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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: mnr123


Raman has to make it clear to her. If she has some insecurities she will not dig deep n try n understand the situation . Raman has to make her understand that he is over his past, he loves her etc.

Nothing wrong in it. Ishita might on the surface look like a strong independent woman but deep down she is a woman with insecurities and trust issues, coz she feels that she is not capable of being loved as she can't procreate.

Hence she was portrayed as smart when it came to her profession license track but when it came to jealousy (personal life) she turned dumb 😆


@BOLD: This is exactly true. Everyone of us can have more than one side to us, Many people who are professionally smart are chicken at matters of heart or vice versa.
It is not a rule. Ishita's profession does not make her feel insecure, nor she has faced any rejection in that field. In fact, she has got honors and recognition for this. So it is her strength ... no wonder she was all lost during the license track.

On the other hand, she has faced rejection thru and thru in the matters of heart .. so it is ok for her to be extra sensitive or insecure ... it is but natural.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: redwine1


Jyoe ..

lovely that u brought that up .. now go back & see that scene .. u will understand what i am saying ..
But we can agree to disagree as well .. i am cool with that .. 😳
She categorically tells him .. u have feelings for SHAGGY . he DOES NOT DENY IT ..
she says u scold her as if she is URS .. he does not deny that ..

she has brought this out a lot of times & each time he has been mum about it .. but in the case of ishita . the moment he asked about Subbu she denied having feelings .. & in very crisp & clear words ...





He had feelings...But that was hate which prevented him from moving on... I just can't believe that a man can still love a woman who betrayed him and left his 6 month old kid to lead a better life with a man after mocking his love for her...

When Ishita asked him to throw that hate, Shagun went out... Now, he doesn't affect him like before...


DARLING precisely my point .. whatever be the feelings .. HE NEEDS TO ARTICULATE TO ISHITA .. I HATE SHAGUN .. is ok .. but he needs to ANSWER RIGHT

this is not about Raman & what he feels about his past ,. this is about what Ishita feels he feels for his past

Been silently reading all the posts here and my two cents:
Up until know it has always been moving forward in the relationship "sirf Ruhi ke liye" from two people joined in marriage as a compromise to cordial inhabitants in the same room to friends..sab kuch Ruhi ke liye not for them as man and woman...During Accident track and Adi track it was a step in the direction of caring for and doing things for each other ... but the lines of communication as far as THEY are concerned and THEIR MARRIAGE / RELATIONSHIP has never been truly open...Ishita has told him clearly that her feelings for Subbu have "gone" and that she is happy with Ruhi and Raman and that is her future...Ishita has taken that first step to move forward in their marriage NOT for Ruhi's sake but for THEM...
HOWEVER, Raman has never as you clearly stated Ruby, EXPLICITLY STATED that he is OVER SHAGUN...Ishu in that convo they had at the friends party did say in not so many words that hate is the flip side of love and therefore to let it go but in order to solidify the doubt in Ishu's head he has to state that HE IS OVER SHAGUN..NO HATRED NO LOVE!
Its a given that shagun will always be part of their lives because she is the mother of Adi and Ruhi but because of Ishu's own infertility she feels slightly insecure and needs him to TELL HER that he has moved away from Shagun and is ready for a future with her and to make this marriage a success for them not just "sirf Ruhi ke liye".
At the end of the track I also see Ishra coming closer and solidifying their marriage by consumating it and confessing their love for one another. A good heart to heart about the past is STRONGLY needed between the two before that happens. Would love such an emotional scene from the two!
Woah..never write this much...so sorry for my ramblings!
And thanks guys for the LU's u give everyday!
Nina
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: chweetu

blame d writers for making OTT drama for dis bhai behen ka khulasa n mihir wl shout at ishu?oh wow yahi dekna reh gaya ta dat man hv no right to shout if he dont hv guts to tell d truth about his past!!bhai mere parents hote mihika k parents ke place mein they wl nvr gv my hand to him!!ye mihir ke amma ko manane ki tareeka humein samajh nahi ati :/


Seriously writers are hell bend on ruining the show.. But whatever mihir did not I felt it was wrong.. He told iyers before itself that he left his family n not in contact with n neither he wants to be in contact with his family members in future.. That tym they agreed for marriage.. If ishita had some issue regarding that she could hv told mihir until u tell abt ur past I'm not gonna let I marry mihika..
Edited by hellooooo - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: redwine1

PHEW !!!!


