of talking out the differences she broke her engagement with him. I m not saying that ki that Prateek guy wasn't a jerk. But every human being have some flaws. Ishita didn't accept it then, she is not ready to accept it now too RKB for the way he is. She wants her husband to behave or act according to her wishes. While prateek was ok if she was meddling into RKB's daughter n RKB's life but she could not accept Prateek for his one flaw. Call it hypocritical, selfish or plain egoistic. But she is just the way she is.
She was always selfish for falling for Ruhi, coz Ruhi somewhere filled her void of having a child. I agree she has done a lot for Ruhi, but so has RUhi done a lot for her (when Ruhi calls her mA, n when she says Y was I not borne out of U).
She was shown as Manipulative when she refused to believe Shagun although Bhallas hid an imp fact about Adi during Marriage. She lied to Shagun that she will not marry Raman n went on n married him. đł
So all in all Ishita was always in her character when she did stupid things. N all her Flaws and virtues make her a Human being and as real character as possible đ
Basically when Mani said that I waited my whole college life for that phone and now m regretting, its a great wake up call for both Ishita and Raman, they need to move past their problems, their egos and nature and start giving their Love much needed push. rather than waiting for the other person to let go and come n confess, they shud take it up on their sleeves and do it themselves.
So when she says that Y can't Raman b like Mani, it just means she always wanted a sensitive and understanding Husband as we have seen in Prateek case.
When she is happy about the fact that Raman has kept her photo as screensaver n wallpaper on his phone, she is enjoying the attention that her husband or say a person whom she loves is showering on her.
When she discusses the things she heard at the party were clear indicators of how she wants to discuss things related to Shagun that might affect her marriage She could have easily gone ahead n meddled again in Ashok n SHagun's life to solve the differences herself in her Mahaanta. but she chose to involve her husband in problems, that is a great step in working towards the marriage.
Ideally Mani should not b the person asking her if she loves her Husband or not. But the problem is she herself is truly confused about it. SO far whatever image she has made of Raman it is based on the facts that she has chanced upon or investigated not on the basis of having a heart to heart talk with Raman.
She expects Raman to be sensitive towards her, but she taunts him saying I didn't ask mohabbat from u but just a favor, if only she could have sweetly asked him once that can u come coz I want u to come? No her Ego comes in the way.
Again writing a take on what I feel about Ishra in YHM discussion thread.
We as viewers know that both ishra love each other subconsciously. but they r not showing it off on each other's face. They hide behind those nok jhoks or taunts.
Its a mixture of their ego, insecurity and also fear of rejection. They think that if the other person says NO it will b difficult to put up with this marriage ( its an marriage n they have to put up with the other person all their lives). Hence they think that they r happy in the place that they r currently.
They hardly talk to each other although both call themselves as Friends now.
I think this Mani character is exactly like a catalyst as per spoilers(Dictionary meaning catalyst - a substance that increases the rate of a chemical reaction without itself undergoing any permanent chemical change.) So he is going to speed up the process of making Ishra understand that they are falling in love with each other without letting Harm Ishra or coming in between Ishra love story.
Unfortunately couples like ISHRA who r egotistic on the surface need this physical push from outside to realize their true feelings.
These two call themselves as friends, but how many of friendly interactions have these two really had. They r clearly hiding their real feelings behind the veil of Friendship, sirf Ruhi ke liye conditions. đ
Basically both of them, Ishita and Raman too are waiting for confession from other's side and they think that then they will give the other a chance of being loved. đ After Sanjana track I wanted a proper closure to their confusions, they just went ahead to being lovey dovey and flirty with each other. While Raman teased her about her feeling jealous and prodding her to accept the fact that she loves him. She went ahead and said I have nothing to say to u about her Balcony talk. Trying not to let him know about her true feelings. Then Raman gives it back to her that one day u will come to me n tell me about ur true feelings. đł Not once he tries to say that I like u or I liked what u said lets give our marriage a chance. not once she says I think I have started liking u.
This Shagun Track drama started with Ishita coming and telling Raman truth right in the beginning so I am hoping that in future they will solve this mess together.
According to me ishita thinks uni dimensionally- she only thinks from the affected person's POV (like Sanjana Track she thought of sanajana, but didn't think that she might hurt Raman) and Raman thinks Multi- dimensionally like in accident track he could relate to the hurt he was giving to ishita. But ultimately they both r right and wrong in their own ways in handling the circumstances that they face.
If they combine both their methods I think they will be able to do greater good. đł
Just my pov on the current track - please feel free to agree or disagree with my commentsđ.
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