Ishita Character Analysis and Ishra Journey - Page 2

Originally posted by: mnr123

I agree to the point that CV's have made Ishita as a mystery on the show. We seldom get to hear what exactly is going on in her brain 😆 It is really difficult to deduce and also feel for the character, say the way we feel for RKB. Because what exactly RKB feels is shown to viewers properly.

I'd say it's very easy to know what is going on in her brain as she keeps lecturing everyone including herself to get her point across but we don't what is going on in heart. More like, we didn't know until the show came in 7:30 PM slot. Now we have full highway view on her feelings and what not. As for raman, his switch of moods are what makes him difficult to understand, otherwise he is pretty simple to read through.

I was super pissed at her for meddling her ways in Simmi's(meeting Param alone), Shagun's n then Sanjana's business. She erred big time in not sharing things related to the above incidents with her family and taking decisions alone on their behalf and working the solution out.

I think she was always Meddlesome, egoistic, Mahaan, selfish and an hypocrite right from the beginning.

Agree on meddlesome, mahaan, but not egoistic (i'd say self righteous), selfish (i don't think she is) or hypocrite (i'd say overly naive) .

She was Mahaan in roaming on Delhi streets in night time to treat patients. She was Mahaan in marrying a man she hates for the Kid she loves.

I saw her being meddlesome when she went to defame Raman after her parents were jailed while he was being interviewed for CEO of the year award. It was none of her business to go in front of the whole world and give lecture to RKB showing that he is not a good father. Just because he insulted her n her family in front of people it does not give her any right to do so. Just because he was wrong, doesn't mean that her wrong is Right.

Agree that she is meddle some but i would have done the same thing if not worst! You do me wrong, i do you twice as wrong and i won't feel guilty about it. 😆 In life you don't always have to be right, you have to do what you want, what you think is important for you, whether it's right or wrong to other people.

She sided with SHagun without knowing the whole truth about Shagun when the nari mukti morcha came at Raman's doorstep n she gave Ruhi away to SHagun like a toy, without even realizing the whole affair. She just thought she is doing good to Ruhi, without realizing she is hurting rKB, Ruhi, all Bhalla family in doing so. Yep, her naive side is too much.

Did she ever apologized for these mistakes? NO. God forbid. She is too self righteous. Problem with ishu is that if she thinks she is right, she IS right. She doesn't understand that other people may not agree with her on that.

But we(viewers) accepted it coz RKB was the insensitive careless jerk towards Ruhi since the beginning only during DNA track we saw him accepting her even if she was not his daughter n his love for her. I accepted her flaws because even if it's problematic, she doesn't do it with bad intentions so it's easier to forgive her. Shagun doesn't do much but she puts so much hate in her actions that we end up hating her in return.

She was always expecting too much from her Husband, when Prateek said that if she can't say sorry to Raman instead of talking out the differences she broke her engagement with him. I m not saying that ki that Prateek guy wasn't a jerk. But every human being have some flaws.

Ishita didn't accept it then, she is not ready to accept it now too RKB for the way he is.

there are flaws you can't accept though. Raman's main flaw is being rude, which he does intentionally towards ishita, i don't see why she should take it !

She wants her husband to behave or act according to her wishes.

Not sure about that. She let him be himself expect when it comes to people she loves. She doesn't want him to be rude to the one she loves and that's when she starts lecturing him and trying to change him; i think it's not that bad that she is doing that : ruhi would have lost a father if ishita wasn't telling him to behave.

While prateek was ok if she was meddling into RKB's daughter n RKB's life but she could not accept Prateek for his one flaw. Call it hypocritical, selfish or plain egoistic. But she is just the way she is.

I think ishita saw the hypocrisy in Prateek. the guy didn't have real feelings, he was accommodating himself to a situation, but he had other thoughts at the back of his mind. He was the hypocrite one. And ishita who is all about truth and honesty, couldn't take it. Her decision was a bit harsh but it was better than ending up with a guy who doesn't believe in the values she puts on top of everything else. Taking one decision for yourself, doesn't make you a selfish person or a egoistic person. yes, people were hurt by her decision, especially her parents, but you don't live your life for someone else than yourself.

She was always selfish for falling for Ruhi, coz Ruhi somewhere filled her void of having a child. I agree she has done a lot for Ruhi, but so has RUhi done a lot for her (when Ruhi calls her mA, n when she says Y was I not borne out of U).

Falling for Ruhi wasn't selfish because falling in love isn't something you control. So you can't put the blame on her for loving Ruhi. Getting into ruhi's life would have been a selfish move if she had to manipulate Ruhi or the judge to get the custody. But she didn't, on the contrary, she was ready to accept Ruhi going back to Shagun even if it hurt her.

Ishita does get something out of her bonding with Ruhi but saying that it's selfish, is not correct because when you give love, you receive love and that's what their relationship is about.

She was shown as Manipulative when she refused to believe Shagun although Bhallas hid an imp fact about Adi during Marriage. She lied to Shagun that she will not marry Raman n went on n married him. 😳

She is manipulative at time. Agree on that. But she never does it completely for herself. In the example you wrote : she did it also for raman and ruhi. But yes, she did manipulate shagun and she did lie.

So all in all Ishita was always in her character when she did stupid things. [...]

When she discusses the things she heard at the party were clear indicators of how she wants to discuss things related to Shagun that might affect her marriage She could have easily gone ahead n meddled again in Ashok n SHagun's life to solve the differences herself in her Mahaanta. but she chose to involve her husband in problems, that is a great step in working towards the marriage.

Agree but i wished she talked with MIHIR instead. He is the one who is Shagun's family, Raman is no one to her now.

Ideally Mani should not b the person asking her if she loves her Husband or not. But the problem is she herself is truly confused about it. SO far whatever image she has made of Raman it is based on the facts that she has chanced upon or investigated not on the basis of having a heart to heart talk with Raman.

She expects Raman to be sensitive towards her, but she taunts him saying I didn't ask mohabbat from u but just a favor, if only she could have sweetly asked him once that can u come coz I want u to come? No her Ego comes in the way.

I wouldn't say it was a taunt, she just reminded him that she wasn't asking him much hence he should do it.

She didn't ask sweetly because Raman wouldn't have even listened to her. he doesn't care about her being sweet or not. If he doesn't want to do something, he won't.😆

Again writing a take on what I feel about Ishra in YHM discusson thread. [...] If they combine both their methods I think they will be able to do greater good. 😳 totally agree on this whole part so i cut it from this post otherwise it's too long

Just my pov on the current track - please feel free to agree or disagree with my comments😉.

Thank for taking the time to post this topic, I appreciate the time, thought and efforts you put in it and what i loved the most is that you did a critic of Ishita's character and not a bashing post. Discussion is what makes this forum alive, that's why i responded. I know you won't take offense in the fact that i disagreed on your analyse of Ishita, that's why i went ahead and posted this.

Love you !❤️