Originally posted by: mnr123
@Bold
Wud i marry or fall in love with a person who just taunts me and does not leave a single opportunity in putting me down ? Hell no, doesn't matter how good looking he is. For me looks will subside with age. looks will not matter to me when i am 60 what will matter is how was the bonding with my husband or partner. I do unemotional rational analysis. Sorry to say.
She felt spontaneous love for Ruhi was again a selfish act according to me. Ruhi was devoid of any love from her father n mother. ishu was devoid of any love of a child in her life. For her bearing a child is the most imp thing. SO she fell for Ruhi easily coz Ruhi gave her that much needed love and filled her life with happiness. Acc to me having a child is not the most imp thing in life, but Ishita feels otherwise.
I agree she is wrong in understanding pain or problems of people like SImmi n Shagun n also she is stupid in openly giving away her game plan to people like Param. She is able to understand everybody's POV except for her Husband's. Ya she is wrong. But then thats what she is, she is a Human being n she can be wrong too. 😳
Ok coming back to her expectations from her Love. Well we all have different definition of LOVE and we perceive it differently.
Ishita likes a sensitive Raman, she prefers to have a MAN who is transparent in his feelings. She doesn't understand Raman, but is she the only one at fault? I think no. Coz some where Raman is hiding his true self in front of her. Even in today's epi, she was super happy when she saw that rAMAN HAS HER PHOTO as screensaver n wallpaper. N she told him that too, but he clearly said "Do not intrude into my privacy" which meant Woman don't try to get into my brains. He went further n taunted her.
But what she missed was it came from the fact that she is doing Mani mani jaap whole day, she said "Badi mohabbat mangi nahi maine" n she prefers to share her household problems (cylinder issue) with Mani instead of her Husband (Who shud b the first one to know n provide for his own house). It was a direct attack on his ego.
The problem here lies in both hiding their true feelings to each other.Both show off their ego in each others face.
N if Ishita prefers a straightforward man its coz she can't understand people like RKB who on the face taunts her n dil hi dil mein loves her 😆 Ishita finds it difficult to put up with such a person who has 2 personalities in one package.
If Ishita is wrong in expecting to have a sensitive man, then let her be wrong. Atleast somewhere the makers r showing her as a Human 😉