Disappointed with Ishita - precap scene - Page 6

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Well, I am not finding anything stupid of faulty in this. It's Raman, Mihir and the whole Bhallas who have created this situation.As a sister, she would want to keep every problem out of her sister's life. If Mihir and his sister's relation is mended, there is a relief from her side that at least that sister won't create any problem. So, what's the fault in it? If Bhallas' hiding things are seen as respecting someone's decision, why not Ishita's doing this is securing someone's happiness and life?
About bringing her to the party, it's a happy and crowded moment. If they are alone, there's no guarantee that they will sort everything and will fight and leave. But, infront of other people, they won't at least leave and fight. There's a good chance for sorting up.

Originally posted by: Aeryn

Bhallas and Mihir lying can't excuse Ishita's behaviour.

There is no point of meddling so much like that. Yes Iyers have a right to know the truth about the man they intend for their daughter to marry. Being concerned is normal.

BUT

Iyers accepted Mihir not sharing his past. They have accepted the status quo. If it was so important for them, bothered them so much not to know the truth then they should have talked it out with him and refused the alliance if he didn't want to comply.

Them lying is absolutely no excuse for Ishita to dig into Mihir's past and try to force him to mend his estranged relationship. I can't agree on the point that it is their attitude that makes it reasonable for her to meddle this much. Talking it out and demanding to know is fine but digging behind his back is not.

Ishita inviting Sanjana to her sister's party was again callous, uncalled for. How can she not think that it would inevitably caused tension and drama? Why ruin a family celebration?

Btw I think it should be Mihir's decision to share about his family. He should be the one telling the truth, not Bhallas. To Raman's credit, he did try to tell Mihir that it was time for him to open up. That shows that he is just respecting Mihir's feelings but does think that Iyers should know.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

It's called playing the Avoidance game. She won't or can't figure out her own issues in life so she goes around fixing everyone else's problems.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Vandu is Mihika's sister as much as Ishita (she's older than both of them) and she's keeping her head out of this situation.

Shouldn't Mihir and Mihika be the ones to resolve any issues that come up in their lives esp. after marriage? Or will Ishita take it up on herself to fix everyone's lives and let her own just slide by? Isn't it about time a relative stops imposing herself/himself in family issues without an invitation for help?

Originally posted by: rajji-cutest

first of all, thank you for taking the time to take part in this discussion. I'm not saying i'm God and i have all the answers so anyone agreeing or disagreeing with me is most than welcome to discuss 🤗 (plus, i always like your posts in this forum!)

awww thank u 🤗

we know it yaar...IF is for discussion and as long as ppl keeping their view in sensible manner, its always a pleasure to share thoughts 😊

to tell you the truth i've skipped some of the scenes about Sanjana, but in the episode it's Ishita who decides to invite sanjana at the party (see her last line : "mihir is coming? then the best would be to invite sanjana and to make them meet") + the precap mihika says "your idea is great akka but do you think sanjana will come?" m so messed in twitter fight wid SP that m watching show wid half mind.. so i agree wid u here coz i have no clue, i don't remember the exact dialogues

Again, i'm not saying that ishita shouldn't be helping other (even though it's really annoying to see her meddle like that in people's life) but why invite someone she barely knows at vandu's party?😕

yep true... she should not.. its a family get together and why to create a scene... but show hai drama to karna hi hai.. that's why they created whole party thing. else it wasn't needed... do u think it make any sense Bala-Vandu's surprise party at Bhalla house? so CV's r doing things for drama sake only. and mostly they just don't make any sense

Agree that most probably sanjana will not come. But ishita doesn't know that, does she? So my question is : why ishita doesn't think about the consequences of her actions? Sanjana coming to the party will create trouble. true ishita should think be4 executing her plans... dunno why CV's show her doing things which mostly lead her to probs or make fool of her.

@bold : agree! things are coming her ways. I noticed it too. I just wish she would be more subtle and sensitive about the matter and not go on a crusade for the truth without thinking about others.😆 i don't completely blame her here...as i said her own family hiding things.. other side Mihika, she is not taking any effort and leaving it always on ishita. and Ishita being all caring for everyone, she want every1 happy... Mihika said Mihir was upset thinking abt her sis, Sanjana cried for her bro so ishita is just thinking if they can sort out things then all probs will solve.

Originally posted by: MERARAI

Vandu is Mihika's sister as much as Ishita (she's older than both of them) and she's keeping her head out of this situation.

Shouldn't Mihir and Mihika be the ones to resolve any issues that come up in their lives esp. after marriage? Or will Ishita take it up on herself to fix everyone's lives and let her own just slide by? Isn't it about time a relative stops imposing herself/himself in family issues without an invitation for help?

Sorry to disagree here Mera... Vandu was always there but as mock audience... when marriage got cancel she was just there and hadn't said a single thing... even Mihika knowing that vandu is eldest among them , chose to let Ishita talk to Mihir. Vandu was in show when Mihir refused to marry in anger , and Ishita was there to make Mihika understand.

Vandu is still their elder sister but Mihika have to share Mihir's childhood memory wid Ishita only...

Ishita is not poking her nose but she is being involved by Mihika everytime.

Mihika herself doing nothing and always cry infront of Ishita...

and Ishita as an elder for both Mihir and Mihika, she is worried for them..

khair its just my opinion, hope m not offending any1 here 😳😳

Originally posted by: DivAniTanni

Well, I am not finding anything stupid of faulty in this. It's Raman, Mihir and the whole Bhallas who have created this situation. As a sister, she would want to keep every problem out of her sister's life. If Mihir and his sister's relation is mended, there is a relief from her side that at least that sister won't create any problem. So, what's the fault in it? If Bhallas' hiding things are seen as respecting someone's decision, why not Ishita's doing this is securing someone's happiness and life?

About bringing her to the party, it's a happy and crowded moment. If they are alone, there's no guarantee that they will sort everything and will fight and leave. But, infront of other people, they won't at least leave and fight. There's a good chance for sorting up.

Originally posted by: NeelM

Completely agree with you!

One more messing with people personal life and one more spying!

She just cannot control her curiosity that is her main problem.

And I wrote before too that she is not a team player, she like to do nonsense things without discussing with Raman.

Pagal Madrasan...true!