Why am i arguing .. I am not Sonali Jaffar .. & this aint my story to tell ... we can all agree to disagree & we will all be right simply coz .. each viewer interprets the story in his or her own way .. no way is the right way or wrong .. coz no interpretation of a creative work can be right or wrong ..

So this is my interpretation of the current track ... who cares whether its right or wrong .. its fun to passionately discuss it ..

So finally hitting the sack now .. neeni beckons ..

catch y'll on the other side of this drama tomorrow 😉



First of all I love your interpretations of the story.. Along with one or two great writers in the forum:)..
Raman may be attempting to move on but he still has anger towards shagun.. There are unresolved feelings there.. As u said and I agree that for him to truly move forward in a relationship, he needs to be at a place where he does not even have anger towards shagun because his present and future is so much more beautiful..

Despite the illogical way this was done, I loved today's episode. Ishita was never changed..
If u look at ishita and raman,, ishita had a heartbreak that makes her feel incomplete as a woman. But the way she has always dealt with it, is by having the heart of Gold and trusting the world more and bringing joy to all around her. Raman is also heartbroken, but he feels nothing but anger and that's how he deals with everyone around him, which includes not trusting anyone around him..

Now how do these 2 ppl come together.. It takes work and lessons learnt on both sides..

Ishita did not go looking for mihirs past. It came to her and being the good hearted woman she is, she wanted to unite the siblings because if u recall mihika expressed how much mihir missed his sister in that one moment he remembered her.
Edited by alin1113 - 11 years ago
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Posted: 11 years ago
My god!! I just can't believe the character ishita for which I loved the show..she is independent mature strong headed...But since the day she brought param home then shagun n now sanjana it's becoming intolerable for me to watch the show n that too only becoz of ishita character..,cvs hv ruined that character completely..today she just din't want to believe mihir.. No benefit of doubt for mihir from ishita's side.. She saw param with sanjana even then she believed her completely..I can't believe hw can one can be so dumb.. Fine she believed her but if wanted to unite she could hv easily made them meet in sowwhere outside there was no need to create drama in family function that too of her own sister.. Pathetic! Cvs just hell bend on ruining the so called mature show!
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Posted: 11 years ago
thank you all for the LU and different POV on the epi and discussion.! Phew!
I know we all get carried away with the show as we love it so much..but then we have to realize its afterall a show n everyone has their own interprations of it and whatever is shown is still "DRAMA" and not real life! (even though the show is as real as it can get to real life). But then TV Drama is Drama...! *sigh*

good night all...cya tmrw..going to watch the rain dance one more time again😳 as I cant get over it...need that badly to unwind myself aft this heavy discussion..

love you all 🤗
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Posted: 11 years ago
I felt Raman was saddened & felt sympathy for Ishita. His look when Shagun said to Ishu "apne pairo pe kulladi maar li" Raman's look that time was not of anger towards Ishita but care. How it will be trouble for Ishu as per Shagun I don't really see. At least truth came out. And it will only bring Ishra more closer.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: redwine1



Ur 2 cents woke me up darling ..

Heres my one cent ..

R v not forgetting why Shaggy did what she did .. ASSOAK ... & her marriage to him
Ass Oak & sunny boy have been conspicuous with their absence right 😳



Oh yeah ... forgot to add it even when I had thought about it ... Shagun wants to make sure she has a fallback option just in case ...

Dammit Ruby .. I hate you now ... mujhe firse AshLu yaad aa gaye ... 🤣
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Posted: 11 years ago
Ha!
Chalo good night!

Cv's can twist and turn this anyway they want... They have a lot of OTT drama in their pockets... None of us will every be absolutely right or wrong... I just want the cv's to handle the story in a more sensitive manner... Today was like my biggest nightmare... I am the only one who comes here to discuss read and analyse tracks.. But my family who watched it with me found it bakwaas and hilarious! Ands they don't visit IF... So the common viewer is left in confusion and embarrassment... They were telling me to change channel... Today's episode made me remember the Thappad Marathon in BALH.. After which I never watched that serial! 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: btalwar



Oh yeah ... forgot to add it even when I had thought about it ... Shagun wants to make sure she has a fallback option just in case ...

Dammit Ruby .. I hate you now ... mujhe firse AshLu yaad aa gaye ... 🤣


She said she was BLUE in the face.. and I am trying to keep a serious mind in this discussion🤣

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